Become an Alpha Male: Develop Compelling Charisma and Confdence, Appealing Charm, Archive Great Success and Become a Leader The Steps to become an Alpha male
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Preface The term Alpha male isn’t commonly used in our everyday conversations. Yet as men we know when we see a man that seems to “get it”; he knows what he wants, when he wants. In general, an alpha male is a person who is physically strong, well uilt and has some traits that !emales !ind eauti!ul and attractive. "o what does it take !or you to ecome an “alpha” male# $hen I wrote this ook I wanted to understand !or mysel! what makes these outliers o! men stand out. I wanted to see what %ualities they have that an average male can e ale to develop and ecome like one o! them. There are many topics and su&ects that are discussed in this ook that go in great detail as to what you need to do to change into an Alpha male. You’ll cover topics such as con!idence, having a good !ashion sense, using humor to your advantage in conversations and many more. They are all there to help you develop charisma, e charming and ecoming a leader in your everyday li!e. The topics are vast and might take some time to understand. 'ut i! you continue reading this ook and applying it to your li!e, soon enough you’ll e an alpha male yoursel!.
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Chapter 1: Be Confident (anly men are always con!ident. $hen you look at a politician, a singer, or any pulic speaker, the one thing that you’ll notice is that they carry themselves in a way that makes the audience !eel com!ortale listening to. It’s very natural !or people to e a ttracted to men that pro&ect their con!idence. "o what is it aout eing con!ident that alpha males have# )et’s take an in*depth look at this characteristic that alpha males have and how you can unlock this character and make yoursel! one step closer to ecoming an alpha male. 'eing con!ident doesn’t mean that you’re always cock y in every situation. There are times when you don’t have any idea o! a su&ect. 'ut eing %uiet and analy+ing the situation in a calm manner; this is what makes an alpha male con!ident. I! you’ve ever een in a group setting and were asked to volunteer, you’ve seen that there are certain men that volunteer themselves without any hesitation even i! the event a t hand may emarrass them. They don’t have the !eeling o ! putting their heads down and waiting until someone raises their hand. They have the con!idence that shows that they are manly enough to overcome the irrelevant emotions and make their presence known in the event. aving this kind o! con!idence may seem like it might not happen to you in your daily lives, ut regardless o! your age, uilding your con!idence will help you overcome your !ears in any situation and help you develop into ecoming an alpha male. “What other ways are there that Alpha males use to build their confidence?” As a matter o! !act, there are many ways that you can use daily to uild your sel!* con!idence as an alpha. ere are a !ew lists o! things that you can do in your daily livesSmile
The act o! smiling is %uite ama+ing at what it can accomplish. $hen you smile, not only do you make other people !eel happy ut you also make yoursel! !eel happy. You raise your con!idence signi!icantly when you smile. It changes your attitude whether you like it
or not. The net time you !eel down and depressed, &ust start smiling and see how it changes your world. /ot only will you start thinking positively, ut you’ll also make other people !eel good &ust eing around you. $hy do you think we get drawn to someone who smiles# It’s almost like a magnet. $e can’t help it. $e get attracted to the person and we &ust want to en&oy that person’s company. "o how does this help in eing an alpha male# I! you smile every now and then, you’ll make yoursel! !eel great and also attract the attention o! other people aroun d you. Set your goals and ACTUALLY get them done.
"etting a goal and achieving it is an important part o! uilding your con!idence. It helps to de!ine you and give you a sense o! accomplishment. The !eeling o! setting a goal and seeing to it that it’s !inished oosts your moral and con!idence signi!icantly. I! you don’t elieve me, try to set 0 goals on a notepad and set yoursel! to !inishing them at all cost. A!ter you !inish them, try to see how you !eel a!terwards. It’s a great !eeling o! satis!action. (aking sure that you set realistic goals and !inishing them will ring you closer to ecoming an alpha male. on!t sho" off
/o one likes a showo!!. And this rule eists !rom elementary kids to grown adults. $henever some is trying to show o!!, more times than not they’re trying to seek attention. "imilar to how a young child will make loud noises and distractions to get their parents attention, someone who shows o!! is usually seeking some !orm o! attention. I! you meet a 123 o! a large 4ores company, you won’t see them mentioning to your !ace how much money they’re making. They are under the impression that you’ve already guessed that without even asking. Alpha males don’t show o!! either. 5egardless o! the situation, they don’t need to show o!! ecause they have no need to seek your attention in a desperate manner. 4or you to e an alpha male, you should re!rain !rom showing o!! ecessively. There are times when you can show o!!, ut there’s no need to go as !ar as showing o!! how much
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money you have, how awesome your car is, or how ig your house is to others. 6eeping yoursel! humle will help you as a man develop towards eing an alpha male. Brush your teeth.
There are some things that go without saying. I! your reath is kicking, it’s aout time to go to the nearest vending machine or retail store and get some mint to get you through the day. As an alpha male, you always want to have !resh reath when you have conversations with people. There’s nothing more emarrassing than starting a talk with a person only to have them ecuse themselves only ecause they can’t stand the smell o! what you ate !or lunch. aving that !resh reath uilds your con!idence y assuring yoursel! that no matter who you talk to you’ll always have a good !irst image present. 'rush your teeth regularly a nd you’ll prevent yoursel! !rom any emarrassing situations and help yoursel! ecome an alpha male. Smiling
The act o! smiling is %uite ama+ing at what it can accomplish. $hen you smile, not only do you make other people !eel happy ut you also make yoursel! !eel happy. You raise your con!idence signi!icantly when you smile. It changes your attitude whether you like it or not. The net time you !eel down and depressed, &ust start smiling and see how it changes your world. /ot only will you start thinking positively, ut you’ll also make other people !eel good &ust eing around you. $hy do you think we get drawn to someone who smiles# It’s almost like a magnet. $e can’t help it. $e get attracted to the person and we &ust want to en&oy that person’s company. "o how does this help in eing an alpha male# I! you smile every now and then, you’ll make yoursel! !eel great and also attract the attention o! other people aroun d you. 1on!idence is an important part o! eing an alpha male. 4ollow the tips that we’ve discussed and you’ll soon notice your li!e changing. (ore people will egin to notice you and recogni+e you as an alpha.
Chapter #: Body language 'ody language is a regular part o! our communication as human eings. $hen you clap, you’re showing respect to another person. $hen you talk, you’re relaying in!ormation !rom yoursel! to another human eing. $hen you !rown at a child !or making a mess, you’re showing your emotions. 7sing your ody is part o! our language that we use to communicate with others. I! you want to e an alpha male, you need to develop a strong !undamental ody language. Things such as looking people in the eye when you’re talking to them, sitting upright with your legs open, not slouching and having an open ody language all are part o! having a dominant ody language that will help you to ecome a strong alpha male. ere are some tips on developing a good ody language to help you develop alpha male characteristics. Al"ays ma$e eye contact
(aking eye contact doesn’t mean that you have to stare at a person’s eyes !or a long period o! time while you’re talking to them. This is creepy and will de!initely scare the other person out. To e an alpha male is to know that you aren’t a!raid o! looking at people. It’s aout having no !ear o! con!ronting someone and maintaining eye contact during your conversation. As an alpha male, you’ll want to make constant eye contact to the other party that you’re talking to. /ot only does this show con!idence in your part, ut it also tells the other person that you are interested in them and have their !ull attention. %a&e a 'al$ing S"agger
The way that you walk should have a certain swagger to it. aving a swagger does not mean that you walk around with your pants hal!way down your legs. $hat it means is to walk in long slow strides. Alpha males walk this way ecause it shows that they are never in a rush. They are in control. I! you want to e an alpha male, you need to e walk in a way that shows that you’re important. 8eople respect you and know that you have a
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purpose. $alk like you’re the most important person in the whole world 9 not &ust in the work setting, ut in your everyday lives. (ood Posture
$hen you look at most guys, usually you’ll see how ad their postures are. $hy do you think they have ad postures# The main culprit is the hait that we’ve all grown up with ever since we were kids. It’s a natural hait to slouch slightly to counter ac t gravity and !eel com!ortale. $hen you consider alpha males, they always walk upright with their chest out showing dominance and making their presence known. Sit properly
There are many ways that you can sit on a chair. :epending on your pre!erence, there are ways that you sit that are com!ortale !or you. Alpha males sit with their legs open and sit upright. I! you do decide to sit with your leg on top o! the other, then you should always have your ankle over the other. :on’t put one knee over the other ecause this will make you seem !eminine. aving your legs wide open makes your presence known to others. This is how alpha males sit that is proper. )irm handsha$es
$hen giving a handshake, there are di!!erent cultures that have di!!erent ways o! greeting each other. iving a handshake is a lot more than &ust graing someone’s arm and moving it up and down loosely. A person can tell a lot aout the other male y the !orm o! their handshake. A strong handshake shows dominance. A weak handshake reveals a lack o! con!idence or power. (aking sure that your handshakes are always !irm will help you ecome &ust like an alpha male. 4ollowing these ody language gestures will not only oost your con!idence, u t will help you make a great impression every time you converse with any numer o! people in any setting. 6eep note o! these tips and you’ll continue to progress towards ecoming an alpha male.
Chapter *: Be a +ing , -a$e your presence $no"n $hen a king walks into his courtyard, he doesn’t have to state who he is. The simple act o! his presence eing in a room is !ully acknowledged y everyone else. There are trumpets that are lown, people cheering at his name, paths made !or him to walk on. 3! course this is a it more like the old times in the great kingdoms o! 2ngland. There’s no chance o! that happening to you in our present day. 'ut what you can do is to make your presence acknowledged when you enter a room and also while eing in a large group o! people. So what can you do to make your presence known? A way that you can make your presence known is y how you present yoursel!. aving a good appearance will always help to make your presence acknowledged in a group setting, ut it isn’t the most important thing. aving a good voice and stating your %uestions and points clearly and precisely ca n change the !ocus !rom something all the way to you completely. 'e con!ident when you talk a nd don’t sound like you’re reading !rom a tetook. 'y talking naturally and comining it with a good posture and ody language, you’re making yoursel! ecome like an alpha male; a king mimic. %o" you say "hat you say
It’s isn’t enough to simply state what you have in your mind. I! you were a king, you would e held responsile over speaking to a large congregation o! your kingdom. You’d need to epress your point o! view e!!ectively and also taking note o! the crowd that you’re speaking to. 5eading the atmosphere o! the situation is important when deciding how you’d relay the message to the other party. As an alpha male, when you’re in a situation where you deal with people, you want to show that you have the know*how o! addressing them with any type o! news. 6nowing when you need to show com!ort and when you need to e !irm in your tone; keeping a alance etween these two sides will make you keep your presence known well and also to make yoursel! ecome like a king.
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%a&e a +ing!s aura
I! you want to e treated with respect !rom other people, you need to watch the way you carry yoursel!. /ot talking with vulgar language and speaking with in a respect!ul way will inspire the other people to do the same towards you. $hen kings address a group o! people, he will act in a manner that shows con!idence in his powers; shows that there is a reason why he wears a crown. An alpha male has the characteristic o! a king and other power!ul people. $hen they speak they a!!ect an average man’s aura y creating a !eeling that they’re underneath them. It isn’t in a way that is disrespect!ul ut shows that they hav e a knowledge that is at a higher level in comparison to them. There are ways that you can use to rein!orce your alpha male status that resemles a king. I! you make a old statement every time you talk to someone, you’re not only setting yoursel! in a position o! one with greatness, ut also shows that you have an unwavering resolve. You are in control o! the situation and you are the one that sets the !low o! things. It seems like a sel!ish way to e ut it really isn’t. $hen you set yoursel! to have high goals in li!e, you’re not only setting high achievements !or yoursel!, ut you’re pushing your limits eyond the average man. As an alpha male, the act o! striving !or great things will !low towards other people around you and you will e treated with a lot o! respect. It really all goes ack to the way you act. 'y acting in a way that shows dignity and pride, you create a sort o! distance etween you and those that around you. You’re not eing arrogant; you’re simply showing your alpha male characteristics that resemle that o! a king.
Chapter : %umor
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aving a sense o! humor also makes you !unny. $e all love a laugh or two and having someone who will always guarantee something !unny every time we talk to them makes them more approachale and also makes them desirale towards !emales. $hen you ring humor to a !riend or a group o! people, you ring li!e, optimism and a positive energy to the area. A good sense o! humor that makes people laugh will help people temporarily !orget aout their hardships in li!e and simply en&oy the laughter that you’ve rought to them and help them get y with their day. Strengthen 0elationships
8eople love others that have positive attitudes and ring laughter to their lives. I! you ring &oy and laughter to each one o! your relationships, whether it is your !amily, !riends or your special ones, the ond that you’ve !ormed with them will e rein!orced and made to e stronger than it ever was e!ore. A person with a sense o! humor makes them easier to approach and also more !riendly. I! you were a serious person, not a lot o! people would e drawn to you. A great %uality that having a sense o! humor has is that it can reak awkward situations and relieve any tension in any situation.
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An alpha male that has a sense o! humor is ale to relieve stress !or themselves and !or others. $hen you &oke around, you ease the mind o! others and keep the place !illed with laughter and &oy especially when you arrive at a gathering where there’s no comedy or &okes that are used towards the people. You as an alpha male with a sense o! humor can turn these oring situations to eing a right and !un area to e.
=ualities such as what we’ve discussed aove are all part o! a small characteristic that alpha males have. aving a sense o! humor allows you to ring a sort o! natural medicine to people’s lives and help oost their lives.
Chapter : )ashion Sense aving a good !ashion sense goes is something that you have to have nowadays. $hen you are trying to ecome an alpha male, you don’t want to e wearing clothes that make you look like you’re !rom the streets or don’t have any sense o! style. (aking that !irst impression to anyone is important towards stating yoursel! as an alpha male. ere are a !ew tips that you should take to help you develop a good sense o! style that re!lects your con!idence and oost your alpha male charisma. Listen to girls
This is where you have to give respect to where it’s due. (ost o! your !riends that are !emales will > times out o! ?@ have a good !ashion sense that can come in handy to help you out. I! you see that there are a lot o! people giving you a !unny look or maye commenting on your clothes as i! it’s out o! style, it might e time to change your gear. To e an alpha male means that you know how to dress !or the occasion and also !or any casual situations. Take some advice !rom your girl!riend, wi!e, and maye your mother as well. There are many articles that are posted o nline that will give you many di!!erent tips !or guys on how to dress properly. )ollo" the trend
4ashion is always changing, and &ust like an old carton o! milk, once it epires it’s time !or the !resh one to come in and replace the old. A good place to check on what the latest trend is y developing a keen eye on what kind o! clothes most men are wearing. There are many trendsetters and take some Stay in Shape
4inding the right clothes to wear won’t help i! you’re not in shape. This doesn’t mean that you have to change your ody si+e to ecome like the ercules. 2veryone has a di!!erent ody shape and metaolism. 'ut in order to have a stronger alpha presence you need to eat healthy and keep your ody !it. "taying in shape doesn’t only apply towards the physical aspect. 'eing in shape mentally also has an e!!ect in your !ashion sense. ow# I! you relieve yoursel! !rom stress, e more con!ident, and then suconsciously you will make your ody match your mental staility and in turn keep yoursel! !it. aving a good ehavior and attitude also improves the way that your !ashion sense is as an alpha male. Stay true to yourself
2veryone has a di!!erent personality and style that they pre!er to dress up. There are thousands o! styles out there that will help you look and !eel com!ortale wearing. Alpha males are not the ultimate !orm that only has one style o! clothing. ust ecause someone who looks good wearing Bersace doesn’t mean that it’ll work !or you. As an alpha male, you can !ind clothes that !it your style and make you look dominant with your ody uild.
Chapter 2: Be a flirt
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$ith the large amount o! con!idence that comes with eing an alpha male, you get to have a !ew perks in the ladies department. Yes, this is proaly what you’ve een looking !orward to. It’s not uncommon to !ind guys who are &ust natural when it co mes to picking up girls. I! you’ve ever watched the show ow I (et Your (other, then you’d know aout 'arney "tinson. It always seems like he’s always getting the girls with a simple corny line that would never work with anyone else. 5egardless o! the !act that he’s !ictional, he resemles what an alpha male would do. 4lirt. 'eing a !lirt doesn’t mean that you’re a dog that’s constantly hunting !or women. 4lirting can also e applied when talking to any women. It’s a great tension reaker. $hen you’re conversing with a !emale, i! the conversation is too serious, more than likely they will tune you out. 'ut i! you simply talk to them in a !un and play!ul way, you’ll keep the conversation lively and eciting. As the conversation continues, you’ll e ale to en&oy yoursel! and the !emale will also en&oy talking to you. It’s a win*win deal. Also eing a !lirtatious person doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re always looking to get into a woman’s pants. That’s not always the case. 'eing !lirtatious with a !emale can help you to gain new !riends. The term “!lirting” is &ust another way o! saying “how to talk to girls without looking and !eeling nervous”. As a man, we are oligated to start the conversations with any woman that we encounter. I! you are a shy person, then this may e a challenge !or you. )lirt to -a$e )riends
Alpha males don’t have to worry aout having the !ear o! talking to a !emale. It comes naturally to them. $omen love to have a good time. /o matter what age they are. 'eing !lirtatious with a !emale in a !un and play!ul way will help reak the ice when talking to them and help you continue talking to them. 'y doing this, you’re making them en&oy your company and continue to talk to you.
(i&e to gi&e3 not only to recei&e
$hen we !lirt as men, we usually have one goal in mind. This goal that we have is a natural hait that we have as humans. 'ut in our modern day, we’re more civili+ed than that. $henever we strive to get something in return !or what we do, we eventually lose that !eeling o! !un. $hen you have a conversation with a !emale or anyone in general where you give the gi!t o! laughter, you’re more than likely guaranteed some attention !rom them. The conversation will egin to e more interesting and you’ll end up getting more !rom the other person. )lirt for fun
The more !un you have doing something, the more interested in it you ecome. $hen you !lirt with a !emale, you should have some !un with it. It shouldn’t !eel like a chore that you have to do on certain occasions. The more you !lirt, the more you’ll do it !or !un without thinking o! wanting something in return. 4lirt with her and make sure that she’s en&oying her time with you. As an alpha male, you have a sole duty to please your audience, or in this case the !emale. (aking sure that she’s having !un and en&oying hersel! will not only help you h ave some !un ut make her e turn*on y you. )lirt "ith e&erything
This seems !unny to say ut i! you !lirt with everyone that you aren’t showing that you’re desperate !or attention. 5ather you’re creating an open mind that will e !illed with multiple eperiences that you can use in your arsenal when !lirting with !emales. 4lirt with every !emale, child and animal that you encounter. You’re not !lirting to have an intimate relationship with a monkey or dog. It’s all aout developing a skill in communicating with other people in a more &oy!ul manner. Alpha males make sure that they !lirt to a certain degree with everyone they encounter in order to make them !eel happy and have !un talking to them. This helps the audience have a long lasting memory o! the alpha male in their minds. This is very important ecause you’re slowly ut consistently making your impression in people and they in return will voluntarily talk aout you in a good heart to you and to others. This is also a secret to
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how some people are ale to gain over 0@@@ !riends on 4aceook even though they don’t get the chance to talk to all o! them every da y. 4lirting can get you to high places in li!e. A !ew things to know when you start !lirtingStart "ith an indirect 4uestion
"tarting a conversation with something esides your na me, age, work, and !amily is a great way to start !lirting with a girl. It causes them to e intrigued in the conversation y making them curious as to how you’re going to carry the conversation. The art of teasing
'eing a tease is a great way to have !un with the conversation. Asking ovious %uestions and !ollowing up with a serious comment on how you were &ust &oking is how you can start the teasing in your !lirtatious escapades. You start the con&ersation and lea&e it first.
As an alpha male, you always want to e in control o! the conversation. 'eing the leader o! the talk is like taking a person on a road trip to a !oreign land. You’re the driver and host o! the epress train going to the !oreign land. $hen you’re almost done talking to her, you want to leave the conversation !irst. The last thing you wa nt is !or her to say, “$ould you look at the time” or “I’ve got to get going”. The last thing you want is !or all o! your work to go down the drain. 'e in control o! the conversation and end it on your own terms.
Chapter 5: Spea$ Clearly
To ecome an alpha male, you’re going to need to e an ecellent communicator. You simply can’t avoid this. There’s also a reason why I said a good communicator and not a talker. 'eing a good talker versus a good communicator are two di!!erent things. As a communicator, you have the skill that isn’t learned in the academic setting. In class you are taught vocaulary, how to deliver, synta and all the other aspects o! talking. Although these things are essential to the !unda mentals o! eing a good communicator, they are &ust stepping stones. aving a keen oservation and awareness is what separates great speakers !rom the average person. 8rime eamples o! ecellent communicators have eisted throughout history. 8eople such as :r. (artin )uther 6ing, 8resident Araham )incoln and 123 o! 4ord (otor 1o. Alan (ulally are the per!ect eamples o! people that have great communicators. These men and many others have !ollowed some principles that have led them to ecome who they are today. on!t Lie
It’s something that your parents always tell you not to do. )ie. $hen you speak the truth, people will trust you. $hen people see that you as a leader are credile and worthy o! their trust, then they will do tasks that they would never do i! their leader wasn’t trustworthy. Trust is a very !ragile, yet strong character to have. Alpha males encompass this %uality to get people to trust them. $hen you reak the trust that you’ve develop ed with others, it’s very hard !or it to e reuilt ack to the way it !ormerly was. Be Specific
Always communicate with clarity. 6now what you want to say, e!ore you say it. 'y eing concise and simple with your points, you make things a lot easier !or people to understand. You also save people time. Time is something that is very precious in our modern day. $asting someone’s time is not acceptale and will make them lose their attention towards you. Your goal as a communicator is to remove all unnecessary in!ormation and ring your conversations to a point y making each word count. Shut up and listen
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There’s a time to talk and there’s a time to listen. 6nowing when to listen to the people is an important thing to know when you’re communicating. "tanding there and talking the whole time won’t help you interact at a more intimate level with your audience. To e a great communicator and alpha male, you need to understand that there’s a time when you should stop talking, listen and take in what other people have to say. As$ 6uestions
To e a good communicator, you must know how to respond with oth statements and %uestions. The %uestions that you ask should show the audience con!irmation that you’ve understood what you’ve een told. There are times when you’ll talk to someone and you’ll !ind it irritating when you ask i! they u nderstood what you were saying, and all you get !or an answer is “uh huh” or “yea yea”. $hen you are the one that is listening, you should pay close attention to what the speaker is saying. 'y asking %uestions that repeat points that were told earlier, you’ll show that you were ?C listening and DC have a clear understanding o! what was eing told. You should also ask !or clari!ication on some topics that were mentioned. As the speaker, you can ask %uestions that ask the listener whether they understood what you were saying. This way you can pace yoursel! to the audience’s speed, and also make sure that they !ollow you through each point that you make. Alpha males know when to ask these %uestions when they are talking. This helps them to stay in control o! the conversation and also help them to know what points they need to speak more clearly !or the listener to understand well. Spea$ to large audiences as if they "ere an indi&idual
To e a good communicator means that you won’t have the chance to talk to everyone individually. That would e a waste o! time and you would e very ehausted i! you could accomplish this !eat. You are going to need to alter your message in such a way that multiple people will !eel as though you were speaking to them directly as only one person. 6nowing how to use this characteristic will signi!icantly help you ecome a great speaker and alpha male.
There will also e times when you might need to change the message that you’re communicating to your audience. These situations are rare ut they do happen and there’s a possiility that it can turn ad. I! your epertise, clarity and methods o! communicating don’t %uite work well with your audience, then you’ll need to use other tactics to connect to them. "kills such as humor, stories, %uestions and any relevant data will help you to relate to your audience and ring con!idence to yoursel! and help you come ack to eing a good communicator.
Chapter 7: 8m9race )ailure You’ve heard the old saying, “!ailure is not an option”. This phrase is used with people that have some sort o! goal and are willing to do whatever it takes to achieve it. It’s a valiant way o! striving to do great things and is well respected among many men to see someone willing to go to the ends o! the universe to reach something. The %uestion is Ecan !ailure '2 an option#E It’s not always the case when someone is lucky the !irst time that the try to accomplish something. ust like the !irst time that you tried to learn how to read and write. 4or those o! us who aren’t natural savants, it proaly took a while !or us to !ully grasp what the alphaet was and how words were !ormed with the cominations o! di!!erent letters. Trying to e per!ect also means many !ailures. There are many p eople that try to ecome per!ect in everything that they do. $hether it is in your grades in school, the pro&ect that you’re assigned at work, or even a usiness venture that is not popular among people; everyone wants to e per!ect in everything that they do. Trying all o! these things, you’ve proaly !aced some t ype o! !ailure and the pain that you !elt each time you made an attempt to succeed hurt. It sucks. /ot only does it suck when you !ail ut there are times when other people will think that you r !ailure means that you have no chance o! eing success!ul and will re&ect you. The !act that you’re !ailing doesn’t mean that it’s the end o! the road !or you. I! you want to ecome an alpha male, you’ll have to reali+e that no matter what other people think o!
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your !ailures, you shouldn’t let them change your momentum Fyes, you do in !act have momentum, even i! it seems that you’re not going anywhere at the momentC. In our world today, there are many success!ul men who are the per!ect eamples o! alpha males that used their multiple !ailures to help them get to their current position in society. These men in history had to !ace large ostacles that led them to put 0@@G into their work ethic and have a determination that was as !ierce as a dragon’s roar. ere are some eamples o! alpha males that !aced large mountains that they had to clim to get to their position today?. r&ille and 'il9ur 'right: These two rothers had a dream o! creating a plane that would !ly into the sky and stay airorne !or long periods o! time. They didn’t &ust come up with an idea and role !rom there. "omething that isn’t mentioned to the pulic is that they had !aced a lot o! depression in their lives. They a lso had a !amily sickness e!ore they started the icycle shop. This slowly rought the path towards their eperimentation o! !light. $hen they attempted to make planes tha t could !ly, they !ailed several times. (any things went wrong during each !light. 8ropellers reaking, wrong weather conditions, and many small issues that kept on ringing them down. 'ut they never %uit. They emraced each !ailure, took notes to learn !rom their mistakes, and continued on until they were ale to make a plane that could sustain !light !or a long period o! time. D. %enry )ord: The !ounder and maker o! one o! the largest automoile companies in the world didn’t start out as success!ul as how he’s made out to e. In !act, many o! his usiness ventures e!ore the 4ord 1ompany !ailed and le!t him roke more than !ive times. H. Soichiro %onda: The multi*illion dollar company that is world renown didn’t simply start out eing success!ul. "oichiro onda started out with a lot o! !ailures. 'e!ore the onda 1ompany was even created, (r. onda applied !or a &o position as an engineer at Toyota (otor 1orporation. Instead o! eing hired, he was denied and le!t him &oless !or a while. e egan making scooters in his own garage and caused his neighors to e impressed and motivate him to start his
own usiness. A !ew years later a!ter many ostacles and hardships, the onda (otor 1o. was on its way to ecome the success!ul usiness that it is today. . Bill (ates: /ow as the richest man in the world, it’s very hard to think o! a man o! his calier landing on this list o! success!ul alpha men that had !ailures in their lives. 'ill ates had dropped out o! arvard to start his own usiness, only to !ind it low up in his !ace. It isn’t heard o! toda y ut the !irst usiness that he started together with (icroso!t co*!ounder 8aul Allen was called Tra!*3*:ata. It didn’t %uite work the way that the wanted it to go, and learning !rom their !ailure rought 'ill ates to uild the large empire that is now known as (icroso!t. . A$io -orita: is name isn’t world renown ut you’ve proaly used many
products !rom his company, "ony. is company’s !irst product was a rice cooker that wasn’t a success ecause it didn’t cook rice very well. In !act, it urnt the rice and was only ?@@ units were sold. e was ale to look over this !ailure, learn !rom it, and use it to create his multi*illion dollar company. J. %arland a&id Sanders: ave you ever had the delicious chicken !rom 641# It’s all thanks to this man who is etter known as 1olonel "anders. Things weren’t always as delicious in the eginnings. In !act his secret recipe wasn’t accepted the !irst time he proposed it. It was re&ected over ?@@@ times e!ore the restaurant was accepted. /onetheless he was ale to continue !orward amidst the re&ections. K. 'alt isney: It’s strange to think that the man who !ound the company that rakes in illions o! dollars each year !rom movies, merchandise and theme parks around the world would have any type o! !ailures in his li!e. 'e!ore his company was as success!ul as it is today, he was !ired !rom a newspaper editorial position ecause he “lacked any imagination and didn’t have any good ideas”. A!ter he le!t that &o, he egan a !ew usinesses that didn’t really last long and ended up an krupting and lowing up in his !ace. :espite all o! this, he kept pushing on and somehow was ale to !ind the recipe that led to his company eing success!ul. L. Al9ert 8instein: $hen you think o! Alert 2instein, you think o! a person that is a genius to a point where it’s eyond human. Yet he wasn’t always seen in this
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light. e wasn’t ale to talk until the age o! !our and wasn’t ale to read until the age o! seven. This made his teachers conclude that he was mentally handicapped, anti*social and a it slow. It wasn’t long e!ore he was epelled !rom school and was re!used to e admitted ack into the school called Murich 8olytechnic. e went through many di!!erent ostacles in his li!e that ended up ringing him to win the /oel 8eace 8ri+e, change the way we look at physics o! our world and also help with the reali+ation that an atomic om is possile. >. Thomas 8dison: The man that is known as the creator o! the light ul. :uring his early childhood, he was told y his teachers as a child who was “too stupid to learn anything.” As an adult it wasn’t any di!!erent either. e was !ired !rom his !irst two &os !or not eing productive enough !or the &o. )ater on as an inventory, he made over ?@@@ trials that !ailed in attempt to make a light ul that works. It took this many tries e!ore he !inally resulted in the design that worked. ?@. prah 'infrey: /ot to !orget that having alpha characteristics is not limited to males, 3prah $in!rey is one o! the women that !aced many hardships e!ore achieving their success that they have today. 3prah $in!rey, e!ore ecoming one o! TBs most iconic !aces had a long and hard road in her li!e. "he had an ausive childhood and multiple career down!alls that roke her spirit many times. "he also !aced a possiility o! eing !ired !rom her &o as a TB reporter all ecause she wasn’t “!it” enough !or TB. "mall things like that could have rought her down and completely shatter her dream o! ecoming a great TB reporter and entrepreneur. 4acing those ostacles helped to shape her mind, ody and soul to help her endeavor to ecome one o! the richest and most success!ul women in the world.
There are many more men Fand womenC that had !ailed miseraly e!ore making it in their careers. This goes to show that perseverance is what it takes to make it in this world. /o matter how much hardships you !ace, i! you really want to make your dream come true, then you should accept de!eat and !ailure ecause it could e the start o! a path o! your !uture career in the !ield that you love.
Always rememer that you are not per!ect. You are human and you will make mistakes. To e an alpha male, you should understand your !ailures are simply ingredients in the recipe that you need to taste that sweetness called success. (ost o! the people that we’ve listed have all had many down!alls in their lives. 'ut most o! them will proaly tell you right now that they wouldn’t have it any other way i! they had a chance to repeat their lives and change their mistakes. The !ailures are like war scars; they are there to remind you o! the pain and toil that you went through to get you to where you are now. )ook ack on your !ailures as checkpoints towards your success. They eisted to add more satis!action and sweetness to your li!e. Those that never had the chance to eperience the risks that you took and !ace the hardships that you went through will never understand what you are !eeling right now.
Conclusion
Thank you again for downloading this book! I hope this book was able to help you to reveal your inner alpha male. The information here is not simply meant for you to use it as a step by step instruction booklet that will make you an alpha male overnight. Look at this book as a stepping stone to the path on becoming an alpha male. It will take some time and dedication to change your lifestyle. But you can be able to do it if you simply make yourself believe and know that following this book will bring you closer to your desired goal; being an alpha male.
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The next step is to take your time to read each part of this book and apply it in your everyday lives. Try to think of times where you know that you can use the tips entailed in this book on. ou might not be able to accomplish being confident at first but if you keep on practicing your alpha male alter ego you"ll soon find yourself being the center of attention and making your alpha male ego become your natural ego. It will soon become so natural that you won"t even notice it yourself. #inally if you en$oyed this book please take the time to share your thoughts and post a review on %ma&on. It7d be greatly appreciated! Thank you and good luck!
