LOVE OR ABOVE By Christie Marie Sheldon Chapter 1 -Higher Vibrations and You Hi, I'm Christie Marie and I'm an intuitive consultant. I look into people's lives and what I notice most is that clients call me for two main reasons. No.1: To et answers, to !e more aware and intuitive for themselves. No.": To shift and chane somethin in their life. Clients will !e sa#in to me, $If I could %ust shift this one thin then m# life would !e successful&. It's alwa#s that one pro!lem that %ust naws at #ou and mostl# it's a!out love and relationships and ettin thins to look a certain wa# with their famil#. More than mone#, this is what people call me a!out. (o if #ou could chane one thin riht now in #our life, what would #ou chane) I love how smart people are, I do. The people that call for consultation are lookin for real answers. The# are either tr#in to address the real reason the# cannot et their life to !e a certain wa# or the#'re callin to see the future so the# can o that route or the# can chane it. *ecause #ou can chane #our future with the riht tools + how smart is that) It's also reat that people like #ou know that the place and space to chane #our life is reall# from the spiritual side. It's the transformational place where real chane occurs. (o aain, if #ou could chane one thin riht now, what would it !e) hat is the one area of #our life that #ou would like to choose the !est version of) Ma#!e it's to help #our kids and famil# in some wa#. Ma#!e to have a !etter relationship. -r ma#!e it's %ust to open up to the the spiritual side and et a deeper, deeper level of happiness and love in #ourself. nd how a!out !ein more intuitive and aware so that #ou can trust #ourself) That's mainl# wh# I kept alinin m#self with love, truth and /uestionin ever#thin. I lived m# life intuitivel# !ecause I found that it's the onl# wa# that I can reall# live and !e happ#. I needed to know at the end of the da# that I was makin aware choices that were in m# !est interest and in the hihest ood of all those around me. (elf0lovin actions came from these in/uiries. !ove all else I think that's wh# people call me the# want a fact checker: If I do this or this, does it !rin me m# desired outcome and where does m# life lead) Is m# kid in the !est school for his self0rowth) If I take this %o! will I like the people I work with) ll this and more is availa!le !# connectin to #our spiritual side. hat happens is the more #ou know, the !etter #our life can !e. (ome people use their spiritual skills to manifest a soul0mate or a life with plent# of a!undance and health, love, wealth and happiness. The one thin I know for sure: that that if someone is willin to invest in this this series and in themselves to connect to their spiritual nature and et answers for themselves, I know for sure #our life will et !etter. nd it will !e tremendousl# !etter in some wa# + in three months, in 12 months, and even four #ears down the road. nd I am so happ# for #ou. *ecause #ou'll !e a!le to trust #ourself with this new awareness + it !ecomes a wa# of
livin that #ou can never o !ack from. Total empowerment for #ou and the people #ou love. I'm oin to assist #ou with what I consider the most important thin #ou can do for #our famil# and #ourself + and I refer to this as raisin #our consciousness. 3our consciousness is the aware part of #ou connected to the hihest vi!ration #ou can !e in #our !od#. *ein connected to this ives #ou an ede that #ou ma# not know k now a!out. If #ou raise #our consciousness #ou et connected to the place where real freedom is. It's a space where all the knowlede, the know0how, the happiness, the %o# and the !liss e4ist + #ou can live that wa#. It's all around #ou #ou %ust have to know how to access it. lot of people look at life and o, $-h, I'll !e happ# when I have this or this in m# life.& -r $hen I have mone#, then I'll !e happ#.& -r $hen I'm thin, then I'll !e happ#.& -r whatever #our fill0in0the0!lank is. *# the wa#, what is #our fill0 in0the0!lank) 3ou'll !e happ# when what occurs) If I do this or this, does it !rin me m# desired outcome and where does m# life lead) Is m# kid in the !est school for his self0rowth) If I take this %o! will I like the people I work with) It doesn't work the wa# #ou think it does. 3ou have to !e happ# first and then when all the other thins happen #ou're alread# happ#. ll the other thins will happen and maneti5e to #ou !ecause #ou are alread# happ#. (o raisin #our consciousness is what ives #ou this happiness, raisin #our vi!ration. 3our life is the effect of #ou either !ein connected connected to #our spiritual side consciousl#, consciousl#, or oin with the flow, !ein reactive and !ein the effect of all #our e4periences, mindsets and prorammin. It's onl# reall# two choices: 3ou either connect to #our spiritual side and control #our life or 3ou o with the flow and have no control. It's a choice to connect and have authorit# in #our realit# ever#thin else is %ust a choice and it's free will. hen #ou connect to the spiritual side of thins #our vi!ration shifts, #our life ets easier, all those anuishin emotions su!side and #our life !ecomes a lot easier than #ou ma# think. 6reat stuff does not usuall# occur when #ou are fearful, worried and anuished. (o I'm here he re to assist #ou in choosin the tools and usin these tools that I received and that supported me in ettin pro!lem0free, happ# and reall# reat life. (ince we're oin to !e spendin some time toether I'd like to share a little !it a!out m#self if that's alriht with #ou. I have what I consider a fantastic life. I et to make a difference in people's world and their families' life. I am known for helpin people !# usin m# spiritual ifts, m# intuition, raisin their consciousness and awareness. I have a lot of people who come to me for uidance on their pro!lems, help with manifestin a different realit# and in openin and usin their own intuition and spiritual ifts. I look at m#self as a facilitator for consciousness, kind of like a cheerleader and a coach all rolled in one. *ut !asicall# I assist clients in !ecomin who the# reall# are. I am so luck# that I et to see people on a dail# !asis, turn their lives around and receive more of themselves. More %o#, more love, more peace, more lauhter. I receive reat %o# 0 it's m# pleasure in helpin people et their life their wa#. It's also m# pleasure to help #ou create #our life #our wa# so that #ou too can reall#, reall# en%o# the life of #our choosin.
livin that #ou can never o !ack from. Total empowerment for #ou and the people #ou love. I'm oin to assist #ou with what I consider the most important thin #ou can do for #our famil# and #ourself + and I refer to this as raisin #our consciousness. 3our consciousness is the aware part of #ou connected to the hihest vi!ration #ou can !e in #our !od#. *ein connected to this ives #ou an ede that #ou ma# not know k now a!out. If #ou raise #our consciousness #ou et connected to the place where real freedom is. It's a space where all the knowlede, the know0how, the happiness, the %o# and the !liss e4ist + #ou can live that wa#. It's all around #ou #ou %ust have to know how to access it. lot of people look at life and o, $-h, I'll !e happ# when I have this or this in m# life.& -r $hen I have mone#, then I'll !e happ#.& -r $hen I'm thin, then I'll !e happ#.& -r whatever #our fill0in0the0!lank is. *# the wa#, what is #our fill0 in0the0!lank) 3ou'll !e happ# when what occurs) If I do this or this, does it !rin me m# desired outcome and where does m# life lead) Is m# kid in the !est school for his self0rowth) If I take this %o! will I like the people I work with) It doesn't work the wa# #ou think it does. 3ou have to !e happ# first and then when all the other thins happen #ou're alread# happ#. ll the other thins will happen and maneti5e to #ou !ecause #ou are alread# happ#. (o raisin #our consciousness is what ives #ou this happiness, raisin #our vi!ration. 3our life is the effect of #ou either !ein connected connected to #our spiritual side consciousl#, consciousl#, or oin with the flow, !ein reactive and !ein the effect of all #our e4periences, mindsets and prorammin. It's onl# reall# two choices: 3ou either connect to #our spiritual side and control #our life or 3ou o with the flow and have no control. It's a choice to connect and have authorit# in #our realit# ever#thin else is %ust a choice and it's free will. hen #ou connect to the spiritual side of thins #our vi!ration shifts, #our life ets easier, all those anuishin emotions su!side and #our life !ecomes a lot easier than #ou ma# think. 6reat stuff does not usuall# occur when #ou are fearful, worried and anuished. (o I'm here he re to assist #ou in choosin the tools and usin these tools that I received and that supported me in ettin pro!lem0free, happ# and reall# reat life. (ince we're oin to !e spendin some time toether I'd like to share a little !it a!out m#self if that's alriht with #ou. I have what I consider a fantastic life. I et to make a difference in people's world and their families' life. I am known for helpin people !# usin m# spiritual ifts, m# intuition, raisin their consciousness and awareness. I have a lot of people who come to me for uidance on their pro!lems, help with manifestin a different realit# and in openin and usin their own intuition and spiritual ifts. I look at m#self as a facilitator for consciousness, kind of like a cheerleader and a coach all rolled in one. *ut !asicall# I assist clients in !ecomin who the# reall# are. I am so luck# that I et to see people on a dail# !asis, turn their lives around and receive more of themselves. More %o#, more love, more peace, more lauhter. I receive reat %o# 0 it's m# pleasure in helpin people et their life their wa#. It's also m# pleasure to help #ou create #our life #our wa# so that #ou too can reall#, reall# en%o# the life of #our choosin.
In m# own life I have a rich famil# life, lovin friends and a rewardin and nurturin relationship with a reall# reat man. M# life is !lissful and %o#ful. ll m# needs are taken care of, usuall# !efore I ask. I set it up that wa# it's an internal proram that I run. I wake up ever# mornin and I'm awed. I look out m# !edroom and I have a view to live for. It's a series of mountains that turns a pink or salmon color each mornin when the sun hits it. I have ancient oak trees and hawks that fl# !# durin the da#. I live in a resort area where people come to vacation. The !each is "2 minutes awa# and the people are friendl#. I've travelled all over the world and had career success. I've !een on top radio shows and done well over 12,222 consultations with people searchin for answers to live the life of their dreams. I have even travelled on private planes with Mrs. 6or!atchev and talked a!out love. I've travelled and en%o#ed the compan# of other famous leaders in the world of spiritual development, relationship success and !usiness success. I manifested this %o#ful, lovin a!undant life all !ecause I was willin to open up to m# intuition and spiritual ifts. M# life wasn't alwa#s this wa#, thouh. 7arl# in life I struled. I picked horri!le !o#friends, I was !roke and I worked three %o!s to pa# for school. I worked reall# hard and never reall# knew how to et a life I desired. I rew up in a small town no!od# around me was huel# successful and a lot of the folks didn't reall# seem that positive. I manaed to move out of this small town to the cit#. I onl# had 892 in m# pocket. Thouh I struled and I did lose a lot of faith in m#self sometimes, I eventuall# found m# wa# out. -ne da#, after a heartfelt $M# life has ot to chane now& kind of pra#er, I walked into a !ookstore a !ook literall# fell of a !ookshelf, landed at m# feet and tauht me how to connect to m# spiritual side and manifest. In m# innocence I applied the method in a series of s#nchronicities, opened up to the universe and supplied me with all m# re/uests. I mean, in a little while I had a lu4urious lifest#le. nd I'm talkin reall# lu4urious, five0star all the wa#, multiple homes, e4pensive cars and lots of fun. I travelled a lot and met man# people well0versed in manifestin principles. I soaked it all up. I met a u# and had a lot of love in m# life. M# manifestin went !e#ond the scope of an#thin I'd ever imained, all !ecause I applied certain tools and techni/ues consistentl# and made a heartfelt pra#er one da#. fter 12 #ears I made a life shift and decided to help more people. The simplest thins in life, love, and makin a difference in people's lives are reall# what's important to me. eople started callin me for intuitive uidance and I haven't looked !ack. I started uidin and teachin them and what I learned and what the# learned, their whole life started to !lossom. *efore I knew it I had more clients than I could imaine and the# all started sendin me their friends !ecause their life sinificantl# improved. Now I'm choosin to reach more people with what I tauht those clients and this is wh# I'm sharin this series. I trul# !elieve if enouh people raise their consciousness and their vi!ration to self0love and cele!ration we can restore love on this planet. nd I'm oin to show #ou how and wh# this is so important to #ou and #our famil#. M# reatest desire is for #ou to turn on #our spiritual ifts, !e full# #ou and make #our inner liht !rihter, to make #our life fill to the !rim with love, a!undance, %o#, pleasure and fun. 3ou are the reatest ift #ou !rin to the world + #ou are the ift. fter I received those spiritual ifts one da# I was feelin a little drained and I went to the local chiropractor. He asked me what I did for a livin and I said, $ell, it's kind of weird, these anels showed up in m# livin room and now I use m# intuition to help
people.& I didn't know at the time !ut he actuall# had some uides. (o he said, $The reason I asked is, m# uides are askin me to send #ou to some!od#. He's !een to all these doctors around here and no!od# can fi4 him.& (o aul came to me. He had !ack issues for over 12 #ears. In a few seconds, when he came over, I saw what the issue was. I said, $;id #ou smoke pot around 1< and have a weird emotional reaction)& nd he verified it, he said #es. (o usin m# intuition and spiritual tools I cleared it. I cleared it from his ener# field. nd I sent him on his wa#. I didn't e4pect an#thin to happen. I %ust said, $=et me know what happens.& 3ou have to understand, he came over and I had no clue what was oin to happen. He called me in a few weeks and told me I had a dream that niht after I worked on him. In this dream he saw himself sittin in all kinds of chairs thrones, stools, dinin chairs, recliners. nd in the dream his !ack no loner hurt. (o when he woke up he did what the dream suested, he sat in a !unch of chairs around the house and lo and !ehold, his !ack didn't hurt. t the time he had a u# !uildin a shed !ehind the house and this u# was not doin a reat %o! so he fired him. aul !uilt the whole shed himself, doin the roof and ever#thin. He had said that he had not !een a!le to lift thins over his head for over "2 #ears. nd now he %ust !uilt a shed in his own !ack #ard. I have to tell #ou, he was reall# e4cited, riht) To him it was like a miracle and for me, it was a hue >aha' moment !ecause it actuall# verified to me in a reall# !i wa# for the first time that spiritual ifts actuall# reall# work. I'd like #ou to see that is possi!le, so I'm oin to share another stor# with #ou. I was at a Mount (hasta event for healin and well0!ein. I was workin on a lad# usin m# spiritual ifts, uides and anels and I cleared an emotional issue attached to her th#roid that kept it from functionin optimall#. hen I came to the emotional issue on wh# her !od# was not reall# functionin, I ot that it had to do with her mom. Her mom tended to !e critical so I asked her a!out it, $How would #ou have liked it to !e with #our mother) How would #ou have liked to have felt from #our mother when #ou rew up)& nd she started to tear up. I had her feel the feelin of what it would feel like to !e trul# loved, adored, honored and admired !# #our mother. nd I cleared the ener# that was not lettin this come into her !od#. fter we were done she felt liht0headed and happ# all at the same time, she had to sit there for 12 minutes !efore she could move. (he walked over to her !ooth + she had her own !ooth + and her phone was rinin, it was her mother. (he said, $Christie, #ou are not oin to !elieve this. M# mom %ust called me and it's mother's da#. I forot to call her. (he would normall# lose it, sa# I was reall# rude and inconsiderate and wh# in the heck did I foret Mother's ;a#&. Instead, her whole ener# was different. she said, $Hone#, I %ust called to wish #ou a happ# Mother's ;a#& M# client said, $In all the ?2 #ears that I have lived on this planet, this has never happened !etween her and I so I want to thank #ou&. (o #ou see, this is normal in m# world. nd I want it to !e normal in #our world. It's the ener# and the emotions that #ou u#s are holdin and ma#!e !lockin that's stoppin #ou from ettin #our life to look a certain wa#. Can #ou ma#!e start to et the picture that invitin in #our spiritual side can literall# rock #our world) In these C;s we're oin to show #ou how to: 0Connect to #our source ener# and use it to raise #our consciousness and #our vi!rations. 03ou're also oin to learn how to attract the perfect life to #ou. 03ou'll learn how to make e4actin and accurate choices from #our intuition.
03ou'll also learn how to clear #our ener# and uprade #our whole !ein and #ou can teach #our famil#. 03ou'll learn how to clear, contain and handle an# neative eneries. 0If #ou've ever wanted help from the other side, we're oin to connect #ou to #our uidance s#stem, to #our uides and anels. Then #ou can make e4cellent choices for #our famil#. (o all this and more is in store for #ou. I read a !ook some #ears !ack that chaned the focus of m# life. The !ook was called ower vs. @orce and it's !# ;r. ;avid Hawkins. ;r. ;avid Hawkins tested the consciousness of us as humans. He has a scale of 5ero to 1222. If #our consciousness is the level of 1222, #ou would !e Aesus, a *uddha or a Brishna. nd if #our level was of shame, #ou would !e close to death, the vi!ration of "2. (hame means #ou are not enouh. 6uilt is a level of 92. 6uilt means that #ou're !ad. To raise #our consciousness level #ou would have to start eliminatin all the uilt and shame from #our life. Aust start with no uilt, fear, worr#, shame and #ou're well on #our wa#. The vi!ration of fear is 122 + it's prett# low. (o fear wouldn't !e in the vi!ration of a *uddha or a Brishna or a Aesus. His level measures 1222, therefore there's no worr#, fear, uilt or shame. The vi!ration of aner is 12, courae "22, neutralit# is "2, acceptance and foriveness is 92, love is the vi!ration of 22. (o it's the halfwa# mark that moves #ou towards the positive polarit# of thins. I'm not talkin a!out the dramaDtrauma kind of thin either. I'm not talkin a!out the loveDhate proram, what some people call love on this planet + #ou love them #ou hate them. That's called drama, it's not love. (o what a!out purified love and liht for a chane) Ao# is a vi!ration of E2, peace and compassion ?22, enlihtenment F22 to 1222. hen ;r. ;avid Hawkins wrote the !ook 12 #ears ao there were: These are %ust some e4amples of what he muscle tested as to where the planet is at. 3ou can cali!rate the truth a!out reliions, some are /uite low if 01" individuals at the vi!ration of F22. 0There is currentl# no one vi!ratin at the level of 1222. 0The averae level of humanit# on the planet is onl# "2F. 0The averae consciousness of the Gnited (tates is E"1 (o we're operatin a little !it !elow love. 0China is 922 0India 9 0The Middle 7ast 1F2 These are %ust some e4amples of what he muscle tested as to where the planet is at. 3ou can cali!rate the truth a!out reliions, some are /uite low if the# operate from the consciousness of fear and limitation. *asicall#, The Truth with a capital T is a!out connectin to the oneness of it all, connectin to the *uddha nature, the Christ consciousness level and livin in love, oneness, connectedness to the source, !ein source ener#, droppin %udments, droppin e4clusion and includin all thins is reall# what it's all a!out. =ovin thouhts throuhout the da# can counter0!alance a lot of neative stuff. Choosin the ener# of =ove and !ove, %o#, compassion, kindness, peace and conscious enlihtenment is choosin the most potent force in the world. The hihest conscious people on the planet live in the most is truth and awareness and with the least amount of limitation. (o #ou can see the scale and see where #ou and other people are operatin from. If #our vi!ration is hih #ou'll !e amon the most happ#, %o#ful, peaceful, compassionate, kind
people on the planet. If #our vi!ration is low, #ou'll !e amon the most fearful, anr#, uilt#, ashamed people on the planet. aisin #our vi!ration moves #ou to the place of most %o#, inspiration and fun. In this course I'm oin to share with #ou wa#s to raise #our consciousness and make hue leaps forward. eople who vi!rate at the hihest consciousness have choice over their thouhts, feelins and success. If #ou choose to o the route of the hihest consciousness #ou can !ecome a !ier force of love on the planet. The hihest conscious people hold a vorte4 of love and make others vi!rate at the level of 22 or a!ove %ust !# !ein themselves + it's in their ener# field. It's what the# e4ude. nd this is what it means that #ou are the ift. i!ratin at the level of love and a!ove is e4actl# what can chane over F2 individuals on the planet that are operatin in fear, worr#, uilt, shame and aner. -ne person + %ust one person whose vi!ration is set on the love consciousness of 22 can counter!alance F2 other people. How ama5in is that) Can #ou see wh# I am so e4cited a!out this) This means #ou can chane the planet !# full# !ein #ou. 3ou know how sometimes #ou think, $-h, I want to do m# part in this world&) ell this is how. *ein a vi!ratin ener# field of love can literall# chane #our neih!ors, #our school, #our cit#, #our state and the planet. 3ou teach others how to choose love and a!ove !# !ein #ou + !# !ein so happ# and vi!ratin. nd the# catch it, the#'re naturall# drawn to it then the# start upradin and start makin conscious choices. It's kind of like a multi0level marketin approach for consciousness. 3ou tell four friends and the# tell four friends and so on and so on. *efore #ou know it there are a million people who are operatin on a different pla#in field %ust !# #ou makin a conscious choice riht now to choose a vi!ration of love or a!ove. whole famil# that vi!rates at the ener# level of 22 can raise the whole famil# vi!ration up to a level of ?22, which is %o#. (o if #ou have four people operatin at the ener# level of 22 individuall#, it actuall# !ecomes e4ponential and it raises the whole roup. The chane must !ein in #our famil# and it should start with #ou and then #our famil#. Aust #ou startin sets the intent and the ener# in motion for the others to catch the wave, sort of catchin a wave of ener#. 3ou start initin all those around #ou. 3ou can !e the model that chanes the planet %ust !# !ein #ou. In a wa# it's like #ou can !e the chane #ou wish to see in the world + literall#. (ome clients have asked me, $hat if m# spouse and kids ma# not o alon with this riht awa#)& That's an e4cellent /uestion. In m# e4perience what happens is, ever#one in the famil# %umps in, the rest of the famil# catches the wave. 3ou don't push them, #ou let them !e drawn to #our liht like moths to the flame and the# will desire what #ou are doin !ecause #ou will !e happier, more lovin and more pleasura!le to !e around. That's who #ou'll !e. 3ou will see, when we et to the C; on raisin #our famil#'s consciousness, that #our ener# chanes the rest of the famil#. 3ou will also learn to use #our spiritual ifts to uprade some!od# else's levels !ehind the scenes. (o #ou can raise other people's consciousness !ehind the scenes, so to speak and we're oin to show #ou how to do that. It's a!out deletin the old stuff and invitin the new stuff in. If #ou sit around and wait nothin is oin to chane. (o #ou have to decide riht now, $He#, I'm oin to o for it. I'm oin to !e at this ener# level. I'm oin to raise m# consciousness. I'm oin to raise m# vi!ration.& That's what I decided m#self and from there I learned to use certain tools that upraded m# fre/uenc#.
I'm oin to show #ou techni/ues on how to manifest these thins in #ou. In the manifest section I'm oin to show #ou how to manifest a happ# famil# life. I have loads of stories of clients %ust like #ou who %ust started on this path throuh m# coachin seminars and one on one. -nce the# started, their famil# %ust came alon. The# saw that their spouse or parent was chanin and the# wanted some !ecause the other person was ettin happier and more !alanced emotionall#. nd eventuall# the# %ust et it. 3ou %ust lead !# e4ample and !ecause life ets more lorious, people will !e drawn to #ou !# what #ou're doin. It %ust takes one person to stat the !all rollin. 3ou were drawn to these C;s for a reason. 3ou were drawn to this !ecause #ou are read# to hear all this. Throuh the =aw -f ttraction #ou attracted this information to #ou. 3our soul is callin #ou to do this for #ourself, for #our communit#, for #our famil#, for the world and #ou deserve the rewards offered throuh raisin #our consciousness. 3ou are the ift #ou !rin to the world. llow #ourself to !lossom into #our hihest potential. =et's start with the first step. The first step to raisin #our consciousness is:
etting into the energy o! gratitude and appre"iation 6ratitude, I muscle tested, can !e as hih as vi!ratin at the level of J22 when #ou full# claim it in #our ener# field. Now it doesn't necessaril# mean that #ou all of a sudden %ump E22 points and #ou're at the ener# level of J22. hat it means is, #ou start usin that force or that ener# and invitin it into #our life and that ener# will chane #our fre/uenc#. 3ou have to delete some %unk in order to increase #our vi!ration and we're oin to show #ou to do that. 3ou have to em!od# it for lon enouh to reall# chane #our fre/uenc#. To move to the ne4t level #ou have to em!od# the new fre/uencies as a wa# of !ein. *ut it's eas#. =ove or a!ove, %o#, appreciation, kindness are all eneries #ou can em!od#. To em!od# it means it !ecomes a part of #ou, it !ecomes who #ou are. The ener# of true heartfelt appreciation is at the level of F<2. Think for a moment of somethin #ou appreciate, like a warm !ed filled with fluff# down comforters or a oreous sunset or a cele!ration or #our child and the moment #ou met him or her for the first time + somethin #ou reall# appreciate. nd if #ou move this ener# into #our ever#da# life and start appreciatin all the ood in #our life, #ou'll start to chane #our vi!ration. 3ou can even !e appreciative of the thins #ou don't prefer in #our life. Now #ou ma# !e thinkin, wh# would I appreciate the thins I don't like) hat if I reframed it and had #ou look at it like this: Thanks for showin up in m# life so I can re0choose somethin !etter for m#self. Thanks for showin me an area of m# manifestin that I have to un0create and delete from m# life. 3ou can !e thankful for sins and s#m!ols that show #ou thins #ou need to chane. nd the thankfulness is the appreciation, it's a clue. If #ou are in fear and aner, #ou can ask, what little thin can I !e rateful for here) hat little part of this can I appreciate) I have clients call me up in the middle of thins the# do not prefer. nd most of them can find one ood thin a!out what is occurrin and start !rinin that ener# into the middle of their messes. I had one client for instance who was havin some trou!le with her child's mood swins. (he felt nothin rateful a!out this when she called me. (o she started to look at all the other ood thins in her life. (he made a list of all the famil#, friends and love that she
currentl# had in her life and had in the past. This made her seek out some old friends that she hadn't reall# thouht a!out in a while. That's what the e4ercise did for her. (he called one of these friends and this friend, she found out, had somethin similar oin on with her own son. *ut she had solved it. (o the# talked a!out it, she sent her to the riht person and this person helped m# client et her son out of these mood swins. The# found out he was alleric to certain foods. (he chaned the nutrition and within a month the whole dilemma was solved. Now if she hadn't started !ein rateful who knows where this would have ended. It could have !een a lon line0up of mood swins and torture for the famil#. This new ener# of ratefulness opened doors for more ood to come into her life. This is what ratitude and appreciation does. It moves new ener# and new solutions in. I had another client come to a seminar and she and her hus!and were havin love issues. (he started the rateful e4ercise riht in her seat, riht awa#. (he started feelin all the ratitude she could a!out her life and asked this ratitude to move into the thins that she did not like. *asicall# she started with a mantra I ave her: I am so thankful and rateful that this mone# issue is no loner in m# life + that was one of her mantras. I am so rateful and thankful for new a!undant opportunities showin up in m# life. I am so rateful and thankful m# hus!and and I have solved our a!undance issues and we're ettin alon. (he was not %ust mum!lin these words. (he reall# connected to the liht 0 and I'm oin to show #ou how to do that + she reall# connected to the liht and felt this. nd thins !ean to chane. @or her what occurred was maical. In a little over month of her invitin this new consciousness in, old aruments with her hus!and started to soften. Her chanin chaned how he felt around her. He said he liked her aain. *ut can #ou see wh#) If #ou and #our spouse are aruin and doin lower ener# all the time, loveD hate and fear and all those eneries, the other person is oin to feel this. e've all walked into a room and felt uhK when some lower ener# hit us. This is what happened + he felt uh around her. hen she chaned her vi!ration it lifted him, %ust with her ener# field. Can #ou see the possi!ilities here) (he started !ein rateful for him !ein around and he responded. He liked her elevated, heartfelt ener#. It often works that fast. (ometimes the other person is not willin to chane /uite #et !ut if #ou keep #ourself elevated into ratitude and appreciation the# catch the wave and in the interim #ou'll !e happier and their mood won't affect #ou as much. (ome people fiht to !e riht + it's a rihtDwron issue. Aust !e riht for #ou and let the other person have their own rihtness. It's called !ein in allowance of another's choice. llow them to !e what the# are choosin and sta# rounded in #our choice to !e rateful and appreciative and elevated to the consciousness of love or a!ove. I live m# life in total responsi!ilit# for whatever shows up in m# life. I look at it like I created ever#thin in m# life with m# thouhts, !eliefs and patterns of ener# and m# !ein this. If somethin shows up in m# life that I don't prefer, I look at how did I create this and have it enter m# realit#) Then I ask what new choice can I make to have somethin new show up) -r how do I et rid of the thouht, feelin or !elief and delete it) I scout around in m# realit# and find the thins that I need to delete so that I can raise it up. e're oin to show #ou how to do that on the third C;.
3ou know, for an#thin to chane #ou have to actuall# choose the chane and allow it to show up. *# !ein the field of ener#, !ein the invitation and the open door for chane, #our life will. 6ratitude is the em!odiment of the attitude of appreciation. That's wh# it's a little !it hiher fre/uenc#. It's like #ou're livin from the soulful ener# of who #ou reall# are + #ou without #our ar!ae and luae. It's #our natural state. It's #our ener# field that #ou use to !e !orn into #our !od# + it's a creative ener# force. 3ou know how we all love to hu !a!ies and !e in their ener# field) That's !ecause the# haven't taken on all the fear, aner or worr# thins #et. Their ener# state is spacious, rateful, lovin. (ure, the# have moods. *ut the ener# field is open and eas# and the# move throuh it rather /uickl#. The# don't sta# stuck and simmer in aner and frustration + unless we as parents train them that wa# or we don't handle them properl#. It's all a!out #ou as a parent openin #our ener# field and movin into love, %o# and appreciation. This allows #our child to move into love or a!ove aain and aain and aain. It's !ein the ener# of ratitude that moves them up the scale. (o how do #ou do this reularl#) =et's start with allowin the ener# to come into #ou so #ou can feel it. ecall a time #ou were rateful for somethin + an#thin a sunset, #our child, #our mate, #our mate proposin to #ou, !ein rateful for some success #ou had. (o now if #ou have somethin that #ou're rateful for I want #ou to reall# feel that moment, that moment when it happened #ou were so rateful for it, so appreciative. I let that ener# come into m# heart and I ask it to radiate out m# whole !ein. If #ou %ust ask ener# to move it'll do that. (o %ust feel the ener# of ratefulness, feel it coursin out #our heart and radiatin #ou. (ee it fillin #our whole cells. This is the ener# #ou invite into #our da#. 3our mind doesn't know past, present and future, so if #ou think of an ener# or if #ou think of somethin #ou're rateful a!out, #ou've !rouht the ener# in. ratitude and appreciation %ournal is a simple wa# to et started feelin the ood consciousness inside of #ou. 3our commitment to this sa#s, $He#, universe, I am choosin to focus m# time on this planet to raisin m# consciousness. I am decidin to focus m# ener# on makin this important in m# life.& hatever we focus on increases and attracts to us more of the same. I have seen this one thin, the ratitude %ournal, chane clients sinificantl#. (o #ou can write in #our %ournal or #ou can lo on to: www.ratitudelo.com + it's in #our work!ook. 3ou can sin up and #ou can even follow me there at ratitudelo.comDchristiemariesheldon + #ou can find it in #our work!ook. The important thin is the commitment to it. (o to et started !ein with this sentence: I am so rateful and thankful + and then fill in the !lank. I like to do these mornin and evenin. (o #ou can ask #ourself riht now, when am I committed to doin this m#self to make this a part of m# life) hen will I commit to doin this) I like to commit to thins for 92 da#s and then when it works it !ecomes a part of m# ha!it and a part of me and then I naturall# commit to doin it for ?2 da#s and then J2 da#s. It's #our life #ou deserve to have this ener# runnin throuh #our !od# ever# da# and eventuall# it !ecomes a part of who #ou are, then #ou naturall# start lookin throuh #our life with this filter of ratitude. I do it throuhout the da# !# !lessin thins. e'll cover this in the upcomin material as well.
The luckiest people I know are also the most rateful. (o write down somethin #ou're rateful for then ask that ener# to turn up in #ou. Aust feel it + I'm so rateful and thankful this is in m# life. 7m!od#in it means feelin this ener# in all parts of #ou + it's attractive ener#. (o sense this ener# I'm so rateful and thankful. I'm so rateful and thankful I'm here on this earth, I'm rateful and thankful for each !reath + reall# feel it. Now if ratitude had a color, what color would it !e) 3ou cans ask the ratitude in #our !od# to turn to a certain color then #ou can increase it, make it more dense and technicolored. -r #ou can imaine a dial in front of #ou then %ust start turnin the ener# up. t first it ma# !e like e4ercisin a new muscle !ut %ust keep at it and #ou'll start to !e a!le to enerate this ener# at an# moment. @or me, I turn it on and it feels like warmth in m# heart that radiates out. I can make it so intense that it feels ecstatic and I start lauhin and ilin. *ut it's a measura!le ener# and once #ou e4ercise the muscle #ou can do it in two seconds. It ma# take a little ener# for some people to %ust reall# do this !ut keep at it. It %ust means #ou have some !locks on feelin and ma#!e some emotional ener# that needs to !e cleared. 3ou ma# have to delete this from #our vi!ration. e're oin to cover this on the C; for clearin #our ener# and this is wh# this course is all accumulative + the more #ou do the faster it works and all the tools work toether. ;o #ou know that it's possi!le to look at some!od# and know e4actl# what their viewpoint of the world is) 3ou can if #ou know how to measure their consciousness level. -n the ;; that teaches muscle0testin, we're oin into the muscle0testin and how #ou can choose to know the consciousness level of #ou, #our kids and #our famil# so #ou have somethin to o on. 3ou can use this as a truth0teller to see where people are vi!in at. @or instance, #ou want to see where #our !oss is operatin at. re the# operatin from fear, uilt, aner or are the# operatin from love and a!ove) ouldn't this !e helpful to understand where people are comin from) 3ou can also measure at what aes most of their trauma came in their life and actuall# use that piece of information to clear that from them or clear it from #ourself. This is the power of usin muscle0testin and measurin #our consciousness and askin /uestions. 3ou can know al l these thins so #ou can actuall# reshape and remold #our life. I'm so e4cited for #ou !ecause if #ou could o throuh life knowin fact from fiction #ou would never et !am!oo5led into other people's aendas. 3ou could alwa#s choose for #ourself from the ener# of love, %o#, compassion, ratitude, kindness. I !elieve the onl# reason people don't choose those consciousnesses is !ecause the# ei ther don't know it e4ists, the# have not lived it, or ma#!e the# choose it !ecause in the past love was a!usive and the# reall# don't !elieve in love. -n m# %ourne# I su!stitute the word kindness for love so I can reall# et the feelin of what the softer vi!ration of love is. I reali5e a lot of people think of love as unkind. I've seen this in m# practice. n e4ample of that would !e a parent preventin #ou from doin #our true work in the world !ecause the# think the# know !etter and want #ou to !e somethin else. That's actuall# not reall# kind to #ou. That's usin their authorit# forced upon #our life. conscious person would instead check inside and sa#, $He#, what's in the !est interest for m# child) hat is their true nature, talents, a!ilities) nd what is their true path)& Then the parent would support this true path. If #ou were not raised like this #ourself, #ou ma# not trust #our knowin as much !ecause #ou've !een pulled off track of it. nd I'm oin to assist #ou with this. =ove can actuall# reall# !e love.
nother e4ample miht !e a matin issue. lot of clients call me !ecause thins have happened !etween their mate and themselves. I show the clients how to use the spiritual tools to lose the emotional and spiritual %unk in their life so that there's space for new lovin thins to come in. I'm oin to show #ou how to lose the luae, so to speak. elationships can and do chane for the !etter. I have seen so man# miracles occur %ust !# one person in the relationship focusin on thins ettin !etter. It's a heartfelt pra#er to the universe for thins to chane and it %ust takes one person to catal#5e ever#!od# in the famil#. t the end of the da#, thouh, it's all a!out choice and action + #ou makin the choice and takin action consistentl#. emem!er how I said I was down and out and I made a heartfelt pra#er for m# life to chane) I made a declarative choice and statement to the universe that m# life has to chane now. I didn't know what that looked like I %ust knew it had to chane. That one choice created actions in the ethers and the spiritual plane that catal#5ed circumstances to chane in m# worl d. Then I took uided ph#sical action at %ust the riht time for it all to work out. It's !oth choice and action. aisin #our consciousness !# the mere fact that #our vi!ration is raised makes #ou a !ier manet for ood thins to come into #our life. The hiher #our vi!ration the more #ou attract to #ourself. iht now how m# vi!ration is set, I prett# much %ust have to think a thouht and within a da# or so whatever I asked for usuall# shows up. It can !e that fast. (ometimes it takes a month or two !ut if #ou reall#, reall# want somethin it'll show up. Imaine for a minute a time when #ou reall# made a choice for somethin to come into #our life. It came into #our life #ou made the choice from the place that there is no wa# that this is not oin to happen for me. That's the place where real chane happens. It's not a!out tr#in. It drives me cra5# when people sa# the#'ll tr#. I alwa#s know at that point that the# have not even chosen. The#'re leavin room for the space of failure. >Tr#' sa#s I'll sort of see if it happens !ut not all m# ener# is alined for it to occur + that's !asicall# sa#in #ou don't deserve it. (ometimes #ou %ust have to et rid of luae !efore it shows up. Then #ou'll fiure out a wa# that no matter what, #ou're oin to et it done. The universe delivers #ou the tools to make it happen. (ometimes #ou don't know what the route e4actl# is !ut if #ou reall# demand the happ# end result that this is what's oin to happen and then take positive affirmative action, thins will fall in place. It's the actions that lead to the realit# chane and I know that people can chane fast if the# reall# choose to. I teach a lot of classes and I've tauht a lot of classes on openin up to #our spiritual ifts it's m# favorite thin to do, watchin people !lossom then use the ifts to chane their lives then chane their families' lives. It's m# favorite thin in the whole world. (o I did this class and one al in the class asked for her marriae to !e fi4ed. month later it showed up in the form of her hus!and apoloi5in to her for !ein stu!!orn and not treatin her so well. (he knew she was at fault too, !ut her hus!and actuall# comin to apoloi5e to her was different. The ift that she had asked for was a fi4ed marriae. (o somethin had to chane towards the positive that was her intent. Instead of /uittin on the marriae the hus!and said he would rather see that it could work out. 3ou have to understand this is hue for her !ecause this is the u# that had turned down counselin. (o she called me and she was !oth e4cited and war# as she had !een down this road !efore. (he wanted it to work out and #et she did not want to put her out aain if it was false promises. (o she used her spiritual tool!o4 and she started on
keepin herself open to the possi!ilit# of somethin new showin up in her life. (he tauht her hus!and to do the same, she tauht her hus!and how to tune in intuitivel# and she helped him see some thins that he hadn't reall# looked at !efore. In a few months her la!or of love reall# started to pa# off. Now the#'re actuall# still toether and the#'re far happier than the# ever were. (he sa#s it's fresh, it's like the# ot a clean slate the# et to start all over aain. (he thinks that it was all the spiritual help that she received at the workshop alon with usin her ifts, tools, uides and anels ever# da#. These are the same ifts I'm oin to show #ou how to use. nother woman came to me and we !ecame ood friends. (he came to me !ecause she needed some help with her kids. Her kids were anr# and disruntled at some thins that had happened in her marriae, causin the marriae to end. e worked with her spiritual nature and we used spiritual tools. e tauht her kids how to use the tools in their tool!o4 as well. The kids were ama5in at it + kids are ver# intuitive, the# et it riht awa#. The oldest son, 1?, reall# started to row into himself and he actuall# started to et friends. He had !een a loner. *ut all of a sudden he started ettin reall# friendl# with people and havin a lot more friends, !ecame less mood# and more himself. This mom was reall# smart enouh to work on ettin rid of the %unk she and her hus!and had put !etween them and her son from the past. 7motionall# she reali5ed the mistakes she had made with her child !ut now she could start to see the work pa# off, !ecause now her son was actuall# ettin happ#. (he also tauht him to work on himself and he could see how he could contri!ute to himself and !uild his confidence !ack up. (o kids and families can use these tools, too. Most people want the !est for their children and the opinion of what that is varies. The main thin I have seen !# tunin into the ener# is that kids %ust want to !e with aware parents who are willin to !e connected to source and ask what is in the !est interest for the child. Think !ack when #ou were rowin up. The thin that pro!a!l# anno#ed #ou most a!out #our parents was when the# were not willin to tune in, to reall# listen and et the download of what was !est for #ou, or intuit what the !est solution for #ou was. Ma#!e the# %ust !arked at #ou or ma#!e the# %ust didn't actuall# listen, instead of checkin in and askin how the# !est uide #ou. -r askin, if m# son or dauhter does this, would it enhance their life) How much !etter would that feel, to !e raised like that) How inspirin to have a parent sa#, $3ou now, what I !elieve the !est solution for #ou is + fill in the !lank& and actuall# know what the solution is. Most parents want their kids to !e happ# for sure. *ut if #our parents were !ein unaware and unconscious instead of aware and conscious, #ou miht not reall# learn how to trust #ourself. The most conscious kids I know trust themselves and allow themselves to move forward in life, trustin that the#'re makin riht actions !ecause the#'re in tune to what that is. The# don't have to !e fearful and off !alance. (piritualit# is tunin in to the !iest part of #ou that sa#s, $He#, #ou know) 3ou're reat. 3ou're supported, #ou can trust #ourself + here's the answer to #our /uestion&. lot of kids row up hearin, $Bnock it off& when the#'re tr#in to learn somethin new. How sta!le would that make #ou) The overall thin thouh, trustin #ourself, comes from the deepest part of #ou. It comes from connectin to the hihest vi!rational fre/uenc# and tunin in to the spiritual side of #ou. ain, it's %ust a choice + #ou can choose it.
I'm oin to %ust share with #ou a few more stories so #ou can et a real limmer of what's in store for #ou so #ou can actuall# connect and see what's possi!le for #ou. I have a client who is divorced from her son's father. The father and the child had not !een ettin alon as of late, that's wh# she !rouht him to me. I asked her uides wh# the# thouht this was happenin. I received a split0 screen imae of m# client and the father fihtin when the son was two #ears old. He was 12 currentl#. fter viewin this I asked m# client, $;o #ou remem!er a fiht when the child was two #ears old)& nd she said, $-h m# 6od, #eah I do.& It was when the father left for the first time for two months. (he said that the# had had a hue fiht a!out him not seein the son. (o I asked the uides what the# suested we do to clear this old in%ur# of the father leavin the son. e called on the uides and anels to clear it from !oth of them and I told her to let me know what happens. I was also instructed to ask her to do this ever# niht for a while herself. (he called a month later to report that her son came into the room when she ot home and said, $3ou know) It's reall# weird !ut ;ad called toniht and he said he was sorr# that he wasn't around like he should've !een and he's reall# like to make it up to me and was there an#thin he could do to do that.& (he was a little startled a!out this !ecause that's prett# fast action, riht) (o she asked her son and said, $ell, what did #ou sa#)& nd he said, $I told him he could take me to the !ase!all ame tomorrow.& (o that's what the dad was oin to do. (o sometimes this stuff actuall# occurs riht awa#. The dad took him to the !ase!all ame, the# had a huel# fun thin he's 12 so he had fun and the dad's actuall# !een stickin around more now. (he called to thank me for this !rand new sense of peace. (he said it felt like somethin had reall# shifted. (ome people think that thins don't chane or people don't chane. nd #ou know what) (ometimes usin these spiritual tools thins reall# do happen. I've seen too much of this to know that it's not alwa#s the case that people don't chane. (o if #ou look into the liht, connect to the liht and #ou !e the love and the liht, this is how #ou're oin to chane it. I have another client + I'll call her Nina. Aust so #ou know, some of these clients' names have !een chaned %ust for their privac# and #ou'll see wh# in a minute. Nina owned her own compan# and was lookin for life to !e different. (he had a former hus!and who was not so nice. =eavin out the whole drama part, let's %ust sa# he had uns and he had man# of them and he threatened to use them. (he called me, she was scared and she had tried to et awa# more than one time onl# to !e sucked !ack. (o we used her anels, we connected to the liht, we alined her in love, we reprorammed her ener#, her !eliefs and her thouhts and wh# she was with him in the first place. I asked the universe to alin and et her a new life that she could en%o# now. ithin a few da#s she found a !etter place to sta#. ithin two months she met a entleman at a conference. He lived in another state. The# hit it off and within two months of them meetin she moved to this state. The# ot married soon after and she's reall#, reall# happ#. (he trul# knows that her life is different !ecause of makin these chanes and openin up to her spiritual self. (o if #ou could do all of this for #ourself and #ou had some!od# ive #ou the tools, could #ou start to see how this could make #our life easier) Could #ou start to see how this could reall# help #our famil#) M# clients who use their intuition and awareness live more happ# and conscious lives. Their families are more sta!le. The# live from uided truth life is easier for them. =ookin !ack, the# have no idea how the# could have lived !ein that unaware.
It's true. -nce #ou decide to open up to this life it !ecome a lot easier and more doa!le. Intuitive livin is !ein the !ein #ou are an#wa#. Have #ou ever noticed that if #ou reall# want to !e aware of somethin, the universe will show #ou the answer somehow) hat if #ou ot the awareness in two seconds instead of da#s and weeks and #ears) hat if #ou need an answer to a /uestion in a second) hat if #ou needed to know how to proceed, for instance, on !u#in a car) 3ou can actuall# use #our spiritual tools to !u# a car. 3ou can tune in, check out, find out the lowest amount the dealer would o for !efore even walkin in that's actuall# how I !u# all m# cars. I tune in, check which dealer will ive me the !est deal, do the# have the car I desire, do the# have all the uprades) nd in a few minutes I know where to o, at what time with what salesperson and how much the#'re oin to sell it to me for. Imaine livin that wa#. (mart, #eah) Imaine how much time #ou could save. hat if #ou were tr#in to find the !est trainin for #our child, #ou pulled out the phone !ook, pointed to it and knew + %ust knew intuitivel# it was reall# the !est trainin for #our child) hat if #ou could tune into #our mate and know e4actl# what the# were thinkin) This would !e a lot easier than doin the normal uessin ames that most couples do. hat happens is #ou actuall# forive a lot of thins !ecause usuall# the thins #ou're thinkin that the#'re thinkin the#'re not even thinkin. It saves a lot of time and ener#. =et's %ust sa# #ou were oin on an interview. 3ou could also know how #ou need to present #ourself and what #ou need to sa# in order to land the %o!. -r #ou could know how to talk to #our kids to actuall# et them to do their homework. The spiritual tools are actuall# practical it's a whole new wa# of livin. Gnlimited possi!ilities open up to #ou. It's %ust a choice #ou %ust have to make the choice to use it and #ou can choose this on a dail# !asis. @or some people it's all a!out openin #our heart to !ein this powerful. If #ou live #our life like this do #ou think it will !rin #ou the happiest outcome) I mean, reall#. If #ou could teach #ourself to knowin the shortcuts, to knowin the truth, can #ou see how #our life can !e !etter) I've tauht a four0#ear old how to read people. I took her into a room in front of 92 people to prove that even a four0#ear old can do this. (he's an ama5in little irl. (he's now eiht and her three si!lins can all do the same. It's reall# an interestin life skill to have at four, #eah) (he's reall# happ# a!out it. (he looks at life from the viewpoint that life is actuall# prett# doa!le and prett# eas#. Imaine if #our child could o throuh life consciousl# choosin their life from a totall# aware, truthful place. Can #ou see how much easier #our life would actuall# !e) nother man came to me and he was desirin to meet his mate. He had !een in a strin of relationships, the# were all prett# much dramaDtrauma these kinds of women were the ones that he was attractin. His ener# when he came to me actuall# had the ener# of repulsion to women. I mean, if #ou're attractin dramaDtrauma #ou would pro!a!l# want to push those women awa#, riht I could see in his field of ener# he was not oin to attract the riht one. If #our field of ener# has old %unk from the past stuck in it called thouhts, !eliefs, the wa# #ou internali5e, how #our mom and dad did relationship, #ou ma# !e unintentionall# !lockin the ood thins that show up in #our life. It's actuall# the =aw -f ttraction in action + !ut !ackwards. *ecause #ou make these proclamations that ood thins should and are oin to show up !ut #et if #ou !elieve like he did, that women are not nice to !e around and that women will hurt #ou, can #ou see how this would repel a woman
from even showin up in #our life) -r will actuall# !rin to #ou a woman that will hurt #ou. That's wh# if #ou !reak up with some!od# #ou have to work on #our stuff otherwise #ou're oin to attract the same kind of mate. (o we worked on clearin his stuff and was also empowered to et connected to his uides and anels so he had help ever# da# if he needed it. I have a lot of male clients who use their anels and uides. The# reall# love that ener#. It's kind of like a spiritual !udd# s#stem and it's nice to have friends in hih places. In a few months he met a woman online and it's a little over a #ear now and the#'re a!out to !e enaed. He reall# knows that the spiritual ifts I tauht him to use were the catal#st. He used these tools all #ear lon whenever somethin came up that was old ar!ae. 3ou know, #our stuff is oin to come up. It's oin to come up until it's one. nd this is what ets in the wa# of #ou u#s raisin #our vi!ration. It's %ust true, so #ou need to know that the tools that can effectivel# enerate a life #ou love are availa!le and #ou have them + #ou're oin to et them. 3our free will, 6od's reatest ift, can move #ou towards or repel #ou from this divinel#0 uided happ# life. It's alwa#s a choice to !e connected or not. n#wa#, the person he met and is with now is a total em and a sweetheart. He sa#s it's a lot !etter than he had ever manifested !efore. Ironicall#, she also used a list to manifest him and while manifestin she asked for her dream!oat + he owns a !oat. hich also shows #ou the importance of what words to use in cultivatin #our life. *ein intuitive is actuall# who #ou are. 3ou're a spirituall# aware !ein in a !od#. spiritual !ein does four thins. spiritual !ein: If #ou are perceivin ener# and receivin ener#, that's called awareness + #ou are !ein aware. If #ou make a choice to !e aware it puts #ou in #our natural spirit self. ain, it's who #ou are. 3ou are an aware !ein. The onl# thin that can !lock !ein aware is actuall# the choice to not know. *ut the choice to not know is actuall# alwa#s a lie, !ecause somewhere in #our ener# field, whether #ou're conscious of it or not, #ou alwa#s know. hen #ou make the choice to not know it's a lie and then #ou !lock it !ecause somewhere #ou alwa#s know. nd #ou can choose to un!lock it. (o #ou if #ou chose to !lock it #ou can also choose to un!lock it. (o not knowin is actuall# at the end of the da# a choice. It's like the woman who has a ut instinct that her mate is cheatin on her. If #ou're thinkin the /uestion in the first place #ou're pro!a!l# alread# intuitin the information !ut if #ou den# it #ou !lock #our awareness and #ou live a life from unconsciousness and unawareness and this can and often does lead to depression. lot of depressed people that I know have actuall# %ust shut down their awareness and are often the most intuitive people I know. hen the# decide to not know it cuts off their ener#, which leads do depressed ener# levels. I have seen hue success in empowerin depressed people %ust !# showin them how to et spiritual ifts. I mean, reall# look at this. If #ou're !asicall# an antenna for intuitive awareness, it's who #ou are and #ou pretend to not know all that #ou know and shut off half #our senses, shut off #our life switch, !asicall# + can #ou see how this miht make #ou depressed) It's like if #ou put #ourself in the dark. I've had teenaers come to m# office and I teach them how to fill up with the liht. hen the# leave the#'re literall# not depressed an#more. I've actuall# seen clients stop on their own + and with their doctor's permission + stop takin an4iet# medication. -r the#
/uit smokin pot or the# /uit doin other drus !ecause the# started fillin up with liht ever# da# and connectin to the truth. nd I'm oin to show #ou this. Bnows erceives eceives Makes choices I think I read that one out of five people are depressed and are on some sort of medication for that. Can #ou see how this miht chane #our life) If #ou're connected to the truth, know that #ou can et answers for #ourself, can #ou see how trustin #ourself is this eas#) The cool thin with spiritual ifts is that if #ou turn them on, !ecome totall# aware and operate life from this place, then solutions are actuall# eas# to ather. 3ou %ust have to start tunin in and askin the universe what is is the solution to this issue I'm havin and with awareness + and I'm oin to show #ou how + #ou ather the data and line it up. It's eas#. Then #ou have nothin to worr# a!out. ll of #our dramaDtrauma oes awa# and life !ecomes rand. nd here's the trick: can #ou handle !ein that happ#) Can #ou handle it) ;o #ou love #ourself enouh to reall# do this for #ourself) I see people addicted to pro!lems and drama all da# lon. It's fun for them to live in their pro!lems. The constant stress somehow makes them feel alive. *ut the peaceful, happ#, most soulful people I know are intuitive, the#'re hooked up to their spiritual senses, the#'re alined in love, the# avoid fear0 !ased thinkin. It's a lot easier to et a life the wa# #ou want it this wa#. 3ou erase the drama, have much more free time to do what #ou reall# en%o# and that's m# reatest hope for #ou. That #ou love #ourself enouh to !e reall# %o#ful and to !e powerfull# full# #ou. Then #ou teach #our famil# how to do this and ever#one rows toether. -ne of the most important thins I have seen is that some!od# has to start in the famil#. *ut if the rest of the famil# rows up toether, it's a much more happ# famil#. Now we're oin to do an e4ercise that #ou can find in #our work!ook. e're oin to have #ou do the 92 da# commitment to #ourself to raisin #our consciousness. In the work!ook we have a %ournal so #ou can keep track of all #our whims that #ou're oin to have alon the wa#. -ne of the first steps in doin this is a commitment to #ourself. I've found when I did workshops, I had people sin what I called at the time >a liht contract' where the# !asicall# decided the# were oin to raise their vi!ration, connect to the liht, choose love or a!ove as their dail# connectin force. hen I had them sin this commitment to themselves, it put actions and forces into the universe. Their intent created a ripple effect so to speak where their manifestations came true e4ponentiall# faster than the# had !efore, includin places where the# were !locked. I et hue feed!ack from people a!out how much that chaned their life. (o I've included it for #ou and #ou can find it in the work!ook. 3ou'll also find some other treats there. (o o to the work!ook riht now and sin the commitment to #ourself to take lovin action ever# da# for 92 da#s and see at the end of the 92 da#s how #our life has improved.
Chapter # -$ntuiti%e Li%ing I was doin a radio show one da# and the host asked me, $How do #ou et answers for #ourself)& The first response that popped into m# head was: I ask /uestions. 3ou see, askin /uestions is a !i door0opener that sa#s -pen (esameK It's the thin that !rins #ou the most awareness.
Luestions !rin awareness. If I sa#, $hat is #our name)& and #ou sa# $Aulie&, I've received what) wareness 7ven if #ou don't answer me I receive awareness. I miht not know what it means !ut I did receive feed!ack. If #ou didn't answer me it could !e that #ou don't want to talk to me or #ou need a hearin aid or #ou hate m# shirt. I ma# not know the e4act reason !ut I receive the awareness of: -B, no answer. hich leads me to what) skin another /uestion which ma# look like: ;id she hear me) Ma#!e no. Then I ot a new awareness + she didn't hear me. (o that's where /uestions lead to awareness. n e4ample of this is some people miht think that earnin certain amounts of mone# is hard. @or some people earnin millions and millions of dollars is %ust actuall# out of their rane. *ut what if #ou were, for instance, *ill 6ates and #ou had some intuitive awareness, some uidin force and it ot #ou e4cited enouh to proceed with a computer operatin s#stem) ;o #ou think he asked a few /uestions) ;o #ou think he somehow had this in front of him and said, $owK hat would this look like if I took it forward in the world)& nd somewhere he plucked down from the ethers information, like $-h m# 6od, if I take this forward it could chane the whole worldK& He asked /uestions. 3ou too can receive this t#pe of information. ;id #ou know that Aack Canfield and Mark ictor Hanson, who wrote the !ooks Chicken (oup for the (oul series, did to et the name for the title) The# kept sa#in the# wanted a mea !est0sellin title and the# said to the universe, $lease show us what the mea !est0sellin title is.& hat + askin a /uestion + is the mea !est0sellin title) nd one da#, in meditation, to Aack Canfield the answer appeared 0 it %ust popped in. He ot the heads up for Chicken (oup for the (oul. Gsin the power of his spiritual senses and his intuition he received it. hat if the# had /uit and onl# asked once) Ma#!e it would never have showed up. *ut the# %ust kept askin until it showed up. That's the power of askin. It's how I live m# life and it's how I hope #ou would live #our life. 3ou're drivin down the road and #ou ask, $If I drive m# car straiht, left or riht, which one is the shortcut)& ;o #ou see what I mean) It's %ust the choice. It's ama5in how man# /uestions kids ask. Ma#!e #ou stopped askin /uestions !ecause #ou drove #our parents nuts. -ne of the thins that drove #our parents nuts is the e4act thin that e4pands #our future and opens doors and windows. hat if askin /uestions is the ver# tool that can chane #our whole life) hen I'm consultin with a client I'm askin /uestions to m#self or to their uides or the hiher aspect of themselves and I'm oin, $what's up with them) hat's their deal) hat do the# need to hear) How can their life !e !etter) How can their marriae !e !etter) How can their famil# life !e !etter) If the# take this path where does it lead them)& nother thin I have noticed. In school, if #ou et a wron answer #ou et a !i, fat red mark on #our pae so sometimes it makes #ou afraid to ask /uestions. 3ou're afraid to !e wron and so #ou /uit askin /uestions and cut #ourself off from this information. Ma#!e this information could actuall# chane #our life and ive #ou more choice and e4pansion from which to live. If someone asks me a /uestion I sa#, $6reat. Thank #ou for askin that /uestion&. hat if #ou start showin #ourself ratitude for askin /uestions ratitude for seekin e4pansion and awareness ratitude for the new possi!ilities #ou are openin) e should !e sa#in to kids, $It's so reat #ou asked that /uestion. 3ou were so smart for askin that /uestion. Thank #ou for askin that /uestion.&
Imaine if #ou started askin /uestions to #our overnment and reall# sta#ed with it until #ou ot some awareness of what is reall# oin on) hat if we all did that) ;o #ou think we could come up with some ama5in possi!ilities on how to et thins !etter) /uestion can also !e a door0opener. 3ou can ask a /uestion to the universe and let doors open. @or instance, if #ou're doin a pro%ect #ou can sa#, $hat would it take for this to show up in m# life) hat would it take for this pro%ect to !e eas#) hat would it take for m# kid to !e a!le to make the !ase!all team)& If #ou're askin /uestions like >what would it take' or >what could I do' or >what could I !e' or >what do I need to do', can #ou see how askin /uestions like that allows the universe to open doors for #ou so new awareness comes in) The /uestion aain opens new doors to awareness. (o I use the /uestion >what would it take for !lank0!lank0!lank to happen in m# life)' I ask that /uestion a lot. I miht not et the awareness in two seconds. Most times I actuall# do. *ut what if #ou %ust kept askin the /uestion until it popped in) (o what would it take for #ou to have a happ# %o!) hat would it take for #ou have a reall# happ# marriae) hat would it take for #ou to raise #our vi!ration) n# of those /uestions are reall# reat /uestions to %ust ask the universe more than one time a da# and see what shows up. (o /uestions are door0openers and can actuall# help #ou manifest thins. @or this e4ercise I'm oin to ask #ou to write down all the /uestions that #ou would like answered. If #ou could know an#thin and have an# /uestion answered, what would it !e) I would write that at the top of m# paper: If I could know an#thin and have an# /uestion answered what would it !e) Then start %ournalin and writin all the /uestions. This e4ercise ma# !e openin for some of #ou. Ma#!e up until now #ou never knew #ou could have awareness of these thins. How reat is this, that #ou now have tools to know how to access the insiht) I am so e4cited for #ou. I remem!er what it was like to feel I finall# ot the Christmas ift I alwa#s wanted + that's what intuition was for me. It was like finall# ettin a Christmas ift and knowin that I could et all the /uestions answered for me. It was so life0chanin. (o shut off the C; and %ust o do that !ecause later on #ou're oin to actuall# et the answers to those /uestions. 3our intuition speaks to #ou all da# lon. It's %ust a matter of tunin into it enouh to trust it all the time. It could !e a hunch or a ut feelin. (ometimes it's even a voice in #our head. 3ou know, the voice that sa#s, $NoK ;on't do that. 3esK 6o for it.& -r $not #et& or $slow down& or $oh, I !etter hurr# up.& It ma# even show up in #our !od#. 3our !od# is like a divinin rod and #ou can use this divinin rod as a tunin fork. 3ou ma# feel oose !umps in #our !od# and that's like, $He#, this is reat, riht on the mone#&. -r #ou ma# feel tihtness in #our !od# or a creep# feelin that %ust sort of feels that somethin's not riht. 3ou could also feel open, like #ou could !reathe. -r #ou ma# feel short of !reath as in >no wa#K' a#in attention to the !od# is a hue resource for insiht. 3our intuitive senses include: (iht : It's reall# like a picture or a vision that #ou see in #our mind's e#e. (ometimes when it first happens #ou miht think that #ou're %ust makin it up. 3our intuitive senses are so much a part of #ou that sometimes #ou actuall# think #ou're makin them up, the# come that /uick. @eelin: This is also another intuitive sense. @eelin is the easiest one for ever#one. 3ou could literall# have a sense or a feelin in #our !od#, like the chills.
Bnowin: This is the sense where #ou %ust know thins and #ou don't know wh#. 3ou're %ust like, >I don't know wh# I know, I %ust know'. (ound: This is also a ps#chic sense. It sounds like a mental voice in #our head. It can !e female or male. The first time this sense opened up for me, I remem!er it clear as a !ell. I walked into m# !edroom and I heard this male voice sa# to me, &elcome !ack&. nd I'm thinkin, welcome !ack) I didn't o an#where. I could hear him actuall# lauh and he said, $e're sa#in welcome !ack !ecause #ou can hear us now&. That was the first time I could actuall# hear m# uides and anels reall# loud. (mell: The other ps#chic sense #ou could have is smell. I have actuall# smelled roses !# walkin into a room when the spiritual !ein called Mother Mar# showed up. I've actuall# even !lessed a friend's ift. I mailed this friend a ift and when she opened it she could smell orane !lossoms. (o she called me and said, $I don't know what #ou did to the !o4 !ut when I opened it I smelled orane !lossoms + what did #ou do)& It's reall# funn#. hat I actuall# did was I put m# hands around the !o4 and I asked that whenever she opened it she felt love and liht from me. nd !asicall# what happened is, it came to her ps#chicall# in the form of smellin orane !lossoms. (o #ou have an intuitive sense of smell. Taste: 3ou also have an intuitive sense of taste. I actuall# taste restaurant food !efore I order it so I'll actuall# know if I like it. ain, it's %ust a choice and #ou can live from this awareness or not. (ometimes if I'm cravin suar# deserts I'll actuall# %ust taste it ps#chicall# so I don't have to eat it. It's a ood little trick to have. 3ou can ask for an# of these ifts and the# will open up for #ou. Aust keep askin until the# open up and release an# fears to them showin up. e're oin to show #ou a little !it more how to do this. Now we're oin to talk a!out how to et a #es or a no intuitivel#. 3es will feel a different wa# in #our !od# than no. Here's where that's useful. -ne e4ample would !e that m# hihest and !est ood is to send m# kid to a friend's house toniht. If #ou could intuitivel# feel #es or no is in the hihest !est ood for #our child, that would !e a ood e4ample. Ma#!e that niht there's no parental supervision or ma#!e there's drinkin involved. (o this could !e a ood e4ample that #ou could et a #es or a no for. If #ou et the vi!ration of what a #es or no is in an# second of an#where in #our da#, ask a /uestion and et an answer. If I call this person riht now will the# !e there) nd et a #es or a no. If I call this person at two o'clock) If I drive to the rocer# store riht now do the# have the item that I need or do I need to o to the other rocer# store) 3ou can ask each /uestion one at a time and et a #es or a no. e're oin to start with feelin in #our !od# of what a #es or no feels like. I have tauht three0#ear olds how to start feelin the #es or a no. (o the# can actuall# feel what #es, #es, #es feels like in their !od#. 3ou can start #oun !ut #ou know where #our kids are at. e're oin to start with centerin #ourself. 6et comforta!le. If !# chance #ou're drivin, do it while #ou're drivin. =ater on I encourae #ou to also do it when #ou're not drivin so #ou can reall# et a sensation. *ut I would rather #ou do it than not do it. 6et comforta!le. I want #ou to %ust think and feel: 3es, #es, #es. 3es, #es, #es. 3es, #es, #es.... Now, for a moment %ust imaine that #ou have a clothes closet and it's filled with #es, #es, #es t#pe of clothin. hen #ou're read# %ust imaine #ou're oin to ra! somethin out of the closet and #ou're oin to put it on. 3ou're oin to tr# on these #es, #es, #es t#pe of clothin. Aust feel in #our !od# the sensation of #es, #es, #es. hat does #es feel like) ;o #ou feel a #es in some particular place in #our !od#) ;oes #es feel open somewhere in #our !od#) If #es had a color, what color would it !e) If #es had a te4ture, what te4ture would it !e) If #es had a sound to it, what kind of sound would #es !e)
Trust whatever comes up first, %ust trust it. If #es, #es, #es had some sort of taste, what taste would #es !e) If #es had a smell, what kind of smell would #es !e) Aust notice in #our !od# an# other sensation that #ou et from feelin #es, #es, #es. Now #ou're oin to take #our #es clothes off, put them !ack in the closet. @or a moment I want #ou to %ust think no, no, no. I want #ou to feel, no, no, no. Now imaine in front of #ou a clothes closet filled with no, no, no t#pes of clothes. 6ra! one thin out and tr# it on + put on a no, no, no kind of clothes. In #our !od# where do #ou feel no) ;o #ou feel no in a particular place) ;oes some part of #our !od# contract) ;oes some part of #our !od# feel heav#) If no had a color, what color would no, no, no !e) If no had a sound, what kind of sound would no, no, no !e) nd if no had a taste, what kind of taste would no, no, no !e) If no had a te4ture, what kind of te4ture would no !e) If no had a smell, what kind of smell would no, no, no !e) hat other sensation do #ou %ust notice or et from the fellin of no) hen #ou're read# %ust take the piece of no clothin off and han it !ack in the closet. Now we're oin to tr# somethin new on. I want #ou to think ma#!e, ma#!e, ma#!e. Ma#!e, ma#!e, ma#!e. Imaine a clothes closet filled with ma#!e kinds of clothes. Take ma#!e out of the closet and put it on. @eel what ma#!e feels like in #our !od#. ;oes ma#!e contract or open up an# particular place in #our !od#) ;oes ma#!e have a different feelin in #our !od#) If ma#!e had a color what color would ma#!e !e) If ma#!e had a sound what sound would ma#!e !e) If ma#!e had a taste what taste would ma#!e !e) If ma#!e had a te4ture to it what kind of te4ture would ma#!e !e) hat smell would ma#!e !e) hat other sensation do #ou et from the sensation of ma#!e) Ma#!e, ma#!e, ma#!e. Ma#!e, ma#!e, ma#!e + what sensation) hen #ou're read#, take that piece of clothin off and han it !ack up. Now ever# individual is uni/ue and #ou miht feel different than ever#!od# else would feel. Now let's switch #our !od# !ack to #es, #es, #es. 3ou alwa#s want to remem!er to keep #our !od# turned to the #es st#le. Turn #our !od# !ack to #es, #es, #es . 3es, #es, #es. 3es, #es, #es. Aust feel what #es is aain. The reason that #es feels so ood is, #es is reall# who #ou are, to #ou hooked up to the liht. If #ou've ever !een around some!od# who's a no person, kind of ni4in #our ideas, tellin #ou it can't !e done can #ou see how that can et a little depressin) It feels a little weird in #our !od#, riht) It ets #ou a little down, ma#!e) Have #ou ever !een around a ma#!e person) 3ou ma# have noticed that it's hard to et thins accomplished and the ener#'s kind of swirl#) @or me it's kind of swirl#. (o as a courtes# to #ourself, as a !ein reall# nice to #ourself, keep #our vi!e on #es. 3es, #es, #esK That's reat, see how intuitive #ou are) Now #ou know that at the end of the da# #ou can et intuitive answers for #ourself. ll #ou have to do is start askin /uestions and practice feelin of what #es and no feels like in #our !od# so that in a split second #ou know.
Ma#!e is an interestin thin. I threw that in there. Ma#!e feels as if it's undecided, like ma#!e her future hasn't !een decided or ma#!e #ou have to make a choice for this to occur in #our life. (o I call make ma#!e >make a choice' or >ask a !etter /uestion'. *ecause ma#!e if #ou ask another /uestion #ou can et another awareness a!out ma#!e. This has also occurred in a few classes that I've tauht so I'm %ust oin to !rin it up. hen people think #es, and thouht of a color, the# actuall# ot red. I thouht a!out it and I thouht, -h 6od, wh# is red #es) 3ou know stop lihts are the opposite, riht) 3es is reen and it means o. *ut if #ou think of the color red, what is red) @lash# cars, rac# cars, hot rod, o, o, o. (o red can !e the color of #es. I remem!ered readin somewhere that ps#choloicall# red is #es. This is sometimes wh# people actuall# !low red lihts. *ecause ps#choloicall# red is #es and reen, which is nature + think pastures, nature, trees, rela4ation0 reen is %ust a ver# rela4in thin. (o in theor#, stop lihts for some people are actuall# ps#choloicall# !ackwards. That's %ust an interestin @3I if this came up for #ou !ecause the# couldn't understand in the class wh# red was #es. Now if #ou desire, o to #our %ournal and write down an#thin #ou noticed. I like to record all of m# little whims so I can see how far I've come alon the wa#. It's appreciatin m#self. (o I encourae #ou to appreciate #ourself and write down all #our new awareness. It's like those little conratulations and attitudes of ratitude that #ou can do for #ourself alon the wa#. I would also encourae #ou to teach #our children to tr# the clothes on and call it #es and no. Bids love usin their imaination and then the# can trust themselves. 3ou can pla# with it while drivin in the car. 3ou could pla# with it + is that person happ#, #es or no, riht) (tartin at two + four #ears old or so #ou can actuall# start teachin #our child this and teach them how to trust themselves. Now we're oin to do another e4ercise. hat I'm oin to do is ask #ou a series of /uestions and now that #ou know how to et a #es or a no, #ou're actuall# oin to feel in #our !od# the #es or the no. I'm %ust oin to ask /uestions, #ou listen and %ust feel what comes up for #ou. nother thin #ou ma# notice is that usuall# the ver# first response is the actual response, -B) Intuitive awareness usuall# comes within two or three seconds. hat happens is, people /uestion what the answer is then the# o into their false sense or their eo. (o reall# %ust trust what the first thin is that comes to #ou. e're oin to start with an interestin /uestion. If #ou're drivin, aain #ou can do this !ut I would also encourae #ou to do it at home when #ou have a little !it more space so #ou can reall# feel for #ourself what this is. 7ventuall# #ou should !e a!le to et ood enouh at it that #ou can drive an#where and know in two seconds what a #es or no feels like. The first /uestion is this: If I actuall# life) If I actuall# famil#'s life) If I actuall# famil#'s life) If I actuall# famil#'s life)
do what Christie is oin to show me on all these C;s, will it improve m# do what Christie is oin to show me on all these C;s, will it improve m# do what Christie is oin to show me on all these C;s, will it improve m# do what Christie is oin to show me on all these C;s, will it improve m#
If I add more ratitude to m# life will it help me attract more ood into m# life) re #ou currentl# feelin that life serves #ou) re #ou currentl# feelin filled up with life) If #ou have kids, pick one of them. Is this child filled up with life) If #ou have another kid, pick that one. Is this child filled up with life) If #ou have children is more love and nurturin needed !etween #ou and him) If #ou have a mate are #ou feelin well cared for from them) ;o #ou have some thouht or !elief not allowin income to increase) If #ou have a mate are the# feelin well cared for !# #ou) If #ou're lookin for a mate do #ou need to put #ourself out there more in order to meet some!od#) If #ou do that will #ou meet someone special within si4 months) If #ou're lookin for a mate are in #ou in a place to meet them emotionall# riht now) If #ou ot a no will #ou chane it to a #es !# usin the tools on these C;s) If #ou ot a no, do #ou have some !elief, proram or !lock that makes #ou not desire a mate) Is it an authentic choice to not want a mate) If #ou add more self0care and love to #our dail# routine will it improve #our life) ;o #ou see #ourself !u#in a new car within two months) re #ou doin work currentl# that is !ein on #our life purpose) If #ou ot a no, can #ou find somethin !etter within eiht to ten months pa#in more than #ou currentl# make) re #ou willin to find somethin !etter within eiht to ten months) If #ou et rid of some thins in #our closet will it create more space for somethin new to show up in #our life) ick some!od# #ou know that #ou're not around currentl#. re the# outside riht now) 3ou can call them later and find outO ick some!od# else #ou know, some!od# different that #ou're not around riht now. re the# drivin riht now) Is there some thouht and !eliefs that #ou have that are !lockin relationship success) ill #ou have more kids) ill it increase the famil#'s happiness level if #ou had more kids) If #ou call upon rchanels dail# will this improve #our life) If #ou connect to the liht on a dail# !asis doin the e4ercise I'm oin to teach #ou, will this !rin #ou more in harmon# with who #ou reall# are) I %ust picked random /uestions to !rin #ou some awareness. In the C;s comin up we're oin to show #ou how to uprade ever#thin that #ou ma# have preferred not to have as an awareness. 3ou can chane these thins once #ou're aware of them. It's %ust an assessment tool. If #ou don't ask /uestions then #ou miht not have a clue where thins are at, how #ou can chane it and where #ou could o. No %udin #ourself, %ust lauh a!out it, $-B, so now I ot awareness, now I know what I need to work on&. 6o to #our pla#!ook in #our %ournal. ll of the /uestions that #ou wrote down !efore, that #ou desire to receive answers to, let's rephrase them now in a wa# that #ou know is oin to et #ou the e4act answer that #ou desire. =et's %ust start pla#in with this techni/ue. 3ou're actuall# oin to et to know what #our answers are to those /uestions. How cool is that) =ater on we're oin to o to more advanced levels so #ou can ask /uestions and actuall# intuit the whole piece of information without oin into the #es or a no. Now I want to talk to #ou a!out a concept that I like to call wron is not wron and riht is not riht, it's all %ust an interestin point0of0view. If I sa# to #ou, askin a /uestion, $;oes this dress look riht)& iht accordin to whom) -r if I sa#, $does this dress make me look fat)& @at accordin to whom) In some places fat is actuall# attractive. (o ma#!e
#ou're not fat enouh. ouldn't !e a reat world) How man# pounds does fat make) Is it over 12 or over 2) Can #ou see how this miht take some of #our /uestionin) The whole thin a!out wron is not wron and riht is not riht, it's all %ust an interestin point0of0view is to show #ou the position %udment put #ou in. If #ou're oin to ask a /uestion to et a #es or a no, ma#!e the !etter /uestion would !e $If I wear this to the meetin, will I look professional)& Is it riht for me to wear this to the meetin) iht accordin to whom) ;o #ou see the difference) (o the !etter /uestion: If I wear this to the meetin will I look professional) Ma#!e #ou want to look professional when #ou o to the meetin. -r: If I wear this outfit to the meetin, will I appear in the manner I need to in order to close the deal) That' a different wa# to phrase the /uestion. -r #ou miht sa#: $ould -prah sa# I look ood in this outfit)& Now wh# did I pick -prah) *ecause she's the kind of person who'd pro!a!l# tell #ou if #ou had stuff stuck in #our teeth, like a ood irlfriend. I heard her mention this on the show, !# the wa#, that's wh# I picked her. Ma#!e -prah would sa#, $He#, that color's %ust not #our !est color&. color&. (o !# phrasin it in a different different wa# #ou can actuall# et more honest, aware answers. nother comment a!out !eaut#, !# the wa#, is we're talkin a!out raisin #our vi!rations. *eaut# and oreousness settins have actuall# a hih vi!rational f ield. (o focusin on a !eautiful view or a !eautiful paintin or !eautiful music or dressin up actuall# do have a vi!rational upliftin affect on #ou. *eaut# is upliftin. uplif tin. *eaut# is spiritual. nother e4ample of how to ask a reall# reat /uestion is, let's %ust sa# #ou're at the store and #ou pick out a hair color. 3ou could %ust sa#, $Is this color riht for me)& *ut I wouldn't phrase it like that. If it were me, what I would do is sa#, $I choose this hair color that I'm currentl# holdin in m# hand. ill I et so man# compliments complime nts that I'll use the color aain)& That'll tell #ou a lot of information. If #ou use the color aain #ou must have reall# loved it. -r if #ou ot compliments then people went $ow, that reall# looks reatK& *ut if #ou %ust ask is it riht, aain, riht accordin to whom) 3our mother, #our lover, #our cat) It ets a little limitin. (o all the rihts or wrons sometimes have the effect of limitin our awareness and actuall# stoppin #ou. In m# dictionar# riht and wron, ood and !ad are prett# pre tt# much eliminated. I %ust see ever#thin as an interestin point0of0view. >Is it riht for me to do this) ' can !e phrased >If I do this activit# is it rewardin and nourishin to me)' Think a!out it don't #ou want to do somethin that's rewardin and nourishin to #ou) ;oesn't that seem more lovel# than askin >is it riht for me to do this)' iht puts #ou in %udment. If #ou et ood at clarif#in the /uestions #ou'll actuall# et !etter at manifestin thins !ecause it teaches #ou to et a clear description of the happ# end result. e're oin to o into manifestin in a later C; and #ou'll see wh# that's so important. *ut I am reall# ood now at askin >what's m# happ# end result and !ein a!le to sum it up in si4 words. M# happ# end result is, at the end of the da# I et this pro%ect finished. M# happ# end result is m# children row up %o#ful and the# flourish. M# happ# end result is I earn PP amount of dollars per month. M# happ# end result is m# !od# is a health#, happ# si5e filled with love. M# happ# end result is I'm happil# married to a u# who adores me and I have two kids who also adore me. The whole point !ein, if #ou can can clarif# what #our happ# end result result is then #ou can clarif# also what a /uestion is. It %ust ets #ou in the awareness of >what would a !etter /uestion !e and what would a !etter thin to manifest in m# life !e)' It ets #ou thinkin what the picture is of the happ# end result.
(ome other e4amples could !e, >if I !u# this does it make me mone#)'>If I !u# product P3Q does it actuall# make me mone#)' 3ou can do that. I've I've actuall# asked clothes, $If I !u# #ou do #ou make me mone#)& mone#)& and if it doesn't make me mone# I don't !u# it. (ounds reall# funn#, riht) >If I move to this new house does it e4pand m# life or contract it + or neither)' emem!er, #ou can onl# ask one /uestion at a time for the #es and no. (o it's >If I move to this new house does it e4pand to m# life)'>If I move to this new house does it contract m# life)'>If I chane %o!s, do I feel more stressed out)'>If I chanes %o!s in two #ears am I happ# I did it)' If I chane schools for m# child does it make life easier and more %o#ful for them)'>If I chane schools for m# child does it make it easier and more %o#ful for me and m# hu!!#)' 3ou et the point. =et's talk a!out #our children for a moment. 3ou have to uide #our children ever# da# and #ou're pro!a!l# e4plainin to them all the wrons and the rihts in the world. =et's consider an e4ample like mone# for instance. If #ou teach #our kids mone# doesn't row on trees, that mone# is hard to et or it's wron to take certain kinds of mone# !ut it's -B to take other kinds of mone#, all these wrons and rihts create limits for them. If I said to #ou, $I'd like to ive #ou one million dollars' and #ou said to me, $That's not riht, I can't accept that&, #ou have a %udment on acceptin mone#. ll of these %udments, decisions and realities can can create a pro!lem for #ou. It limits #our #our reach and #our a!ilit# to receive in #our life. 7ver# %udment #ou send out creates an ener# field of condensed ener#. hen #ou wake up in the mornin and #ou %ude how #ou look, #ou send an ener# into #our !od# that creates densit#. The more #ou %ude #our !od#, the more it ets stuck in the position in which #ou're %udin it. hen #ou %ude #our children and others #ou actuall# send dense ener# towards them. If #ou send ratitude and appreciation towards them or #ourself, it sends a liht and happ# ener# field towards whatever #ou're pro%ectin upon. Audments make thins worse and are creatin neative ener# forces. In #our !od# and ener# s#stems these %udments act like doorwa#s. The# are either closed or open to receivin the ood thins in #our life. If #ou shame and uilt #our kids as a wa# of makin them do thins, #ou're lockin into them hue ener# fields of lower consciousness. Audments lower #our vi!ration. 3our %o! as a parent is to nurture nurture that lihtness and open them to to the hiher fre/uencies. (ome children lower their fre/uenc# to et alon with the parents the# are with. (ome kids re!el aainst lower ener# and act out. The# tr# to push it awa# and re!el aainst it. (o when #ou %ude #our kids and #ou throw that ener# at them, the# have a tendenc# to want to re!el and push it !ack. (o ma#!e some of #our re!ellious kids are actuall# feelin #our %udments a!out them. Bids want to reach for hiher ener#. dd positive ener# to the mi4 and uide them towards what is e4pansive for them and the# will !e drawn to it. ll %udments have lower vi!rational fre/uenc#. (ee, If #ou're %udin somethin #ou're !asicall# decidin it's wron or #ou hate it or #ou don't like it. emem!er that hate and fear are all under 122. Audments stop #our proression from movin up into consciousness. If, for instance, #ou ive #our children half truths or lies it can also al so lower their consciousness and vi!ration a lie has a dense ener#. 3ou can onl# live a lie for so lon !efore it manifests in #our ener# field as illness or disease in some wa#. It literall# ets stuck in #our !od#.
3our consciousness surrounds surrounds #our !od#. I can look at someone's !od# and I can see where all their %udments and dense ener# is. Now if #ou have kids and let's sa# #ou hate some t#pe of food. There aain is that hate vi!ration from the level of human consciousness. 3ou %ust added a %udment, dense ener# and a point0of0view that can ma#!e limit #our child. hat if, later for instance, #ou hated a particular food, #ou said $I hate fish.& Ma#!e fish was reall# ood for #our child's !od# !ut the# picked up on #our point0of0view of >I hate'. nd the# decide that the# hate. That's kind of how it works. hat if #ou %ust decided, $I don't prefer this in this moment riht now)& Can #ou feel the ener# of that) It's a different ener# field. I don't prefer it riht now, it's not m# choice. 3ou're choosin from the moment, #ou're not choosin from a locked0in prorammer point0of0view I have literall# cleared alleries out of people's !odies from eliminatin all their %udments a!out the food the# were eatin. Ma#!e the# hated it when the# were a kid, ma#!e their mom and dad had a fiht when the# were eatin a certain kind of food. hen we releases these emotions 0 voilaK No more alleries !ecause the %udments were lifted. I'll ive #ou a few more e4amples. hat if someone close to #our child disliked sports and this person %udes all sports people. nd what if #our child's reatest ift, one of their reatest talents is sports) 3our child chil d overhears this and the# ma# take on the person's point0of0view a!out sports and ma#!e not o as far !ecause of that %udment or that opinion that snuck in and %ust sits there. I've seen this happen. Bids know what #ou like and don't like and the# want to please #ou. -r ma#!e #ou don't prefer piano #et #our child's reatest ift is piano. 3et #our repulsin, %udment, dense ener# ma# even impact their future. Intuition can show #ou how to nurture and un0frustrate !oth #ou and #our child if #ou start livin more from the space of rantin #our child permission to row and thrive in an environment not so filled with !locks and stops and %udments. e've all see this happen. e've all seen the sports parent make an o!viousl# talented in some other area child do some sport thin that the child doesn't reall# want to do. ho does it serve) ll it causes is ever#one !ein frustrated. nother wa# to look at %udments is this: hat if ever# %udment #ou were willin to let o of raises #our consciousness point !# point) *ecause this is reall# what occurs. I !asicall# work on eliminatin all m# %udments and preferences so that I'm an e4panded, clear ener# field. I'm clear and then I'm free to choose each moment that is rewardin, nurturin and happ# for me, !ut is !ased on present information not past %udments. Then I make choices in each moment which I feel are lihter and more openin to me. I choose from f rom awareness and intuitiveness, not from a previous %udment. Audment can actuall# actuall# !lock #our intuition. If #ou have a %udment >-h, that that could never !e true' #ou won't even see it sometimes in #our intuition. I'll ive #ou another e4ample. =et's sa# #ou're drivin #our car and #ou hate >oin in one particular direction'. 3ou hate it and it never works out for #ou. nd on one particular da# throuh #our awareness, #our intuition, it tells #ou to drive that wa#. 3et 3e t !ecause of all #our %udments, #our preconceptions, #ou talk #ourself out of it and #ou land in the middle of a traffic %am or even worse, an accident. It could've !een avoided if #ou had %ust taken the other route and trusted and went with #our intuition. *# the wa#, the earlier lanuae I %ust used, I spoke a!out hatin drivin this also creates an ener# comin into #our consciousness. The words that #ou use have an ener# impact. *ein mindful of #our lanuae is recommended. If #ou reularl# sa#, $I'd kill to have that& or $I hate that& or $I'd die !efore I ever...& or $I'm sick and tired of...& eople sa# these thins and the# don't pa# attention. ll these thins anchor in lower consciousness.
I've cleared hundreds of lower !ack issues from people !ecause their main point0of0view and their main %udment was that some!od# was a pain in their #ou know what. I understand that a parent has to uide their child. (o it's easier to %ust sa# that's wron or that's riht. *ut what I'm suestin is that #ou limit the %udments to onl# those that the# ma# reall# need to thrive. =ike, >The stove is hot, please don't touch it'. lthouh #ou will notice a difference in this e4ample. 3ou're uidin the child throuh awareness, throuh what is reall# true, not opinion and %udment. It is true that the stove is hot versus ma#!e sa#in >It's wron to touch the stove'. This one statement with no awareness to the child or no e4plainin, doesn't necessaril# e4pand their knowlede !ank. Aude thins lihtl# with awareness and tr# not to stick #our child with a !unch of facts that ma# !e an opinion and could limit their own a!ilit# to enerate their life their wa#. @or a moment think of some %udment #ou picked up from #our parents like, >3ou have to work hard' or >3ou can't do that' or >3ou are not riht' or >3ou are wron to do + !lank' or >3ou are too oldD too #ounD too whatever to do such and such' or >act #our ae'. hat does ae have to do with an#thin) 3ou can !e <2 and learn somethin or #ou can !e E and learn somethin, it's all su!%ective. -r >-nl# !o#s can do that' or >ct like a irl' or >(win like a irl'. In #our work!ook there's a section where #ou can o throuh and look at all the %udments that #our parents ma# have put on #ou + or other people. nd we're oin to work on clearin those in the upcomin C;s. (o please o to #our work!ook and there will !e a section in there of these /uestions I %ust asked #ou. 3ou can start listin some of the %udments that #ou ma# have picked up in #our life. The ood news is, in the ne4t C; we're oin to !e clearin some of those dense, condensed eneries that are around those %udments. e're oin to walk #ou throuh clearin the eneries that #ou ma# have placed in #our !od# or around #our ener# field that keep those %udments in place.
Chapter & -Conne"ting to Your Higher Sel! I'd like to talk to #ou a little !it a!out connectin to uides and anels. h# connect to a uide or an anel) ctuall# m# response to that is + wh# not) If there's !enefit and help in the world, wh# not) I ask. M# uides have helped me et reat relationships and have all m# material needs supported. I've otten to meet heads of state, talk a!out life with the wife of the president of a countr#, and !een on ma%or radio shows. (o aain I ask #ou + wh# not) Thouh the !est fun I have is seein the %o# when clients do the same thins for themselves and their lives work out + total empowerment, #ou otta love it. n anel also has a hiher vi!rational field that can assist #ou in transcendin past fear, and more, into the fre/uenc# of love. This hiher vi!rational uplift heihtens #our ener# field. emem!er how I said in the !einnin C; that rchanels are !eins of love and liht and their field of e4pertise and specialties can assist #ou) I also stated that their vi!ration is at ver#, ver# hih fre/uenc#. -n the scale of human consciousness, !# ;r. ;avid Hawkins, 5ero to 1222, the most a person can !e in a !od# is 1222. *ut an rchanel is wa# out of the !o4. It measures over 2,222. rchanels are what I use mostl# to help heal emotional issues on clients, to clear !locked manifestations, and to chane the whole situation. I have literall# seen healins that should have never occurred on !odies, riht !efore m# e#es usin these anels.
I have found when I tune in to people intuitivel#, ever#one has a minimum of two to three anels and uides and sometimes a lot more if the# have a tendenc# to pra# and ask for a lot of thins. sk for a lot of uidance and use the liht fre/uentl#. -ne of the thins that I commonl# hear is people sa#, $-h, I don't want to pra# for the little thins.& ell pra# for the little thins + the help is availa!le. The universe is actuall# a!undant and #ou are not takin an#thin awa# from an#one. That's fear0!ased limitin !ehaviour which is aain, not spiritual. Think cele!ration, a!undance, love, hiher vi!ration. The other wa# of thinkin is actuall# limitin and fear0!ased. If it's not tauht in #our reliion, I still see these uides and anels !ehind #ou. I've also found that when clients start usin these uides and anels, their lives can chane ver# fast + reall# rapidl# in some cases. Those people allowed the chanes to happen that fast. The chanes will happen as fast as #ou'll allow them. 3ou can actuall# ask for help on not allowin. e're oin to o into that too. This is all a!out #ou ettin more spiritual help and upradin #our realit# to the one that serves #ou. If #our life is alread# fine and dand#, reat. *ut ma#!e this can help #ou e4plore some other thins that #ou miht not have considered that are possi!le. I'm oin to walk #ou throuh meetin #our uides and council so that #ou can see e4actl# how it works and start receivin messaes from them. This is the part that I told #ou where #ou can actuall# start receivin !ier messaes than %ust the #es or the no. I would also like to clarif#, thouh, in m# e4perience the difference !etween uides and anels. I call a uide a !enevolent !ein from the liht here to help and serve #ou. In some traditions the# teach #ou to connect to #our ancestors. 3ou see, loved ones can !e uides. nels are hiher vi!rational fre/uenc# that reall# uplifts #our ener#. Not all deceased loved ones are uides however. It's %ust a choice to !e aware of. 3ou can feel the difference the more #ou open up and ask 0 is this a hiher vi!rational !ein that's with me) ;o I reall# want to receive uidance from them) nels, !# the wa#, don't %ude #ou + the# provide total love, compassion and commitment to helpin #ou 0 %ust unconditional love. Their point0of0view is >how can we help #ou raise #our vi!ration and help #ou make aware, lovin choices)' ll I know at the end of the da# is that it !enefits me, m# famil#, and m# clients. The uide ives me reat advice I keep it around. It should alwa#s !e a lovin uidin force and if it is not I send it awa#. I have sent uides awa# !efore that were not workin for me. ain, it's free will on this planet and #ou can choose thins for #ourself. 3ou're the authorit# in #our own life. The other rule of thum! to keep in mind is: #ou have to ask. 3ou have to ask to et uidance, #ou have to ask for them to !e around #ou and talk to #ou in that wa#. If #ou don't want help the# will not interfere with #our free will and ive #ou advice. (piritual help comes from askin and no re/uest is too small. =et's talk a!out meetin #our uides and anels. The first time I met m# multi0 dimensional uides and anels I was sittin in m# livin room. ll of a sudden it was like a liht switch turned on and there were a!out a do5en uides and anels in the room. I felt like I was in universe T and ever#one was watchin. The# ave me loads of information that later came to pass so I could trust the uidance. The# also started handin me spiritual ifts that came in the form of swords of liht to et rid of darkness, %ewelled staffs to uplift m# ener#, ro!es of liht that !ecame part of m# ener# field and even raised m# vi!ration. It felt like that =uck# Charms commercial where #ou et hearts, starts and reen clovers. n#wa#, it was reall# funn# what I saw in m# vision
when I received these thins !ut I felt the ener# + the ener# was palpa!le in m# !od#. nd m# life !ecame !etter so that's how I knew it worked. I could feel it and when I worked on other clients the# could feel it too. (o I ot inside and outside confirmation that these tools and ifts works. (ome clients that I worked on received what I would call 'heart uprades'. These uides and anels would help me fill people's heart chakras with liht to erase all the old de!ris. hen a client calls for a session, I help them receive these ifts %ust like I received so that the# can uprade their software, so to speak. (ometimes these !alls of liht show up to !e placed in people's chakras to clear them and empower them. The chakras are the ener# centers in #our !od#. The#'re called the spiritual centers where liht come in. If #our chakras happen to !e a little wo!!l#, #ou can literall# feel a little off in #our life. If #ou o to the work!ook, I'll e4plain a little !it more a!out the chakras and #ou can see where the# are in the !od#. I had one client come to me and her heart was wo!!l#. I could see two cracks in it and she had had two heart!reaks in her life. 3ou can literall# see this in people's ener# field when #ou look. I have even seen clients et anel wins, so to speak, that ifted them with more potential ener#. I uide clients to meet their uides, anels and council and what ends up happenin is m# clients sometimes want to ive their uides and team a name. -ne client calls her anels the Team. nother client of mine calls her uides the 6ee 6ees short for the ood u#sO. nother client calls his team The Three ise 6u#s. (o #ou can see that humor is part of the spiritual dimension. emem!er, %o# is a hih vi!rational field entwined with spirit. (ome interestin thins happen with #our children that #ou ma# not know a!out. lot of kids are ps#chic. I've had m# friend's four0#ear old trade anels with me + kind of like !ase!all cards. (he said, $M# anel Aoe wants to han out with #ou, can we trade)& I had one niece drivin in the car with m# mom when she was #oun, and she started freakin out in the !ack seat, $6ramm#, 6ramm#, there's an anel fl#in !# the carK& nd she was happil# freakin out. M# mom didn't see it so m# mom was a little anno#ed. M# other niece saw her newl#deceased randpa holdin on to the car, fl#in out of it. He was fl#in out the moon0roof. (he kept #ellin at m# sister to $(top, stop the car, 6randpa's oin to fl# outK& nd she was onl# three at the time. (o #our kids are pro!a!l# seein thins that ma# not !e so imainar#. *efore #ou start callin them their imainar# friend and ma#!e shuttin down their senses I would pro!a!l# check inside and sa#, are the# ma#!e seein a uide or an anel or a deceased loved one) (ometimes #our children will !e lookin in a corner of a room and reall# see thins. I've seen !a!ies do this. *a!ies will look in the corner of the room and when I ps#chicall# tune in I can actuall# see that it's randpa or randma checkin out the new !a!#. The potential for all this information is unlimited. nd I would hope that #ou would use it ever# da#. =et's start connectin #ou with #our uides then. I'm oin to start with a meditation to connect #ou with lovin, !enevolent !eins availa!le to assist #ou at an# time. =et's !ein. hen #ou're read# et in a comforta!le position and rela4. Take a few deep !reaths and !reathe out #our da#.
Close #our e#es and sense or see the liht that is the source. Connect to the liht. *reathe it in. llow #our !reath to transport #ou there. Take another deep !reath and feel the ener# of this liht pulsatin and startin to flow into #ou. llow this liht to start flowin into #our crown chakra. @eel this liht fillin up #our head, #our e#es, #our face... feel this liht flowin into #our neck and #our shoulders. This liht is a source of rela4ation and peace of mind. @eel this liht fillin into #our chest, #our heart, #our heart !ehind #our shoulder !lades. =et this liht move down #our arms and into #our finertips. @eel this liht sourcin #ou and allow it into #our !ell#, #our !ack and into #our hips. *reathe in. llow this liht to smooth out #our ener# fields. @eel this liht !athe awa# all the stress and worr# as it moves down #our hips into #our thihs, into #our knees and into #our calves and out #our feet. @rom #our hip area and root ener# center, #our root chakra, sense a stead# stream of ener# movin into the center of the planet. This is roundin it to #ou. Connect where #ou feel the happiest. n# eneries #ou desire to release now #ou can let o of into the round. The earth loves #ou and completel# supports #ou. Take a deep !reath and feel how much the earth supports #ou. *reathe in the liht and ask this liht to support #our life. Take another deep !reath and take in more liht. -penin to receive love is eas#. sk the liht to uide #ou in #our dail# life and infuse all #our dail# interactions with pure love and kindness. (ense the liht oin !efore #ou, spreadin pure love and kindness out into the world. (ense #our actions !ein uided to !rin in e4actl# what #ou desire. *reathe in more liht and ask the da# to !e !rihter and more lovin. This liht oes !efore #ou openin the riht doors and welcomin #ou. sk this liht to !athe #our entire heart chakra. (ense all eneries releasin into the round that limit #our a!ilit# to ive and receive love. sk this liht to fill #our whole !od# with this love, releasin all limits to en%o#in #ourself, releasin all limits to ivin and receivin love. sk this liht to ive #ou more than #ou feel #ou deserve, as the liht is a!undance itself and #ou are made of this same a!undance as well. 7ver# time #ou connect to this liht it supports and uides #ou. It uides #our decisions, alinin #ou with the !est choice for #ou. It steers #ou to ama5in opportunities. It steers #ou to !enevolent interactions and #our material needs fulfilled !etter than #ou ever hoped for. sk that an# help or uidance a mem!er of #our famil# needs to !e iven to them now. If #ou have children ask that an# support or ifts the# need !e iven to them now.
(ense the liht comin from #ou, out to support them. This liht is a constant flow in #our life. (ense the ifts oin to them and know the# are !ein uided. @eel the ratitude the# feel as the# receive this support. *reathe in the liht. =et this liht uide #ou to meet the perfect windows of opportunit#. (elf0love is desined to support #ou, so this liht can melt awa# an# fears #ou have in the wa# of nurturin and lovin #ourself. 3ou deserve the ood in life. 3ou can have #our life an# wa# #ou want it and #ou deserve to ask it to unfold in this wa#. The liht can transform an# situation #ou ma# find #ourself in. ll #ou have to do is ask and allow the liht to come throuh #our heart. -pen #ourself at an# moment in the da#, knowin #ou can receive ifts from the liht at an# time. sk the liht to follow #ou in #our da# erasin all thouhts of fear, worr# and undesired emotions, as this is not the true nature of this life. @ill #our !od# with this liht and melt awa# all thouhts, pro%ections and eneries that are no loner needed to !e stored in #our !od#. (ense these instantl# transformed and filled with liht. Thank #ourself for !ein here, as #ou are the ift. 3ou are this liht. 3ou can !rin this liht into #ou at an# time and alwa#s have it fill #ou. hen #ou're read# we would like to !rin in one of #our uardian uides or anels. sk #our uardian uide or anel to approach #ou and stand !efore #ou. 3ou ma# onl# see them as liht at first. Trust however the# appear to #ou. If #ou can, allow the form of the anel or uide to appear. Mentall# ask this uide or anel to help #ou connect to him or her. -pen #our hands and open #our heart to receive and allow this anel or uide to actuall# place a ift in #our hands now. @eel or sense what this ift is. Is it !ier than #our hands or smaller than #our hands) hat does this ener# seem like) Mentall# ask the uide, $hat is this ift for)& *reathe in more liht at an# time. Bnow that #ou can and should ask for an# ift that can support #ou throuhout the da#. The more #ou ask, the more that comes into #our life. It is safe, riht and ood to ask for these thins. This uide is here to support #ou. If #ou desire to know the uide or anel's name mentall# ask them, $hat is #our name)& If #ou desire this anel or uide to sharpen #our ps#chic senses, %ust mentall# ask them to do that riht now. Notice what #ou notice, what happens to #our !od#'s ener# s#stem when the# do this. Thank them when #ou're read# and if #ou desire, mentall# ask them to make their presence known to #ou throuhout the da#. sk them to ive #ou sins that the# are with #ou, make their presence known. Thank the uide and know that at an# time #ou can come !ack to this space and ask this anel or uide for an#thin. hen #ou're read# mentall# ask them for an# messae the# miht desire to ive #ou. Thank them and know that this anel or uide will alwa#s support #ou. This uide or anel would now like to help #ou with #our famil# or loved ones. -pen #our heart to receive this anel's love. Connect to an# famil# mem!er #ou ma# want
assistance with. Mentall# ask this uide or anel for an# messae a!out this loved one or famil# mem!er. n# other /uestion can !e answered now. Aust mentall# ask this uide or anel. Mentall# ask this uide to make their presence known in #our dail# life, supportin lovin relations with #our loved ones and famil# mem!ers. If there is another famil# issue or loved one #ou would need help with, ask this uide a /uestion a!out it now. Thank this anel or uide for their help, know that this anel or uide can help #ou deal with an# famil# situation or loved one issue with ease and %o#. This anel or uide would love to help #ou feel more comforta!le in #our skin. Mentall# ask them, $How can I feel more comforta!le in m# !od#)& -pen #our heart and hands to receive the ift of feelin more comfort, more life0filled. Notice the ift the#'ve iven #ou, is it !ier than #our hands or smaller than #our hands) It miht %ust !e some ener#. sk this uide or anel what this ener# is for, what this ift is for. hen #ou're read# ask this uide, $How do I feel more love in m# !od#) How do I actuall# feel more love)& sk this uide what is the one thin that #ou can do to add more comfort to #our !od#) Mentall# thank this uide or anel and ask them to stand to the riht of #ou and full# support #ou. 3ou're oin to ask for another uide or anel to approach #ou. sk for the new uide or anel to approach and stand !efore #ou. ain, #ou ma# onl# see them as liht at first. Aust allow #ourself to notice what #ou notice and feel what #ou feel. If #ou can, allow the form of this uide or anel to appear. hat form are the#) Mentall# ask this uide or anel to help #ou connect to him or her !etter. -pen #our hands and open #our heart to receive this liht from them and allow this anel or uide to place a ift in #our hands. @eel and sense what this ift is. Mentall# ask this uide, $hat is this ift for)& *reathe in more liht at an# time. Bnow that #ou can and should ask for an# ifts that can support #ou throuhout #our da#. The more #ou ask for, the more that comes into #our life. It is safe, riht and ood to ask for these. This uide and anel are here to support #ou. If #ou desire to know the uide's name, mentall# ask $hat is #our name)& If there is an# /uestion #ou have a!out #our life mission and purpose please ask this uide or anel now. This uide would like to ive #ou a ift now to help #ou in #our life mission and purpose. -pen #our heart and hands to receive this ift. (ense or feel the ener# comin from this ift. Mentall# ask, $hat is this ift for)& If there is an# /uestion #ou have a!out #our work life please ask this uide or anel. Thank this uide and anel and when #ou're read#, let's focus on self0care and self0love. -pen #our heart and hands to receive the ift that supports self0 love, self care and selfnurturin. 3ou deserve it. Notice what this ift is that #ou're receivin. sk, $How can I use this ift in m# dail# life)&
sk #our uide what self0nurturin activit# #ou can add to #our life now. sk this uide, $How else can I add love to m# life)& hen #ou're read# thank #our uide and send them some love. Thank #ourself and applaud #ourself for #our increasin a!ilities and !ein willin to add thins to #our life. If #ou can for a moment, e4pand #our awareness outside the realm of what #ou think is possi!le in #our life. (tretch #our awareness !e#ond #our !od#, !e#ond the !uildin #ou're in, !e#ond what #ou call #our life. 74pand into the space where #ou are connected to all thins 0 the space where #ou are aware of all possi!ilities. Invite these new possi!ilities into #our life now. Man# !lessins have !een ifted to #ou and if #ou desire, ask to !e shown all the ifts awaitin #our askin. hen #ou're comforta!le with this, ask that these ifts !e !rouht into #our life now. These ifts are to help uide #ou, keep #ou %o#ful and well cared for. n# awareness #ou want to receive that #ou haven't received #et, ask for that now. Bnow at an# time #ou can come !ack and visit and meet an# and all of #our anels and uides. 3ou can use this C; aain and ask for an# other anel or uide to appear. nd when #ou are read# #ou can !ecome full# aware of #our surroundins. -pen #our e#es, feelin full# eneri5ed, knowin all is well and ood (o if I were #ou I would consider writin in m# %ournal what information #ou received from that session. It's alwa#s nice to write down what information #ou received so later on #ou can see that thins have chaned or, #ou can see that the information that #ou utili5ed came to pass or is %ust a friendl# reminder, some nudes, of thins that #ou miht consider addin to #our life. Now I'd like to help #ou connect to the wisest version of #ourself. (ome call this part the hih self, some call it #our inner self, some call it #our infinite self. I reall# like callin it the infinite self. 3ou reall# are this infinite self and the more #ou connect to it the more aware #ou !ecome of how ama5in #ou are. hen #ou connect to this infinite, wise self #ou actuall# reali5e that #ou ma# have put a lot of limitations on #ou that don't have to !e there. 3ou actuall# et to harness this other F2 to <2percent of #ou that #ou never reall# et to tap in to. It's a lot there's a lot more to #ou than is showin up. Here's what I know for sure. If #ou connect to this infinitel# wise self #ou'll et reall# happ#. The client and people I have studied that are the happiest completel# !elieve that life supports them and that there is ood in ever#thin. That there is this infinit# wise hiher purpose to them !ein there and this hiher purpose and empowers them, helps them, it works for them. 7ven when it's >!ad' out there, the# know deep inside that this infinitel# wise part of them can tap into the assistance and turn their life around. nd that's what I desire for #ou, so that #ou know #ou're alwa#s !ein served. The other interestin !enefit to connectin to this infinitel# wise self is it raises #our vi!ration. nd when #our vi!ration is raised life works out !ecause the vi!ration of love or a!ove smoothes out the road ahead of #ou. emem!er how I said I set up m# life so that the universe supports and helps me) This is the one tool for that. The hihest vi!rational people are happ#. (o when #ou're read# %ust et in a comforta!le position + I would not do this while I'm drivin. hen #ou're read# come !ack and push pla#.
6et into a comforta!le position and rela4. (ittin or l#in down is -B. Take a few deep !reaths. *reathe in and release #our da#. *reathe in aain and release #our da#. *reathe in one more time and rela4 and let #our da# o. Close #our e#es and look up. (ense, feel or see the liht that is a source and connect to it. llow this liht to come into #ou, feelin the ener# of the liht pulsatin and allow it to fill up #our head and #our ener# field easil#. llow it to come into #our head, #our e#es, #our ears, #our face, #our skin. llow it to flow into #our neck and shoulders. This liht is a source of rela4ation and peace of mind. @eel this liht flowin into #our chest, into #our heart, fillin #our heart !ehind #our shoulder !lades. Move this li/uid liht into #our arms and out #our finertips. =et this liht source #ou and rela4 #ou. llow it to flow into #our !ell#, #our !ack and down into #our hips. This source liht smoothes out #our ener# field and moves throuh #our !od#. @eel this liht !athe awa# an# stress and an# worr# as it moves into #our hips, #our thihs, #our knees, #our calves an out #our feet. n# and all eneries #ou desire to release can !e let o of into the round. The earth loves and supports #ou. Take a deep !reath and feel the support from the earth. Take a deep !reath, fill #our heart and feel the liht support #ou. @ocus on #our !reathin rela4, feelin peaceful and focused. hen #ou are read# we're oin to call in #our uides and council. These uides and council have !een with #ou for awhile. The#'re here to protect, source #ou and help #ou. The#'re onl# for #our ood. sk them to %oin #ou and form a circle of love and liht around #ou. 3ou ma# onl# see them as liht or #ou ma# see them ver# clearl#. 7ither wa# is -B. (end out love from #our heart and feel a !i hu returned !ack to #ou. henever #ou send love from #our heart to these uides and anels the# return a !i hu !ack, overfilled with %o#, peace and love. sk the uide to the riht to send #ou some heart ener# so #ou can feel and connect to them. Move around the circle, sendin and receivin this love to each mem!er in the circle. I'll ive #ou a moment. hen #ou're read# imaine that the circle of these uides or anels opens opposite #ou, makin space for the ener# that is #our true essence to enter. This is #our most divinel# wise self wantin to !e noticed. 3ou ma# onl# see it at first as a shimmerin liht. However it appears is perfect for #ou. Invite this divinel# wise self to %oin #our circle and sit opposite #ou. Mentall# ask this divinel# wise self to create a stroner connection. sk this divinel# wise self to send #ou a hue ust of love ener# and when #ou feel it, send some !ack. hen #ou're read#, ask this divinel# wise self to mere with #ou, creatin a connection, em!od#in the ener# of the divinel# wise self into #ou. It is safe, riht and ood to !e this divinel# wise.
3ou are reclaimin this essence and askin it to mere more full# into #ou. *reathe in and make #ourself more spacious, allowin this divinel# wise self in. @eel #our atoms and #our molecules eneri5in and fillin with this divinel# wise self. sk this divine essence to make #ou more comforta!le in #our !od#, knowin all is well. hen it feels full# mered start to ask, $hat would m# divinel# wise self feel like in this !od#)& Ma#!e #ou notice that #ou feel more confident, more o!servant, more aware, more full of love. Take on the characteristics of #our divinel# wise self and notice how it feels. This divinel# wise self can help #ou with an# situation #ou ma# need uidance on at an# moment, in an# part of #our da#. sk #ourself as #our divinel# wise self what uidance can the# !rin #ou now) sk #our divinel# wise self, $hat do I need to know for m# da# toda#)& sk #our divinel# wise self are #ou !lockin an# awareness that #ou could receive now) sk #our divinel# wise self, $How do I open m# heart more)& sk #our divinel# wise self, $;o I have an# other messaes a!out m# spiritual rowth and hiher purpose)& sk #our divinel# wise self, $Is there somethin #ou can let me know a!out one of loved ones)& n# other /uestion #ou would like to ask #our divinel# wise self to ive #ou uidance on, %ust ask riht now. Thank #our divinel# wise self. sk it to !e full# present in #our !od# and in #our life, upradin #our life ever# da# so that #ou can live from this space. hen #ou're read# #ou can open #our e#es, feelin full# awake, full# eneri5ed, thankful. I would consider writin in m# %ournal an#thin that #ou have learned, an# new awareness, an# new insiht and an# new information so that #ou can see how #ou're oin to proress over the ne4t 92, ?2 and J2 da#s.
Chapter ' -(he Energeti" Soul Cleansing )or*ula 7ner# is ever#thin #ou are it. In !etween the spaces of all the molecules, the atoms, the neutrons #ou are ener#, space and consciousness. This ener# has a vi!ration that is either dense, makin all matter like #our ta!le, #our rockin chair, #our !od#. -r the 7ner# is liht, makin air, sea and clouds. 3our ener# field can !e liht or heav# dependin on #our choices and what environment #ou are currentl# in. It can also depend on what kind of thouhts, feelins, emotions #ou're havin. If #ou have a lot of %udments on thins #our ener# will !e more dense than some!od# with fewer %udments. If #ou have a stron inner critic, #our ener# will pro!a!l# !e heavier than other people. If #ou do uilt and shame to control #our famil#, #ou're usin emotional !lackmail as a form of control. The ener# of the famil# will !e of a lower vi!ration. This is not lovin consciousness. I know it's easier sometimes it's not necessaril# the most conscious choice.
Thouhts command #our vi!ration to lihtness or heaviness. 3ou can control #our vi!ration and ener# with #our thouhts. Thouhts are thins. The# have a vi!ration. If #ou're consistentl# pessimistic #ou create the vi!ration around #ou. There's a famous doctor, ;r. 7moto. He wrote a !ook called The Hidden messaes in the ater. He had people pro%ect thouhts of fear, worr#, aner and hate into water. Gsin hih speed photoraph# he took photos of the water cr#stals. the lower vi!rational cr#stals of hate, aner, fear, worr# were ver# ul#. The actuall# created no form, the# %ust looked all !lo!!# and ul#. ith people who pro%ected love, peace, wisdom, thanks and love + which is !asicall# appreciation thank #ou and I love #ou is reall# appreciation 0 harmon# and hiher vi!rational words, the cr#stals looked like ama5in snowflakes the# were oreous. The# looked like the most oreous thouhts #ou could ever have. (o he concluded that thouhts, intent and words are powerful creative thins. I consider this intent and the wa# it works as actuall# a !lessin. It's a hue !lessin that life works this wa# that choosin the words and thouhts of ener# that #ou wish to create oes out into the ethers in this reall# cool form. 3ou are made of F2percent water so #ou can attune #our !od# to a different vi!ration. s #ou did on the last C; #ou can !less #our food, #our !od#, #our water, #our car, #our children. 3ou can never et rid of emotions !ut #ou can shift them when #ou catch #ourself !ein neative and #ou can start addin the positive. I focused on this for a month a lon time ao so I could reall# et what it feels like. *ut I onl# chose words of comfort, ratitude and love. nd I did a!solutel# no complainin in m# life. It's kind of hard at first if #ou're not reall# used to it !ut after a while it ets eas# + it feels like !liss. Can #ou see that !lessin and addin love to water, #our !od#, #our house, ever#thin, can reall# move in !etween the space of ever# molecule. This works on ever# o!%ect, not %ust water. 3ou're !lessin the molecules, the atoms, the protons and all the space in !etween. I have helped people's !odies !# releasin their %udments, thouhts and decisions a!ut it. I have also helped people's !odies !# healin the emotions stuck in it. -nce the emotion and the feelin of the emotion was deleted from their !odies, their !odies naturall# re!ooted themselves and the# healed. =ook we all %ude our !odies. e look in the mirror when we et up in the mornin, the first thin we do is %ude. That's not reall# lovin to #ourself. If #ou have a trauma in #our life and #ou don't deal with it, these emotions can show up in #our !od# 12, "2, 92 #ears later. If #ou %ude #our !od# da# in da# out, like >I'm so fat, I'm so ul#, I'm so whatever' #ou're askin the ener#, space and consciousness in !etween the molecules in #our !od# to densel# proportion themselves to make it so. If #ou desire to !e thin, think thin. If #ou desire to !e prett# think prett#. *ut think from the hihest vi!rational place: >I am so rateful and thankful that I am so thin. I am so rateful and thankful that I am so prett#'. nd when #ou're thinkin a!out it, make certain that #ou're in the space of love and ratitude. >I am so rateful and thankful m# life is workin out for me. I am so rateful and thankful I have an ama5in mate in m# life. I am so rateful and thankful I have a !riht, conscious kid. I am so rateful and thankful m# !od# works for me.' I !elieve the ultimate !lessin #ou can do is do !oth kinds of ener# where #ou add the ood stuff and release the old stuff.
I had a new client who phoned me from ustralia a few weeks !ack. (he had had two operations on her stomach and her intestine had e4ploded. The one operation the first time would not heal so she needed a second operation. (he had a lon time recoverin and she wanted to find out wh# this was oin on in her life. (he was aware enouh to know that emotions can create illness and this was pro!a!l# wh# it wasn't healin. (o I went into the in%ur# and I asked, $h# does this e4ist in her !od#. The teacher said it was !ecause the !o#)& I heard in m# head, $(he !usted a ut&. I asked her, $hat does !ustin a ut mean to #ou) Cause I've never heard that term&. (he started to lauh #ou see, she had !een movin out of her old house a few months !ack. nd in this house where she had spent 1 #ears with her kids, she was packin up her stuff. The kids were rown up and she didn't need such a lare space an#more and she had %ust found a new mate. It was hard for her and she didn't have an# help and she had to o throuh all the old memories and et rid of the stuff. (he kept sa#in to ever#one that what she was doin was !ustin a ut to et it all done. In ustralia I uess it's a term the# use. (o upon further discover# into the ener# field and the !eliefs of what she was carr#in, I noticed that when she was in utero, her mom it seems had wanted to die. Those were the words that kept showin up in the ener# when I wanted to o release it. (o I asked her, $h# would #our mom want to die when #ou were in her wom!)& and she said that when she was in her wom! her father had actuall# died. Her mother had to ive her up for adoption !ecause she could not care for another !a!# as she alread# had two kids and now work, so she ave her up for adoption. However, when I went into the ener# field I could see that the mom !ein overwhelmed with the sudden turn in her life, felt like she wanted to die too. nd she was pissed. (he was like, >h# did he leave me alone and wh# couldn't it have !een me instead)' That was her thouht. eird stuff happens when we et overwhelmed with life. nd the ener# of that was in m# client still and she's in her 2's now. hat's reall# interestin is that over the course of this client's life, she literall# said she kept feelin like she wanted to die at various points in her life. (he even had a hue panic attack that happened riht after a neih!our died. It put her in a depression and a spin for weeks. 3ou see, events in life can trier thins inside of #ou and old emotions and ener# that #ou ma# not even know is still there. This was what was occurrin for her. (o I wanted to show her that some of the stuff she was feelin is not even her own stuff. I wanted to show #ou that some of the stuff #ou're feelin in #our own !od# is not even #our own stuff oriinall#. It oriinated somewhere else. fter we released this ener# from m# client she reported that she's now healin a lot faster. If she had !een willin to connect to her spiritual side and watch her words prior to this, who knows) Ma#!e it wouldn't have happened. *ut words coupled with stron emotions that are unhealed can have affect on the life all around #ou. =ove is a healer and transformer of ener#. It cuts throuh the emotion called fear that manifests as aner, dou!t, shame, worr#, uilt. 6uilt and shame are the lowest fre/uenc# emotions. emem!er, on the scale of 5ero to 1222 uilt and shame are "2 and 92 and love is 22. Havin choice over these emotions comes from feelin lovin emotions. This is mainl# how I was uided to transform people. @ill m#self with liht and et the feelin in m# !od# of total love and kindness. @or some people who are !eaten up in life, feelin kindness and love is hard. *ut the# can usuall# feel appreciation for somethin in their life. That's wh# keepin a %ournal
filled with all the thins #ou appreciate can !e a hue !oost to #our ener# field. (o I would et that ener# in m# field and fill m# whole !ein with it. nd that's how I use m# ener# to fi4 people. It's reall# a reat cure0all. It's not mental it's a feelin in the heart that !alances #our emotions. Bids need to know this, too. If the#'re a little crank# or cra5# %ust et them !ack in their heart. Bids can do this in two seconds. The#'re used to oin there. =et's %ust sa# that fear overwhelmed #ou and #ou have a choice on what to do. I choose a totall# different choice than most people. I ask m# lower emotions, m# fear, worr# aner to actuall# intensif# in m# !od#. I remem!er wakin up one mornin and I felt this pure wave of terror in m# !od#. I talked to it. I said, $Can #ou turn #ourself up for a moment so I can reall#, reall# feel #ou) 3ou must reall# want m# attention so I'll pa# attention to #ou. Aust turn it up so I can reall# feel #ou.& Then I use the consciousness of love in m# heart and usin m# liht ask the fear to turn up. I went into m# heart and transformed and transmuted it with love. =ike a candle !urnin the last !its of flame + poofK It was one. skin the ener# to work for #ou is how I live m# life. I ask that all thins in all wa#s n the universe support me. (o if a neative ener# comes up, it ma# !e leavin and I'm %ust suddenl# aware of it. I don't %ude m#self and o, $-h, #ou suck #ou had a neative thouht, #ou're !ad, #ou did this&... I don't talk to m#self like that an#more. I used to !ut it's much more pleasant in m# head no. I'm much more entle and I love m#self much more than that. I also ask /uestions. *ecause sometimes when #our !od# is doin funn# thins, sometimes #our !od# %ust wants to cr#. It's like chemical release that #our !od# %ust wants to cr# so don't %ude it. Aust ask, $m I releasin somethin)& -r $Is this reall# mine or some!od# else's)& hat do #ou need) eall#, reall# ask then add love and liht to the thins and old news that #ou have in #our !od# and ener# fields will start unravellin. hen #ou start addin some of this appreciation and a ood vi!e, sometimes what will happen is #our %unk will start leavin. It's %ust turnin up to sa# !#e0 !#e !efore it oes. (o %ust ask, $re #ou leavin or do I have to do somethin else to pa# attention to #ou)& hen m# %unk is leavin sometimes I don't even now what it's a!out so I have to o in and ask. (o sometimes #ou have to et a sense and know e4actl# what it's a!out. The issues people are havin is !ecause the#'re unwillin to o into the ener#, look at it without %udment and o, $Hmm... I'm feelin reall# anr#. How cool is this) I can %ust fiure somethin out toda#&. Notice I'm not pro%ectin m# aner an#where. I'm not shoutin at an#one or dumpin m# crap on another human !ein. I reall# tr# with all m# efforts to never do that + it's !ad manners. Instead, I o into the ener# and o $owK I'm anr#. h# are #ou in m# life) hat are #ou tr#in to show me)& *ut a!ove all else, talk to it. I'm oin to share somethin with #ou that I noticed. hat if the thouhts, feelins and sometimes even emotions that are in #our !od# and #our head are not even #our own) hat if #ou're sittin at a stopliht and #ou kept feelin anr# and hurt) nd what if #ou asked this /uestion: Is this m# ener# or is it some!od# else's) Is this thouht that I'm havin mine or some!od# else's) hat if the hurried, anr# thouht was actuall# the u# sittin !ehind #ou, pro%ectin upon #ou, wantin #ou to speed up) hat if <2 percent or so of the thouhts in #our head are not even #our own) the#'re some!od# else's and like a !i, ps#chic radio antenna #ou're pickin up on it)
I have found that a ood !it of stuff in m# head is not actuall# m# own thouhts. (o whenever #ou're anr#, ma#!e ask, $Is this mine or some!od# else's)& If it's some!od# else's it will feel liht when #ou acknowlede it. nd if it's #our own, use the liht tools I'm oin to share with #ou and add positive chare to it and transmute it. If #ou're around people with sense ener# fields + sometimes referred to as neative vi!es + #ou can soak these up. I've had clients call me who were sick and it was !ecause the# were choosin to han out with neative folks and the# were not willin to clean up their ener# afterwards. (o if it's heav# #ou're oin to have to clean it up and I'm oin to show #ou how. I'm oin to walk #ou now throuh an e4ercise. 7ven kids can do this. I had a client whose little ?0#ear old was havin meltdowns in school all of a sudden. (he called me and I asked ps#chicall# what's up with her) I ot a picture of a little irl sittin ne4t to an anr# !o# in class. I ot a vision of this poor !o# alwa#s ettin critici5ed !# his parents and emotionall# sucker0punched !# his father. The kid's main feelins a!out himself and in his ener# field were >I'm alwa#s in trou!le'. That was his main !elief and he was onl# ?. I mean, it was intense. If I was that child I would pro!a!l# !e anr# too. I was so upset with what I saw, that the unconscious parents were %ust takin all the ar!ae out on their kid. The sad thin is that it pro!a!l# happened to them when the# were kids so it's the onl# wa# the# knew to raise a child. nd that is !asicall#, in a nutshell, wh# I'm doin this series. M# client's dauhter, the ?0#ear old, started havin meltdowns in school where she literall# #elled at the teacher. nd she had never done this in her whole life. (o I told the client, $sk if #our dauhter could !e moved to a different seat. sk the teacher if she recentl# moved her for a reason&. The mom oes to school, asked the teacher wh# she moved her dauhter ne4t to the !o#. The teacher said it was !ecause the !ow was alwa#s a disruption, $(o I fiured if I moved him ne4t to #our dauhter she would keep him calm !ecause she's such a likea!le kid&. The teacher's instinct was riht on the mone#. *ecause m# client's dauhter was as intuitive as the# come and she was usin her !od# to heal the !o# ever# da#, takin in his ener# and processin his emotions. 3ou've alread# !een ifted with tools that #ou can use if #ou or #our child is in this position. 3ou can send the !o# !lessin, !lessin, !lessin, sa#: $I !less #ou with pure love and liht& until #ou feel the ener# lift. 3ou can ask that the ener# !e transmuted as I'm oin to show #ou in the ne4t !it. -r #ou can call in rchanels and ask them to transmute or chane the ener# for #ou. (o #ou alwa#s have options. *ut first #ou should alwa#s ask that #our !od# stop healin the person that #ou're sittin ne4t to. Now I know a lot of #ou miht !e thinkin, $This is not m# child, m# child is not that intuitive&. *ut I am here to tell #ou we all have this capa!ilit#, this capacit#. It happens more than #ou think, !ut !ecause #ou miht not see ener# and look at the world the wa# I do, #ou think #our pro!lems are caused !# one thin, !ut at the end of the da#, all of #our pro!lems start at the ener# level. nd unless #ou're willin to !ecome this intuitivel# aware, at some #ou're alwa#s !ein controlled !# other influences. If a parent is cra!!# I can uarantee #ou it will affect the child. The child wants to !e loved, cuddled, cherished and happ#. If #ou're cra!!# #our child will start takin their !od# and their !od#'s ener# s#stems, start takin up all #our stuff and processin #our emotions for #ou. The# do this so that #ou will et over #our stuff and start !ein lovin, kind and fun. emem!er, the# still think the#'re infinite !eins !ein %o#ful and hih vi!ration and the# reall# !elieve that the# can fi4 #ou cause the#'re infinite !eins. nd if the# can't
fi4 #ou then there must !e somethin wron with them and their spiritual ifts must not !e workin. This is how an infinite !ein would reall# think. This is how kids intuitivel# think. Bids think that if parents are not happ#, then its their fault at some level. If #ou ask most children of divorced parents if the# think that at some level it was their fault, F2 to <2 percent of them will sa# #es. This is what I've noticed. If #ou're a parent #ou will have to let them know that this is not true. This is #our stuff and the# don't have to fi4 #ou !ecause #ou're oin to work on it. If I look at a !a!# I can tell in two seconds if the mom is happ#. Its in the !a!#'s ener# field. emem!er #our children are infinite !eins in a !od#. The#'re huel# aware infinite !eins who happen to !e in a small !od# for a while. The#'re souls in a !od#, %ust like #ou. The# remem!er more than #ou miht what it is like to o from infiniteness into a !od# + the# %ust ot here. I will tell #ou, what I spend most of m# time on with a client: all the issues, emotions, thouhts and feelins that are creatin their life most likel# occurred !efore the ae of seven. (o if the#'re havin an issue with a mate I know it's usuall# unresolved parent stuff that the# inested !efore the ae of seven in how to do relationships, or the#'ve seen mom and dad fiht, or wantin to fi4 it, or some other heartache a!out love. If the# are havin mone# issues, < to J2 percent of the time it's from how their parents uided them a!out mone#. It's how their parents did mone# or lack of trainin in how to make mone# work for them. If a client has self0worth issues that the#'re manifestin in their life, more than likel# the imprintin of this occurred !efore the# were seven and the# were prorammed into it when the# were rowin up. Now these clients do no know this is where It tracked to. If the# had the# pro!a!l# would have fi4ed it. *ut I had to show them and then the# knew e4actl# what the incident was or wh# the# have this ener# in their s#stem. nd once the ener# resolves itself the pro!lem oes awa#. I'm oin to show #ou how to do this. The reatest ift an# parent can ive their children in conscious parentin is to !e aware enouh to ask, $hat do I need to do in m# child's !est interest)& nd then keep the famil#'s ener# field so clean that the vi!rational thermostat is set to love and a!ove. Ao#, consciousness and peace. (o the ne4t thin I'm oin to show #ou how to do will !e one of the main thins that #ou do ever# da# . I don't let m#self feel dense or heav# in an# part of m# da#. I let m#self feel full of liht. If #ou have to do this "2 or 92 times a da#, %ust do it it !ecomes a part of #ou. nd !ecause #ou feel so much !etter #ou will alwa#s do it. I have tauht kids seven and over to do this kids will do this. Notice riht now an# dense ener# in, on or around #our !od# and ask: is this m# ener#) Then feel a #es or a no response. If it's liht it's pro!a!l# a #es. If it feels heav# or >no' then it's pro!a!l# not #our ener#. The aain: is this some!od# else's ener#) feel for a #es or a no. Is it somethin else) @eel for a #es or a no. 3ou can muscle test it if #ou want !ut what #ou'll reall# et is, if it's like it's true, if it's heav# it's not true.
Is this m# ener#) Is this m# ener# or is it somethin else) -nce #ou have the awareness and it's #ours, connect to the liht, move the liht into #our heart, radiate the liht into the dense ener# until #ou feel it lift. 3ou can alwa#s call upon rchanel Michael who clears all dense neative ener# in !odies and spaces. If #ou desire some assistance call him in and ask him to help #ou release it. If it's some!od# else's ener# connect to the ener#, connect to the liht, move the liht into #our heart radiate the liht into the dense ener# until #ou feel it lift. If some!od# is connectin to #ou it means the# think that the# need somethin from #ou. (o %ust send them a hih vi!rational !lessin %ust !less them. *less them with pure love and liht and : &I !less #ou with whatever #ou think #ou need from me&. Aust do this until it lifts. If it's somethin else sometimes it's the earth. The earth %ust wants some ener# from #ou. Connect to the liht, !reathe it in. Call it into #our heart then radiate this ener# into the earth !# !lessin the earth. Aust sa#, $I !less #ou with pure love and liht and I !less #ou with whatever #ou feel #ou need from me&. It should feel a lot lihter after #ou do this. I was at the amusement park and a child was standin in front of me he was a!out 12. He was adora!le. He looked like a little anel. He had little puff# cheeks, he was cute. *ut he was decidedl# unhapp# and he was whinin up a storm. He was with his older !rother, a!out 1" and his mom. I started chattin with them !ecause I could see what was up in the kid's ener# field. fter I was talkin to the mom for a !it I talked to her "20#ear old and I said, $3ou seem a little tired ma#!e. ould #ou pla# a little ame with me for a minute)& He looked at his mom, he looked a little pu55led, she nodded. I said, $3ou now this tiredness, this crankiness #ou're feelin) Is this #our ener# or is it some!od# else's)& nd in less than two seconds he look at his !rother, pointed and said, $It's his.& Bids are the# ps#chic. I looked at his !rother and said, $ere #ou anno#ed with somethin a!out an hour and a half ao)& emem!er, I alwa#s ask so I knew riht awa# when it happened. I asked in m# head: when did this happen) and I heard reall# /uick: an hour and a half ao. (o I asked the kid, $hen did this happen) ere #ou mad and hour and a half ao)& nd he said, $3eah. M# dad told me I couldn't !u# somethin&. I asked the !rother, $ere #ou mad)& and he said, $3eah, I still am&. (o I said to the kids, in the future ask the /uestion: is this m# ener# or is it some!od# else's) when #ou et aitated. Then I looked at the 12 #ear0 old and I told his mom that he tended to take into his !od# all the emotions the famil# was feelin, or healin the entire famil#. His mom areed that he was like that. (o I told the 120#ear old to %ust sa#, $I return all this ener# to the sender with a !lessin of love and consciousness attached&. Then I told him to ask his !od# to %ust stop healin ever#!od#. 3ou can do that, #ou can talk to #our !od# like that. ain, there are kids in families who will take on all the d#sfunctional famil# ener# into their !od# in order to fi4 whomever is fearful. (o check inside and ask in #our ener# field: Is there some!od# like this in m# famil#) as I the person, rowin up, that did this) m I still doin it)
(o all the places that #ou're doin this, %ust ask #our !od# to please stop healin ever#!od# else. It's a ift and a talent, so it's not somethin that's necessaril# neative !ut if #ou want all #our ener# for a while %ust ask that #our !od# heal itself. If #ou were uided to this C; series #ou're pro!a!l# the person in the famil# who does this. eople drawn to me tend to !e naturall# talented in intuitiveness and healin and knowin what is up on a ver# deep level. I've had parents !rin me their kids who are fre/uentl# ettin sick. The ma%orit# of the reasons was !ecause the# were takin on all the famil# stuff, or the# were stressed out from school and no pla#. -ne little irl could not heal her throat and had to et her tonsils taken out !ecause it was her mom's aner it tracked to her mom. That's where the anels uided me. hen she came to me I showed her how to clean her ener# field and cut cords and return all the ener#. (he was onl# eiht. I tauht the mom how to heal her aner and clear her stuff ever# da#. nd it !ecame a much happier and healthier famil#. It's not a !i deal to clear #our ener#, #ou %ust have to know what to look for then actuall# do it. =et's talk a!out cuttin the cords. hat is cord cuttin) In the ener# world I oftentimes see ener# cords !etween families that contain fear0!ased ener#. @ear, aner, worr# are fre/uencies people tend to pro%ect onto kids in order to protect them. However, if #ou're alwa#s worried, it contains seeds of dou!t that ever#thin is not -B in the world. It sa#s the world is inherentl# unsafe. How man# of #ou have heard the phrase >It's time to cut the cords') e use it in our ever#da# lanuae, so we are aware of it at a ver# deep level even if #ou haven't thouht a!out it this wa# #ou're aware of it. (o these eneries et pro%ected upon people and these surical0lookin tu!es of ener# are implanted in families. Man# times #our !odies can !e affected !# this. If #ou have a consistent sore spot in #our !od#, I can uarantee #ou, either have a cord of fear there or a fear0!ased emotion attached to that spot in, on or around #our !od#. That's how I track thins. Gsuall# in sessions I clear an ener# for a client and I tell them where it was located and the# sa#, $owK I've !een hurtin there latel#&. I had this happen with a client two da#s ao. I cleared some ener# from the !ack of her heart and she said, $ow, m# !ack's !een hurtin there&. It was old heartache read# to o. 3ou'd also find pain in the tush, pain in the neck weiht of the world on our shoulders... I find that most people hide their ener# !ehind their !ack. (o if #ou look at #our !ack's ener# #ou can pro!a!l# find most of #our stuff that #ou don't want to deal with there. e >put it !ehind us' so we don't have to look at it. sk inside riht now, how man# emotional are !ehind #our !ack enereticall# that #ou thouht #ou dealt with !ut #ou never did) Is the num!er over "22 or under "22) sk it aain: how man# emotional wounds are !ehind #our !ack enereticall# that #ou thouht #ou dealt with) -ver "22... under "22. How cool is it that #our !od# loves #ou so much that it helps to create pain to show #ou where #our stuff is) I reatl# respect m# !od# for doin this for me. It's like sa#in, $He#, pa# attentionK -ld ener# + can #ou %ust release it)& 3our !od# is ver# kind to #ou that wa#.
If #ou're willin and a!le to !e so clean in dealin with ener# on an ever#da# !asis, it would never manifest in #our !od#. *# the time some ener# hits #our !od# and creates a pain fre/uenc#, #ou have pro!a!l# !een iven the data from #our intuition a!out it for a lon time !ut #ou would not listen. (o then #our !od# takes it on in order to ps#chicall# ive #ou the information. If #ou %ust !ecame more intuitive, aware, #our infinite !ein self, then #ou reall# would not have to let #our ener# sta# in #our !od#. Aust like #ou take a shower ever# da#, #ou miht want to consider clearin #our ener# fields ever# da#. erhaps it's somethin #ou don't normall# do in #our life so %ust ask: $How can I make this eas# to add to m# life now) Can I do it in the shower) Can I do it !efore I o to !ed)& -r how a!out ever# time #ou !rush #our teeth #ou clean #our ener#, #ou infuse love in #ourself and #ou cut #our cords) I know a famil# who does this !efore the# eat dinner as a famil#. Consider incorporatin it into #our dail# routine. iht now I would love #ou to pick a spot in #our !od# that's tender or sore or callin #our attention. Close #our e#es, look up, connect to the liht, let the liht in #our heart and !e the love and liht #ou are. eall# feel this liht up in #our whole !od#. Call upon rchanel Michael. rchanel Michael carries a sword of liht and love that clears all fears and lowers dense eneries. (o we're oin to talk to #our !od#. hen #ou're read# %ust sa# to #our !od#: In this spot do I have an old emotion stuck here) If so, what is it) ;o I have some %udment stuck here) If so, what is it) Is some!od# else connected to me here) If so, whom) s is it male or female and start from there. Is it male or female) re #ou attached to an emotional in%ur#) -B, sore spot, what are #ou tellin me) 7ven if #ou think #ou're makin this all up, %ust allow whatever insiht pops in. 6ot #our messae) e're oin to clear all this ener# in a moment !ut I %ust want #ou to reali5e that what #ou think is up is not alwa#s what is reall# up with #our !od#. =iht is true, heav# is false. If some!od#'s talkin to #ou and #ou start to feel heaviness, it could !e that the#'re usin lower vi!rations and consciousness. ;ramaDtrauma, or the#'re tellin #ou a lie. 7ver# moment of ever# da# #ou're feelin ener#. If the ener# #ou are feelin is heav#, it's a lie which the person ma# or ma# not know is a lie !ut it's %ust untruth. (o if the ener# #ou're feelin is heav#, it's an untruth or a lie, or it's lower consciousness like uilt, fear, worr#, shame, anst. If #ou were not feelin that ener# until #ou ot around that person, it's pro!a!l# ps#chic information. Think a!out it. Most people on the planet vi!rate under the fre/uenc# of love under the consciousness of %o#, cele!ration and peace. I'm so sorr#, it's %ust true. That's wh# I feel it's vitall# important for #ou to monitor #our ener# as a wa# of life. 3ou're entrained in lower ener# fields more than #ou can imaine. These lower ener# fields are dense and #ou'll sense them in #our !od#. 3ou know when #ou walk into a room and it's filled with neative vi!es, #ou can feel it) This is dense ener#. It's comin throuh #our ps#chic senses. I use rchanels and m#
intent to clear this ener#. I've even cleared the ener# of old cemeteries with anels. I've %ust asked to et rid of the rief ener# so I could actuall# %ust stand there. 3ou can o throuh life like this. It's fun and it creates !lessins for people and the planet. 3ou should also clear the spaces in #our home and office etc. Hiher consciousness feels liht. (o tr# to live #our life !ein liht. nd if it's not liht turn on #our inner liht of %o#, love cele!ration and fun and make it so. I'm oin to talk to #ou a little !it a!out how I clear a space. If I walk into an ener# field or room and it feels kind of not so fun, I will imaine a !i tornado %ust comin into the space + I usuall# imaine it purple + and I imaine it suckin up all the dense de!ris ener#. 3ou can do this for an#thin. 3ou can teach #our kids how to do that to their room suck up the little !oe#men or whatever shows up for them. It's %ust a !i vacuum that comes in. I was drivin and all of a sudden it %ust popped in m# head + purple tornado to clear out m# space. (o that's what I did. nother thin #ou can do, and I found this out !# stud#in @en (hui is, if #ou walk into #our room and #ou start clappin around the space, #ou'll find places in the room where when #ou clap it's more of a thud instead of a crisp clap. I know it sounds kind of funn#. *ut walk around #our room and clap and #ou'll hear a difference in the tone of #our clap. If it feels more like a thud or a more dense clap, then clap around there until #ou can et it liht. -r call in the tornado thin and imaine it %ust suckin up ever#thin in that space. I had a client who alwa#s had issues with her mom. I talked to her a!out cuttin all cords !etween her and her mom ever# da# as an e4periment to see how she feels. There was a lot of drama and neediness !etween them. This client was oftentimes callin me, complainin a!out feelin tired and sick with no ener#. (o I alwa#s cut her cords and she alwa#s felt !etter, I tauht her to do it #et she would not do it for herself. @inall# one da#, I asked her to %ust humor me and do it for a week, and ask her mom to do it as well. I told her she had nothin to lose. ell she actuall# did it this time and somethin wonderful happened. M# client actuall# !ecame happier the more she did it. Her mom !ecame more alert and not so scared of life. M# client reali5ed that part of her life force was oin to holdin her mom up and this is wh# she did not have her own life. (he received her life !ack, she !ecame happ#. (he moved to another state, found a !o#friend and is now totall# happ#. Her mom started ettin out of the house more and started takin real action in her life as well. It was the most transformation I had ever seen in some!od# !etween her and her mom in such a short time %ust from cuttin cords. h# did this finall# happen) *ecause she actuall# took action herself. Is there some!od# in #our life that #ou're holdin up) I have noticed that when #ou do more for a person than the# are willin to do for themselves sometimes, it kind of acts as ena!lin. nd sometimes the#'ll resent #ou. nd sometimes it will drain #ou. *ut the loner #ou hold them, the loner the# do not do it for themselves. Teach them how to do this form themselves, then like a mama !ird with her little chick, throw them out of the ener# nest #ou created for them !ecause the# have alread# !uilt their own. Consider askin /uestions. Is it in m# happiest path to hold this person up) Ma#!e it is for a while, !ut #ou should ask: is this person detractin me from m# life purpose) Can I teach them how to do this for themselves) -r: is this reall# servin me) (o send the love, liht and !lessins !ut don't let them drain #ou. (ome depression in m# opinion is %ust life force !ein drained out of #ou and #ou're not fillin up with the ood stuff life force, love, kindness, %o#. It can happen to an#one. I
have seen miraculous healin take place !# people cuttin out the drainin issues in their life and fillin !ack in with love. emem!er, #ou're ener#. nd %ust like water, #ou can transform ener# into hot, cold, free5in or steamin. (o too can #ou chane #our life vitalit# to increase it. If #ou consider how much mone# is spent on drus and depression medicine, can #ou see that manain #our ener# field ever# da# is vital to health# livin) The life force drainin can take place from #our thouhts and !eliefs a!out life and #ourself which #ou can chane with choice and tools. -r #ou could !e drainin #ourself !# ivin #our ener# to some!od# else + like tr#in to make some!od# chane who doesn't want to. -r tr#in to make somethin happen that won't !ude. h# don't we ask inside riht now, or muscle test how man# people are drainin #ou) -ver ten or under 12) How man# people are drainin #ou riht now) -ver 12 or under 12) This is where we're oin. e're oin to o with an e4ercise a little later to clear these. If #ou're around a sick person and #our !od#'s ener# is healin them, this can !e ver# drainin to caretakers. More often than not, this is the case. I have tauht nurses and doctors how to keep their ener# filled up. 3ou could %ust !e drained !# not fillin #ourself with peaceful ood ener# ever# da#. Now if #ou want riht now, #ou could actuall# check #ourself !# askin + or muscle test0 on a scale of one to 122 122 !ein totall# filled up, feelin fantastic and alive and 5ero !ein deadO, how filled up with life force am I now) *etween one and 122 how filled up with life force am I now) -ver 2 or under 2) -ver <2 or under <2) Most people read !etween ?2 and <2 percent. The ?2percent is onl# half of #our life force + not so ood. If #ou received a lower num!er, I would ma#!e check inside. Is it in #our hihest and !est ood to et checked out !# a doctor) 3our !od# miht need some help. The cool thin is, the more #ou look up to the liht, connect to the liht and let #ourself !e love and liht, in #our ener# field ever# da#, the more #ou naturall# increase #our vitalit#, start eliminatin depletin attitudes thouhts and !el iefs naturall#, %ust !# addin liht. nother client of mine wanted to manifest a mate and was havin no luck. hen I looked at her ener# field I noticed two cords of fear from past lovers. -ne in her !ell# !utton in the um!ilical cord area and another in the private area. hen we cut the cords one of the e4es called within a week. This is normal, hen #ou cut the cords of fear to another person the# can feel this and the# ma# ha!ituall# tr# to reconnect. (o #ou ma# have to do this more than one time. If #ou keep #ourself filled up it pro!a!l# won't happen. The#'re doin this !ecause t feels familiar to !e connected to #ou. hat happened to her is she !asicall# ot a mate within four months. (he saw that there was a pattern in the past that had alwa#s occurred !etween the fourth and fifth date when it was time to o to the ne4t step where the# suddenl# !ecame disinterested. I think the men were intuitivel# feelin she was connectin to another man. I've seen this man#, man# times. (o much so that I know it's not a coincidence, it's hihl# unlikel#. This is wh# I'm oin to share with #ou these tools a!out cuttin the cords. Here's how I look at #ou. I see #ou as an infinite !ein who can know, perceive, receive an#thin #ou want. @or this time I'm oin to uide #ou with #our e#es closed. However, when I teach people on the phone or in class I %ust throw the clients in e#es open !ecause what I know for sure is the#'re alread# ps#chic.
I want #ou to do this on a dail# !asis and I don't want #ou to make a !i deal a!out it. Aust do it when #ou're drivin , takin a walk, takin a shower, whatever. If #ou have the time to lie down and reall# focus, put on the C; and do some deep cleanin. Aust listen to this as #ou o to sleep. If #ou have kids the# can listen to the C; with #ou or #ou can learn how to do it then teach them and show them. Bids are reall# /uick + it's like pla#in video ames in their head the# reall# et it. Aust uide them throuh it or have them listen to the C;. I know people are !ust and it's more important to do this than not do it. Clients who !ecome empowered are hose who use the tools, empower themselves, turn their lihts on !riht and do the thins I teach them on a dail# !asis and consistentl#. d that's m# heart's desire for #ou. Close #our e#es, et in a comforta!le position. hen #ou're read# %ust take a deep !reath and !reathe out #our da#. Take another deep !reathe, rela4 and !reathe out #our da#. Take another deep !reath, feel #our !od# rela4... peaceful. =ook up and see or sense the liht. Connect to the liht and ask it to start fillin #our !od#. =et the liht come into #our !od#, #our head... it fills #our face, radiates liht into #our throat, feelin an# denseness instantl# releasin. This liht oes down and fills #our shoulders and moves into #our heart. @eel this liht move down #our arms, into #our wrists, #our hands, #our finers and out #our finertips. sk the liht to radiate and fill #our chest cavit#, #our heart, #our ri!cae, #our a!domen, #our hips. Move the liht down into #our thihs, #ou knees, calves and #our feet lettin this ener# move into the round. (ee or sense an ener# comin from #our hips that moves down #our hips, down #our feet, down #our les and into the round. (ee it connectin to the Center of the planet where it feels the happiest. (ee #ourself radiatin this lovin source liht all around #our ener# field, so #ou feel and look like a olden sun. If #ou feel drawn to it, invite in an# rchanels of the hihest liht and #our !enevolent uides to assist #ou. hen #ou're read#, ask the liht to shine !rihtl# on an# fear0!ased cords on #our !od#. =ike a flashliht, ask the liht to liht these up. Notice these without an# %udment. nd if #ou have an# sore spots in #our !od# sense if there's a cord there. sk #our divinel# wise self that is alwa#s with #ou, this divinel# wise self that is alwa#s part of #ou, ask this divinel# wise self for a liht tool. This liht tool is oin to !e used to cut an# cords of lower consciousness or fear. If #ou hold #our hand out and open #our heart #ou'll feel the tool !ein placed in #our hand. Ma#!e it's a sword or ma#!e its scissors or ma#!e it's somethin else. hen #ou are read# find one of these cords of fear and imaine cuttin the cord easil#. Aust whooshK nd see it one. sk #our anel for assistance. Now ask #our heart to send a pure flame of white liht to the cord that has !een severed. (ense it sparklin with intense flame of white love and liht that travel down the cord, !urnin up the cord and all fear0!ased aendas with love. nd when this flame hits the other person connected to it, it sparks and adds purified love and liht to that person.
sk #our heart to send sparks of love to the spot it was attached to in #our !od#, usin the liht that is radiatin throuh #ou. Turn the ener# to li/uid liht and fill #our !od# in. This li/uid liht now transforms and heals #our !od# instantl#. This li/uid liht creates the !lueprint of the health#, purified !od# in #our !od# ener# s#stems. This li/uid liht dissolves all %udments, thouhts and decisions #ou made, that allowed these fear0 !ased aendas to show up in #our life and it heals ever#thin instantl# now. Notice an# other cord #ou wish to release and aain, take #our liht tool and whooshK Cut the cord easil#. llow #our heart to send aflame of ener#, fl#in the cord !ack with lovin liht to whomever it is connected. If #ou feel #ou cannot reach it, as #our heart to send a spark to the cord instantl#, severin all ties to #our !od#. sk #our heart to send sparks of love to the spot it was attached to in #our !od#, usin the liht that is radiatin throuh #ou, turnin to li/uid liht and fillin the !od# in. This li/uid liht transforms and heals the !od# instantl# now. 3ou create the !lueprint of a health#, purified !od# and ener# s#stem. This li/uid liht dissolves all %udments, thouhts and decisions that #ou made that allowed these fear0!ased aendas to show up in #our life and ever#thin heals instantl# now. In a moment I'm oin to ask #ou to %ust notice all other cords that #ou wish to release. ;o #ou have more than 12 or less than 12) Gsin #our liht tool and #our anel, cut the cords easil#. I'll ive #ou a moment that #ou can cut them all, sendin them !ack in a flame of white liht from #our heart to the sender. These cords of fear release instantl#, easil#. sk #our heart to send sparks of love to the spots where these cords are attached to #our !od#. Gsin the liht that is radiatin throuh #ou, turnin to li/uid liht and fillin the !od# in. This li/uid liht transforms and heals the !od# instantl# now, restorin the !lueprint of the health#, purified !od# and !od# ener# s#stems. This li/uid liht dissolves all %udments, thouhts and decisions #ou made that allowed these fear0!ased aendas #ou allowed to show up in #our life. nd ever#thin heals instantl# now. Thank #our anel. Thank #our divinel# wise self that is alwa#s a part of #ou and when #ou are read#, %ust take #our liht tool, place it !ack in #our heart so it is alwa#s readil# availa!le to use at an# time. emind #ourself that all is well, #ou are freel# a!le to move forward in life, fellin alined in love, movin forward racefull# and %o#full#. hen #ou are read# #ou can open #our e#es feelin full# eneri5ed, feelin loved in all wa#s. 3ou ma# want to consider %ournalin what came up for #ou and what kind of eneries #ou've cleared. It's reat to ive #ourself acknowledment and appreciation for all the ood that #ou're doin for #ourself riht now. (o o to #our %ournal, acknowlede #ourself and write down all the winds and cele!rations that occurred in clearin #our ener#.
Chapter + -(he Art o! Choosing Your Reality
=et's talk a!out manifestin toda#. =ivin #our dream, choosin #our realit#. hat do -prah infre#, comedian Aim Carre#, Nicole Bidman, Aack Canfield, ictor Hanson, Batie Holmes. Michael Aordon, =ouise Ba#, Mariah Care#'s new hus!and Nick Cannon, rnold (chwar5eneer, Aack Nicholson, Aenn# McCarth# and do5ens of -l#mpic athletes all have in common) The# all !elieve in the power of creative visuali5ation. This power of creative visuali5ation is part of manifestin. Aim Carre# for instance, endorses visuali5ation. He sa#s he used to drive himself atop the Holl#wood hills, sit in his car !# himself and visuali5e, visuali5e, visuali5e. He sa#s he would not let himself o home until he firml# !elieved that the pictures of success that he was pla#in in his mind's e#e were true. nd when he was feelin euphoric from the success he had pictured, onl# then would he allow himself to o home. He sa#s that the return trip home was wonderful !ecause he felt that all the wonderful thins he had visuali5ed were a realit# and then he was a happ# camper. -ne of the most leendar# e4amples of Ain Carre#'s devotion to visuali5ation was when he made a check out to himself for 12 million dollars for actin services rendered. In 1JJ2, when he was a relative unknown was when he did it. He posted the check Thanksivin 1JJ. Here's what happened, He was paid a total of <22,222 for starrin in ce enture et ;etective and The Mask. He sa#s it was ood pa# for him at the time, especiall# compared to the earlier times when he would drive 122 miles in order to perform for free. *ut the hue success of ce entura and The Mask /uickl# catapulted him into other multi million dollar pa#checks. He received 8F million for ;um! and ;um!er. *ut the ama5in thin happened %ust !efore 1JJ, he sined a contract for 812 million. He sa#s he wrote the check as an affirmation of ever#thin he'd ever learned. It wasn't a!out the mone#. He knew that if he made that much mone# He'd !e workin with the !est people and the !est material and that was alwa#s his real dream. If #ou ive up on #our dream he sa#s, what's left) -f course never for a second did Aim Carre# ive up on his dream, even when he was livin in a camper with his famil# after his dad lost his %o!. He had a dream, he visuali5ed his dreams and uess what) The# came true. ill (mith I saw him on 3ouTu!e the other da#. He was talkin a!out how #ou command and demand that the universe !ecomes what #ou want. uthors Aack Canfield and Mark ictor Hanson of Chicken (oup for the (oul fame desired to have a mea !est0sellin !ook. That's what the# asked for, that's what the# visuali5ed. nd look what happenedD The# now have man#, man#, man# !est sellin !ooks. Michael Aordan he used visuali5ation to !ecome arua!l# the reatest !asket!all pla#er in histor#. He used to o to the championship ames in Chicao and he would watch him. It was like this inner liht !ul! turned on and he said. $I'm oin to do it no matter what. It was powerful. 7llen ;eeneres, winner of over "J 7mm#s for her talk show, five eople's Choice wards, not to mention all of her other T shows, movies, comed# and hostin %o!s, is a fan of creative visuali5ation.
In an interview I read a!out her in Maa5ine, she is /uoted a!out a traed# in her life that compelled her to ask 6od for help. This led to her writin a comed# sketch a!out what it would look like to call up 6od. nd after she wrote it she spoke out loud and thouht, $I'm oin to !e the first woman ever to sit on the sofa with Aohnn# Carson on the Toniht (how&. Now for a comedian this is like winnin an -scar, it's a !i deal. *ecause if the icon of comed# invited #ou over to the couch, it was !asicall# ivin #ou a !lessin and sa#in, $He#, #ou're it.& Notice I said she spoke it out loud and she %ust knew it was oin to happen !efore it happened. hat was e/uall# impressive was that her sense of humor a!out !lessins, ratitude and love was throuhout the interview. !out her career come!ack she said, $I want to sa# I'm surprised !ecause at the same time I created it I thouh, I wanted this. (o when I look !ack on it ever# sinle thin I'm doin is what I wanted and I !elieve #ou et what #ou want.& In her whole article she uses words a!out how rateful and happ# she is and that ever#thin in life from the past that was traic or not so fun she is rateful for !ecause it propelled her somewhere new. nd this oes alon with what we're talkin a!out, pullin in hih vi!rational eneries to move #ou throuhout #our da# and manifest #our life #our wa#. (he was also /uoted as sa#in, $I want m# show to reach people and to !e somethin positive !ecause the world is full of fear and a lot of neativit# and %udment. I %ust think people should shift into %o# and happiness. s corn# as it sounds, we need to make a shift&. nd that's what 7llen's all a!out. Gsin hih vi!rational fields and creative visuali5ation and decidin what #ou want in order to manifest and create #our future. Nicole Bidman. I saw her on T. (he was on a press %unket for the movie *ewitched. Nicole said that when she was a little irl and she watched *ewitched, she used to alwa#s sa# that she wanted to !e (amantha. nd that's the character she ended up pla#in. Batie Holmes, Tom Cruise's new wife I saw her on T sa# that when she was a little irl, she used to visuali5e herself !ein married to Tom Cruise. (he was pla#in, of course, !ut as we know pla#in has a hih vi!rational field. nd look what happened. Mariah Care# and Nick Cannon the# recentl# ot married. -n -prah the other da# Mariah !rouht her new hus!and. nd the# %oked a!out how he >spoke her into his life'. henever an#one asked who his dream irl was, he replied Mariah Care#. He told his friend this man# times. -ne da# he found himself in the same room with her and he asked her out. nd of course #ou can uess what happened + she went out with him and within a short time the# were married. rnold (war5enneer five times Mr. Gniverse, four times Mr. -l#mpia. He said he used visuali5ation for athletic success !ut he credits it also for success as a movie star. He said when he was ver# #oun he visuali5ed himself !ein and havin whatever he wanted. Mentall# he never had an# dou!ts a!out it. He said, $The mind is reall# incredi!le. *efore I won the Mr. Gniverse I walked around the tournament like I owned it. The titles were alread# mine. I'd won it so man# times in m# mind that there was not dou!t I would win it. Then when I moved on to the movies the same thin happened. I visuali5ed m#self !ein a famous actor and earnin !i mone#. I could feel and taste success. I %ust knew it would happen. isuali5ation can practicall# replace ph#sical practice&. That's what he's
!een /uoted as sa#in. He used his power of imaination to !ecome Mr. -l#mpia, movie star, !usinessman and now overnor. In 1JJ< !ase!all pla#er Mark Mauire !roke the sinle season home run record !# hittin F2, a feat that he was /uoted as sa#in in The New 3ork Times he did from visuali5ation. -l#mpic champions Carl =ewis, 6re =ouanis, *ruce Aenner, Nanc# Berrian have all stated that usin visuali5ation and seein themselves winnin was what made them win. Aenn# McCarth# the actress, she is an author on kids and autism. (he put on her vision !oard a picture of -prah and her !ook cover when she was writin her !ook called =ouder Than ords. (he sa#s she's livin proof that the =aw -f ttraction works. fter readin The (ecret, Aenn# descri!ed makin a vision !oard. (he put a picture of -prah and alon with it a fake cover of the !ook she had started writin. Aust one #ear later her dreams !ecame a realit# when she made her first visit to the -prah infre# show to talk a!out her son's strule with autism. =ouder Than ords /uickl# !ecame a New 3ork Times !estseller. =ouise Ha#, the founder of Ha# House sa#s a vision !oard can !e a ver# effective tool. It helps #ou focus #our thinkin on what #ou want. hen #ou do that it's like the universe ives #ou ideas for how it will show up. ll this and more is availa!le to #ou. e're all made of the same ener#. Its %ust the mindset of !ein willin to em!od# the realit# of what it is that #ou're choosin to manifest. nd the hiher #our vi!ration, the easier it is. s a famil# #ou can do these visuali5ations toether and separate. I know some families have a famil# vision !oard and one for each individual. I would encourae #ou to teach #our kids how to manifest thins at a #oun ae. I've witnessed kids under 12 who put thins on their vision !oards and then manifest fish tanks and thins for free... a trampoline... another kid I know manifested mone# to !u# a !ike. The neih!our offered to let him mow the lawn. *ut I would encourae #ou to %ust pla# with it and see what happens. (ome parents sa#, Kell, if the# put it on their vision !oard then I'm oin to have to pa# for it&. *ut I've actuall# see the opposite. I've reall# seen thins that show up. Aust work with it toether as a famil#. I prett# much manifest an#thin that I've ever placed on a list or a vision !oard. nd if it doesn't show up I usuall# know wh#. It's usuall# some ener# field that I have in the form of %udments, !eliefs, thouhts that limit it from showin up. nd this creates a vi!rational mismatch of what I desire and where I'm at or sometimes I trul# don't want it. The thin with manifestin is, if #ou desire to !e wealth# #ou ma# have to /uit the %o! #ou're doin, et a different education, learn new skills or actuall# chane in some wa#. (ome people are not willin to chane. I knew someone lookin for a home0!ased !usiness #et I could see in her ener# field there was no wa# she was oin to et the ener# is she sta#ed the same. In her case she was terrified of chane. nd when I told her that and I asked her if she wanted some help on it, that we could clear this !elief and she could actuall# chane + she said no. It's weird, #eah) *ut if #ou look at life it's all a!out chane. I mean, ood luck keepin a vi!ratin, oscillatin Molecularl# deconstructed and reconstructed realit# in place. 3ou're powerful to hold #our realit# and #our ener# in place. 3ou're also that powerful to %ust mold it into somethin else.
hat if the wa# to reall# !e, to et thins done on this planet, is to actuall# !e out of control) hen I sa# out of control what I mean is !ein out of !ein controlled, out of all the realities that keep #ou in locked !o4es. Have #ou noticed how the most out of control characters have the most fun, make the most mone# and reall# live life accordin to their rules) hen #ou're out of control this wa# #ou're actuall# !ein more #ou. 3ou can still !e #ourself to manifest an# dream !ut #ou ma# have to lihten the load so to speak and chane the realit# #ou're currentl# in. lot of the so0called famous people or wealth# people like a ichard *ranson, a Madonna or an 7llen ;e6eneres, an# of those individuals live outside the !o4 of the normal parameters. The# didn't !u# into what was possi!le from ever#!od# else's viewpoint. The# manifested their dream life (o when I'm talkin a!out !ein out of control, what I'm reall# talkin a!out is %ust !ein out of the norm. If #ou're compl#in to what is normal or what is around #ou, it's reat if that's #our authentic choice. *ut what I'm suestin here is choose to look at if #ou could reall# live #our life #ou wanted with no rules, no parameters, how would #ou reall# want to live #our life) That's what I mean !# !ein out of control. If #ou !u# into the !eliefs and prorams of ever#!od# that's around #ou, #ou'll et the life that ever#!od# around #ou has. (o it's all a!out choosin new thouhts, !eliefs and prorams then oin, KowK hat is possi!le here) hat new choice can I make to !e more m#self, !e more out of m# !o4)& Those are the thins I want #ou to start thinkin a!out and lookin at. If #ou could have #our life like #ou reall#, reall# want it, what do #ou want) I look at m# realit# like this. I !elieve it's alread# manifested somewhere, whatever I'm askin for. There's some ener# file that sa#s: Christie, it's alread# done. Then I hook up into the ener#, I pull that ener# to me and I ask that ener# to radiate out into m# life. That's the attitude o throuh in manifestin m# realit#. Imaine #our realit# as a wardro!e. In this wardro!e #ou could tr# on an# clothes that #ou wanted and #ou could even o shoppin and pick up e4actl# what clothes #ou want to wear. That's what a realit# is. hen I sa# that I step into it, what I do is, I connect to the eneretic place where I feel like that wardro!e is alread# there and I o shoppin. (o sometimes, literall#, the ener# ma# !e to the riht of me or a!ove me or !elow me. I literall# ask where is this realit# alread# manifested and then I enereticall# attune to it, which means I %ust kind of feel it in m# !od#. -nce I'm attuned to it I pull the realit# into me. =iterall# it's like I tr# it on, like a wardro!e. -nce this ener# is around me I can feel , %ust as I earlier e4plained a!out Aim Carre# when he was manifestin his career and he was sittin in the car, he was tr#in it on. He felt the emotions, he felt the ener#, he felt the realit# as if it alread# e4isted. Now I've had clients sa# to me, $ell, that's kind of like l#in cause #ou don't reall# have it. -r it's like da#dreamin&. No, what it reall# is, is #ou're choosin #our realit#, #ou're choosin the realit# #ou want to manifest and #ou have to tr# it on otherwise #ou're not oin to et it. It's %ust the rules of the ame. (o #ou have choice. 3ou can either pla# !# the rules that reall# work or avoid them. It's %ust a choice. =et's tr# this for a minute. I want #ou to think of one thin that #ou would reall#, reall# love, whatever that is.
If #ou had this thin in #our life, what would #ou !e feelin riht now) ould #ou !e feelin happ#, e4cited, safe, comfortin) hatever emotion would o with this o!%ect or this idea or this thin that #ou're manifestin. hat's the emotion) Now if #ou had this manifestation in #our life, what would it feel like) hat would #ou !e doin with it) @or instance, if #ou wanted a new car, what would it !e like to drive that new car) If #ou had a !etter relationship with #our spouse, what would #ou !e feelin riht now) Tr# on that feelin. Now what would #ou !e doin) hat actions would #ou !e takin) Aust da#dream them out. Now if #ou could turn it up so that it's reall# real to #ou, that this is part of #our e4perience, turn them up. ;o that , 12 minutes ever# da# and prett# soon #ou'll have that in #our life. That's what I mean !# tr#in it on. I met m# mate this wa#. I made a list of all the /ualities, nice ener#, hih vi!ration, works on himself, attractive, understand healin and ener# stuff so I don't have to edit m# words and e4plain m#self, fun to !e with and please show him up on m# doorstep. nd then I added the favourite line that I add to all m# manifestations 2 !ecause I fiure if I was so specific that I didn't leave room for somethin !etter, than I wasn't !ein nice to m#self. (o I alwa#s leave room for somethin a little !etter to show up. t the end of it I sa#: Gniverse, please !rin me this, make it eas#, make it e4ceed m# e4pectations, make me so %o#ous and happ# when I have it and line it up so that it's so eas# I lauh a!out it. month later m# mate literall# has a !usiness card of mine fall out of a stack of cards he hadn't looked in for a couple of #ears. He calls me for a session, and !ecause I had heard from m# uides that m# mate would show up in a month, I knew it was him when he called. nd he's ever#thin on the list + and more !ecause I asked to e4ceed m# e4pectations. Then I take uided action. -ne time I'd asked the universe for some more friends that I reall# loved. ll m# friends had moved out of town at the same time so I received uidance to o to a local restaurant. It was nine at niht. I did not want to o out, truthfull#. *ut !ecause I have trusted m# uides for so lon I went. I waked in and the onl# people there were a nice older couple. e started talkin and after a little while the# invited me to their entire !lock part# that was happenin the ne4t weekend. The# had children m# ae and if I went I would meet a!out 2 new friends. nd that's what I did. (o aain, if #ou %ust put that ener# out, #ou'll draw it to #ou. This is reall# what self master# is a!out. (elf master# is masterin #our life and makin it #our wa#. It's choosin a life #ou love and allowin it to come into the field of ener#, creatin #our realit#. 3our life is comprised of the points of view that #ou take on as well as the !eliefs and choices #ou make. I can look at what some!od# is oin to manifest in their life !# lookin at their points of view. If #ou think life sucks, uess what #ou'll create) *ecause those opinions and viewpoints make #ou stuck. If #ou un0create and destro# all these viewpoints uess what) Nothin can stick to #ou. 3ou'll love life and #ou'll manifest a life #ou love. 3our oal with this C; should !e to et reall# clear a!out what it is #ou trul# desire in #our life. (o let me ask #ou a /uestion: hat do #ou reall#, reall#, reall#, reall# want)
hat inner nudes are #ou ma#!e refusin to look at !ut if #ou would %ust choose to look at these inner nudes riht now, what are the#) Ma#!e it's to manifest more peace and %o# in #our life. Ma#!e it's to manifest a hiher vi!ration. Ma#!e it's a !etter school for #our kids, ma#!e it's a little more e4tra cash. It doesn't reall# matter, the universe is a!undant. 3ou can ask for whatever it is #ou reall#, reall# want. nd I would %ust start there. I would not limit or inhi!it it at an# level. nd don't !e vaue. 3ou need to pinpoint e4actl# what #our deal is. ;o #ou want to /uit #our %o!) ;o #ou want to !u# a home) ;o #ou want to travel the world) ;o #ou want to send #our kids to private school) ;o #ou want to !e a philanthropist) Most people, when the# ask for mone# what the#'re reall# askin is for the mone# to do certain thins in life and have certain lifest#le. t the end of the da#, the reason wh# an#one is askin for an#thin is: I %ust want to !e happ#. 3ou can trace it all. h# do want to send #our kids to private school) *ecause #ou think it'll enhance their life and that makes #ou what) It makes #ou happ#. If #ou want to /uit #our %o!, wh# is that) 3ou think it will ive #ou some level of %o# in #our life. (o let's fiure out what #our lifest#le is to reall# determine what it is #ou want in #our life. I like to think of it from a holistic view point + the lifest#le. nd the ener# /ualit# of the lifest#le. -nce #ou've found wh# #our hot !utton is we're oin to start fiurin out e4actl# what #our vision is oin to look like. =et's o with the idea that it's not impossi!le. 3ou don't have to have a clue a!out how #ou're oin to achieve it. =et's %ust o for a while with whatever #ou reall#, reall# want and don't worr# a!out the how. =et's %ust start in some ke# areas of #our life. Aust start thinkin a!out some ke# areas. 3our self view: hat traits do #ou desire to add to #our life) More consciousness) How a!out more patience) Ma#!e %ust to totall# accept #ourself reall#, reall# love #ourself. -r ma#!e it's trottin around the lo!e doin somethin #ou love. This is a section where #ou reall# see #ourself and the wa# #ou want to !e perceived in the world. This stuff works. -nce I was workin out in Chicao at the 7ast *ank Clu!. I was feelin a little under0appraised at the time and I decided that for whatever reason I want to manifest more admiration in m# life. I would work out on the (tairmaster and I would repeat mantras in m# head for whatever I desire to show up. (o !esides visuali5ation I would do mantras. =ater in the da# I was listenin to the top radio station and the# had a preview of the movie ractical Maic with (andra *ullock and Nicole Bidman. He was !ashin the movie as a chick flick. nd I completel# disareed with him. (o I fa4ed the radio show with m# opinion of the movie. The# called me the ne4t da# and the# asked me to !e the movie reviewer. That's fast action, riht) t the time I was travellin all over the countr# and I couldn't commit to !ein in a studio ever# week. *ut I received what I asked for + I had asked for admiration. @or the kids and the famil#: ut happ# interpersonal relationships with ever#one. Bids and famil# ettin alon reat. If #ou're lookin for that special someone, find a picture of a happ# couple holdin hands walkin on the !each. I'd make a list of the t#pe of person I desire to !e in a relationship with. If #ou're currentl# in a relationship put a happ# picture of the !oth of #ou and ma#!e the words of what #ou want it to look like. 3ou can put words on #our vision !oard.
lso, #ou can pout that #ou have friends that love #ou. I was reali5in at some point in m# life that I needed some new friends that would %ust love me and !e with me. ithin a week I was uided to speak somewhere and I met three new friends that are still m# friends to this da#. How a!out addin %o#ful wonderful e4chanes) (ee people as helpful, full of love and alwa#s nice to #ou. I've seen people chane the statistics on their !usinesses and chane the num!ers on their !ank accounts to manifest what the desire. This is what Aim Carre# did for the 812 million check. I know some!od# who manifested an e4tra 8E,222 in their safe. =iterall# it came out of thin air. It was not there !efore. I had a client et a career chane shortl# after askin for a happ# career chane. I once asked for a si40fiure income to come in. It took a week for it to show up and it was from a source I had never imained would ever pa# me. *ut I put it out there and that's wh# it showed up. ;o #ou now that with ever#thin #ou !u# #ou can ask that more and more mone# come !ack to #ou) If I spend mone# I ask that it come !ack to me e4ponentiali5ed. It's #our realit#, #ou can ask for what #ou desire. I know another person who asked, if I !u# this will it make me mone#) If the answer is no then there's pro!a!l# a !etter deal somewhere else. In the famil# section #ou could put pictures of the famil# !ein deliriousl# happ#, livin their dream life. I know someone who desired a !a!#. hen she finall# put the pictures up she ot prenant. I've had families put that the# reall# desired !ecomin more conscious. 7ver#one works in the famil# in a positive direction. hatever #our oal is, put it on #our vision !oard. Health: How do #ou desire #our !od# to work) I know some!od# who wanted to lose weiht. (he put >motivation' as one of the words under her health, !ecause that's what she was lackin. Her trainer the ver# ne4t da# asked her to tr# a new C; that he'd otten, that auht her how to !e more focused + /uick action. Instead of worr#in a!out loosin the whole "2, 2 pounds, wh# don't #ou make it a little more fun and %ust focus on some !od# part that #ou reall# want to re%uvenate) Ma#!e %ust visuali5e si4 pack a!s or visuali5e #ourself with reall# !uff !iceps. It doesn't matter, %ust make it somethin that makes it %uic#, emotional and that #ou would love. 3ou should consider doin a section on fun, travel and ho!!#. ersonal stuff, like learnin how to tano. I had a client who was uided to look for some new activities. He found a 3oa studio he loved and he can now do a headstand. He also decided to tr# tano. He's so e4cellent at it and it happened within si4 months. Ma#!e #ou can %ust catch a !i fish somewhere, or et a weekl# massae, or o to some sort of retreat, or some form of spiritual improvement #ou're lookin for. Aust do whatever makes #ou happ# in that section: fun, travel and ho!!ies. (ee the t#pe of material success #ou desire. ;o #ou like outdoors) Ma#!e #ou desire to fi4 #our #ard up. Ma#!e #ou want a new house and cars. (ome people want a !i house and for some families' lifest#le the#'d rather have a small house and take all the e4tra mone# and o travel. hatever it is for #ou, %ust put it up. ;on't %ust put an#thin up there, it has to !e somethin that #ou reall#, reall#, reall# want. Contri!ution: do #ou have a favourite charit#. hen #ou do somethin ood it attracts more prosperit# to #ou. I know some people who put 12percent awa#. -ther people pa#
themselves out of the first 12 percent so that the# know the#'re important in their life. The#'re !lessin themselves first. ut some serious thouht into it, thouh. *ecause aain, #ou have to !e a little !it careful a!out what #ou ask for. I know a woman who asked for a man with a lot of hair. Her preference for herself was not !ald men. (he went to the pool with this new u# that she had met, she took off her dress to o into the pool, she turned around and said, oohK He was a hair# man. (o she ot e4actl# what she asked for + a u# who had a lot of hair. (o aain she re0 clarified that and said: I %ust want him to have it on his head... somethin to consider. The vision !oard is !asicall# a tool. It's made out of poster !oard with pictures and words as a s#m!ol of all the desires #ou thouht of to manifest in #our life. The idea is to surround #ourself with imaes of who #ou want to !ecome, what #ou want #our life to look like includin the material thins !ut also in relationships and people. ain, #ou're em!od#in a realit# that's the important thin. nd it's %ust a s#m!ol of that #ou're tr#in to em!od#. The reason #ou would have to do this as a reminder is that #ou look at it ever# da# and #ou spend some time in usin #our ener# to manifest this reat life to #ou. emem!er we talked a!out how Aim Carre# visuali5ed it and he worked on it and it finall# came to pass) He visuali5ed it until he could feel the euphoria in his !od#. (o #ou et a stack of pictures. 3ou can use 6oole imaes or #ou can et a !unch of maa5ines. *asicall# #our intent is this: #ou've alread# thouh of what it is #ou desire in #our life. Aust intuitivel# think of one word that s#m!oli5es the intent of what #ou want to enerate in #our life. It miht !e inspiration. It miht !e wealth. It miht !e %o#. It miht !e lots of other thins. hatever #our one word it is, set the intent, o throuh the pictures and %ust intuitivel# tear out what #ou feel #ou want on #our vision !oard. The# miht not all make it on there in the end !ut %ust intuitivel# o throuh it. =ook for words #ou miht like, ma#!e in the center of it #ou put a heart or a famil# picture or the lo!e or #ourself lookin radiant. Then find other pictures that s#m!oli5e #our famil#, material lifest#le, education, personal rowth. career success, health. hen #ou're done with that intuitivel# check in and %ust lue them to the poster !oard then han it where #ou can see it ever# da#. I'm oin to add another thin to this (ome people I know like to actuall# write out how that want their life to look like. The# feel this is the easiest wa# for them to emotionall# connect to it. If #our oal is to /uit #our %o! write out #our resination letter. Ma#!e it can !e funn#, somethin that makes #ou lauh. If #our oal is #ou have a new home, have a vision of a housewarmin part#. If #our oal is to have a new car, o test drive it. I've test driven man# cars !efore I ot them. ut pictures of happ# famil# if that's what #ou're eneratin. hatever it is, %ust make it somethin that's real to #ou and #ou can write it out. 3ou can write it out with: I'm so rateful and thankful that I have this in m# life riht now. I am so rateful and thankful that I have this new car. I'm so rateful and thankful that I'm a health#, happ# si5e. I'm so rateful and thankful that m# kid ot into the !est school for them. I'm so rateful and thankful that I have all this e4tra time to travel. I'm so rateful and thankful that m# lifest#le looks like this. @or #ou, I would like #ou to %ust check inside and see #our !est wa# to do it. Mostl# what I do !efore I o to !ed, I close m# e#es, I roll m# e#es up, I connect to the liht and I see a vision of how I want m# life to look. nd I role pla# . I feel the ener# in m# !od#. fter I do it I %ust feel the !lessins and the ood0feelin ener# and I thank 6od this has
manifested in m# life. I !less it and love it with pure %o#, love and liht. I %ust feel that ener# in m# manifestations. (o for #ou, %ust do it. That's the main thin + %ust do it. nd #ou do it lon enouh until it shows up. nd take uided action. 3ou're a creator in a !od#. Creatin comes from the spirit of pla#. (o whenever I'm manifestin some new opportunities in m# life, I'm actuall# uided to o out and pla# and have fun. It's from this pla#ful space that more ood can come into #our life. emem!er, %o# is a vi!ration of E2., so it's a hiher vi!ration. (o I o to the !each or have some sort of fun that manifests new thins in m# life. I actuall# reali5e I make more mone# when I have more fun. ure consciousness, pure 6od ener#, is %ust creative eneries waitin to !e formed into reat thins in #our life, whatever it is for #ou. If #our vi!e is fear #ou tend to use this creative ener# to create more of what) More fear. Can #ou see how the spirit of pla#, the hiher vi!rations of %o#, pla#, fun is %ust like !reathin) It's somethin #ou reall# need. 3ou need air, #ou need water, #ou need fun. (o here is m# suestion for #ou. Most clients are uided to add pla# into their lives. -ne client who had the >temporar#' s#mptom of ceaselessness, wanted to pla# !ut she wanted it !e low cost. The reason I said temporar# was !ecause ever#thin that occurs in #our life is %ust that + it's a s#mptom, it's not the cause. hen #ou're !ein the creator self connected to the liht, controllin #our thouhts and #our realit# and radiatin #our hihest vi!rations and consciousness and take actions from that, #ou create #our whole new world. 3ou are the creator. (o operatin from the hihest vi!ration #ou have the most pleasant outcomes !ecause #ou're creatin #our life from %o#, love, ease, fun versus aner and fear. *ack to the stor# + this client had chosen to manifest new financial success and it was one of the thins on her vision !oard, which we will !e talkin a!out in the upcomin C;. she had asked for more financial success. nd iven where her finances were, she knew she needed to have a hiher vi!ration and some fun to help her manifest it. (he connected to her divinel# wise self and intuitivel# asked: How can I add more fun with 5ero mone#) (he ot the insiht to o !u# some !u!!le um and some !u!!les. (he pulled out her !est seven0#ear old ener# and she reall# ot into how much %o# it was !ein a dork. @un doesn't necessaril# mean spendin all #our cash and havin !ills to pa# later. It's reall# a!out the spirit of it all, it's a!out the ener# of it all and a!out eneratin a %o#ful feelin in #our !od#. (o it could !e makin love. hatever it is that enerates a lot of %o# in #our !od#. *ut it means doin it full out, !ein the ener# of it. Aust !e present, feel the %o# and ratitude and reall# receive the ener# of how much fun it is. 3ou can raise #our vi!ration sinificantl# if #ou do "2 minutes of pure, unadulterated %o#. That's an interestin word I %ust reali5ed + unadulterated. It's like #ou have to take the adult out to et the %o#, purit# and innocence !ack. ;o this full out for three da#s for "2 minutes and #ou can raise #our vi!ration + I muscle tested it for the averae person doin this proram. (ome people are hiher, some people are lower !ut if #ou did this for 92 da#s for "2 minutes, #ou could raise #our consciousness level 92 to ?2 percent. It depends on #ou. 3ou can use #our spiritual tools !ut muscle test and check it out for #ourself. How much more will I raise m# vi!ration if I do this for 92 da#s, "2 minutes a da#) I pla# with ener# for a livin. I spend all m# time assessin vi!ration. It's %ust kind of fun for me to notice what's up in the world. I like to et creative and see what happens. @or instance I ask, KIf I add this ener# to m# life, what comes in) If I add this person to m# life, what does m# life look like)&
I have 5ero stress on manifestin. I %ust ask the ener# of whatever I desire to show up. nd prett# soon it usuall# shows up in ph#sical form. 3ou can do this, too. ain, #ou're the creator. This pla#ful approach keeps #ou out of the lower vi!rations of fear, worr# and an4iet#. I had a client who used what I am a!out to teach #ou to pull in her mate and et a reat love life. (he had tried for over a #ear to call her mate #et she was still worried and an4ious a!out it. I asked her uides how to keep her in her creator self and I was told to ive her this e4ercise. I call this the >!lessin !all of liht'. I have since shown clients how to do this with their families and I have received positive feed!ack. (o let's start with !lessin #our da# and #our kids' da#. !lessin is a hih vi!rational ener# that comes from #our heart. It's a!out addin love to the mi4 and seein thins work out. I cali!rated the ener# of m#self ivin some!od# a !lessin and it cali!rated as hih as F?2. It all depended on the words and intent that I used. The lowest fre/uenc# was ?" and that was %ust !# me sa#in, $I !less #ou& to some!od#. It didn't matter who as lon as I had that ener# in me and reall# felt it. It's not %ust words, it's feelin it, >I !less #ou', from m# heart. The F?2 was me sa#in, $I !less #ou with pure love and liht. I !less #ou with pure source ener#&. ain, I did this with the feelin of it in m# heart. I !less #ou with pure love and liht and I !less #ou with pure source ener#. hen I measured it the !lessin was hiher than peace and %o#. I do this as soon as I wake up in the mornin. I connect to the liht, I allow it to come into m# heart, I picture a !all of ener# and I call it m# da#. I pull in it ever#thin I reall# choose for m# da#. Then I place it in m# heart and I send the ener# to m# da#. (moothin ever#thin out with ease and %o# and a!undance. *ecause #ou're a creator creatin #our life, #ou can make chanes to #our da# ahead of time. To do this for another individual like #our children, ive them another !all of ener#. (eparate them !ecause the# have their own life and their own needs. I measured that the averae child of the people who !ouht this proram is aes 5ero to 11, who did the !lessin and ener# !all with them, it would raise their kids' consciousness 1<2 percent. If the#'re ae 1" to 1F, the averae was a!out < percent. 3ou see, after ae 11 kids reall# develop their independence and enereticall# pull awa# from their parents. It's important that #ou em!race the child around 12 to 11 #ears old and reall# help them !ride this ap in development. It's one of the most important aes. 3ou can include #our interactions with them in the !all of liht !ecause the#'re a part of #our da# the#'re part of #our life. 6ive them their own !all of liht and their own ener# field when #ou are !lessin them. *etter still of course, teach them how to do it and walk them throuh it. Bids as #oun as E and can do this. Here's how it works. 3ou can pla# with this !ut most often I do it this wa#: =ook up and connect to the liht. =et the liht in, fill #our whole !od# as we did, with #our head, #our shoulders, #our heart, #our torso, #our hips, #our les. =et a column of liht form around #ou and let the roundin ener# move into the center of the earth, connectin to the center of the planet. icture and et a sense of the !all of liht, it's a!out 12 inches across in !etween #our hands. Bind of push and pull it. 3ou can feel that there's a !all of liht in #our hands if #ou push and pull it around a little !it. Aust feel this !all of liht.
ut a mental la!el on it called: M# ;a# If #ou're doin it for #our child la!el it #our child's name and their da#. =a!ellin it makes it clear to the universe what #ou're creatin. =et whatever color it wants to !e show up. (ome da#s it'll !e different and #ou can ask #our uides what the color means and wh# did it show up in the color) *ut some eneral uidelines are: 6reen is for healin and a!undance 6old or pink for love 6old for #our od self I've seen it !rown sometimes when some!od# needs roundin ed for material needs !ein helped hite is /uite common and all the colors of the rain!ow are held in the spectrum of white. (ometimes I've seen multi colors or rain!ows. lwa#s %ust ask what it means, never assume an#thin. The# could !e different on different da#s. 3ou can place #our hands toether and push and pull and feel the ener# of this ener# !all in #our hands. fter a !it #ou'll pro!a!l# feel the !all of ener#. Most people do. The wa# to et a visceral feel of the !all and the liht is to do it this wa#. fter #ou've la!elled it >M# ;a#' call in #our uides and anels and ask for assistance on what to add. Aust sa#, $uides and anels, can #ou help me add whatever would !e lovel# to m# da#)& Then %ust start addin what #ou desire #our da# to !e like !oth in ener# and /ualit#, so choose thins closer to %o#, love, cele!ration, ratitude, !lessins. (ome ease and nice miht !e fun. n#thin else #ou wish to show up in #our life toda# people, places, ifts, friendship, lovin comments, compliments, attention. =et all those come into #our awareness and as #ou're imainin it #ou're creatin it. It's how creation works. Imaine it lon enouh and it will show up, Imaine clients see the kind of ener# #ou need for them for the da#. If #ou need love, add love. (ee ever#one who thinks of #ou receive love, ratitude, %ust !# thinkin of #ou or !ein with #ou. I've !een puttin this in m# ener# field for the last #ear or so. friend of mine from =.. called one da# and said, $The stranest thin happened in meditation this mornin. I sent #ou some ener# and #ou sent it riht !ack to me. It felt reat. I've sent a lot of people ener# over the #ears !ut no!od#'s ever returned it. It kind of 5apped me it felt ood&. ain that was confirmation to me that m# spiritual ifts work !ecause I'd !een puttin in m# ener# field that ever#one who thinks of me receives love, liht, peace ratitude from me. If #ou need uidance all da# ma#!e see the word >uidance' o into #our !u!!le. -r see a specific uide and anel do it. If #ou need focus for a test if #ou're a child, add focus. 6ot a !us# da#) dd completion to #our pro%ect. If #ou need the phone rinin off the hook !rinin #ou mone#, add phone rinin with people wantin to !rin #ou mone#. If #ou have an issue with a person or lonstandin unforiven thins, see kindness and foriveness oin into #our !u!!le. 3ou can add smooth sails, a smooth road ahead. (ee #ourself havin fun with #our children and #our mate. If #ou need an# help on #our health ask for a health# lifest#le. sk for reat health to show up and #our !od# to morph into a happ#, health# si5e, whatever #our !od# wants to !e. -r whatever #our !od# sa#s, a happ#, health# whatever man# pounds. 3ou can !less #our space, #ou can !less #our office, #ou can !less #our car, #our home, fill it up with a rain!ow of ood vi!es kind of ener#. 3ou can add e4tra ener# and oomph to #our !od# for the da#. (o keep fillin it with %o#, love, consciousness, plent# of
a!undance and health, wealth and happiness, ease and %o# with #our famil#, friends, and co0workers. (ee people receivin #ou well, see #our mate tellin #ou the# love #ou, see #our children %o# filled. Aust add whatever #our heart desires. nd when it feels full %ust !e with it for a moment and add the ener# of : I !less m#self with pure love and liht. I !less m#self with purified source ener#. I !less m#self with pure love and liht. I !less m#self with purified source ener#. If it's for #our child %ust sa#: 3our child's name and: I !less m# child with pure love and liht. I !less m# child with pure source ener#. 3ou could even do this while #ou're drivin. I !less straners, mail!o4es... #ou name it, I have pro!a!l# !lessed it. h# do I do that) *ecause I love the vi!ration in m# !od# and it helps with manifestin and ettin #our life to look a certain wa#. hen #ou feel complete, put #our !lessin !all of liht into #our heart. (ee #our da# radiatin out to #our heart, pro%ectin whatever #ou intend all the wa# around #ou. It's #our realit# comin into #our creator self, emanatin from the heart of the matter. 3ou're the creator that's choosin the matter. I'll ive #ou some other e4amples for the future of thins #ou can ask for. If #ou know #our child has a particular thin the# need help on, like !ein rounded in the world, have that. If the# need super confidence, add that. Aust see it into the !all of liht and fillin #our child's !od# with the eli4ir of super confidence and ever#thin oes well. If #our kids need new friends see these friends comin into their lives. I had a mom call me her child had ;; and could not sit still in class. (he started usin this and in a few da#s she noticed the difference in her kid. (he put a !all of liht around the child so the child feels focused and peaceful. (he was uided that he needed to e4ercise for half an hour, so she saw him doin that as well. I hear reports that it works for people. I was out of the countr# teachin a class and we did this !lessin. This woman found her lost passport and her lost necklace in a !a and she's looked there five times earlier that da#. It wasn't there earlier and after she did this it was there. hat she did was she added findin her passport and her necklace in the !lessin !all of liht and then she found it. If #ou have a mate, !e uided in how to !less their da#. I !elieve #ou can do this for people. Aust keep it on the side of: what is the happiest and ood for them. 3ou could %ust have a !all of liht that sa#s happiness, ease and %o#, happ# travels, fun with the famil#, ease with the !oss. -!viousl# the !est thin to do is to ask #our mate to start !lessin their own da#. I had a client who told me there was no wa# her hus!and would do this. I %ust lauhed and had her ask him if he was opposed to usin the liht in his life. He said no. (o she ot him to push and pull his hands until he could feel thenener# of the !all of liht. Then she asked him to fill it in with whatever he needed. He did it. He thouht it was funn# !ut he went alon with it. (he called on her anels and said, $leaseK =et him know this works&. (o he went to work and he had a !oss who was alwa#s hard on him actuall# compliment him that da#. He called to tell her a!out it. He thouht it was ver# interestin that the !oss did that. (he reminded him to do it for a while and to visuali5e his da# a success. -ne da# I went to pla# *ino with friends. I like to do it %ust to practice manifestin. I usuall# win. Tr# that sometime. (o we !less this space and we use the ener# of race. 6race is like ;E2 and it adds to whatever #ou're doin. iht after I finished doin this a man workin for the *ino parlor walks over to me and hands me a !ou/uet of flowers.
ll he said was, $These are for #ou.& I kind of looked and said, $ThanksK& and I started lauhin. nd he went !ack to work handin out tickets to ever#one. I asked wh# and he said, $ell, #ou %ust deserve these.& ead into it whatever #ou will !ut out of 2 other people in the room, riht after I sent out race and !lessins, wh# did he come over and hand me flowers) I !less m# purse and wallet and more mone# seems to show up. iht after I did it one time I walked into m# closet, put on m# %acket to o to the movies I hadn't worn in a #ear. I put m# hand in the pocket and I pulled out 8"2. It worked that /uickl#. That is m# wish for #ou. That #ou do the !lessin !all of liht, #ou et more and more !lessins and hiher vi!rations come into #our life.
Chapter , -(he lanetary Shi!t in Cons"iousness Begins at Ho*e =et's talk a!out raisin #our famil#'s consciousness. e've alread# talked a!out how love and a!ove is reall# the wa# to do it e've talked a!out the scale of human consciousness, that !asicall# what #ou're oin for is a vi!ration in #our !od# ener# field of 22 or a!ove. emem!er, if #ou're at 22, #our ener# field affects F2 thousand other people who are operatin !elow the vi!ration of "22 of fear, uilt, worr#, aner. 3ou can chane the world and #our famil# !# !ein at the hiher vi!ration. The reason I chose to focus on famil#, !ecause it's the place where I can create the most chane. It's also the place where I see the most corruption happen to a person. If #ou remem!er I mentioned that !etween the aes of 5ero and seven #ears old, a child's !rainwave state is mostl# at the level where the# are replicatin the universe around them. *asicall# like a computer the# are downloadin !eliefs so the# can learn how to et alon in the world. If parents are conscious parents and the#'re choosin to make chanes in their life !# makin choices from the vi!ration of %o#, compassion, love, we can reall# help people create a happier future, whatever it that looks like for them. *ut !asicall# we know the world's oin to !e !etter if we're choosin from the vi!ration of %o#, love, compassion and happiness. It would eliminate a lot of the dark stuff on the planet. That's wh# I chose to focus on helpin families %ust like #ou. =et's %ust sa# #ou're a female. 3ou're oin throuh #our life and #ou meet #our mate, then #ou et married. s soon as #ou et married a whole !unch of other prorams kick in that sa#s #ou're a wife. Now that #ou're a wife, an# prorammin that #ou ot from #our mother a!out !ein a wife that #ou accidentall# inested, that #ou ma# or not want, that doesn't fit the paradise that #ou're lookin for, if those prorams ot !ooted in, #ou're now !ecomin #our mother. 3ou've heard people sa# this, $I don't know what happened to me I almost hear m#self sa#in the same thins, I sound %ust like m# mother&, and #ou wonder what happened. hat happened is those prorams kicked in. The same with talkin a!out !ein a wife !ut it also happens when #ou're !ein a mother. ll the thins that #ou swore #ou would never do, and sometimes #ou hear #ourself sa#in the e4act same words and #ou o, $-h m# 6odK h# am I doin that) I'm !ein m# motherK& e have to et rid of those prorams so #ou can choose to create #our realit# the wa# that #ou reall# desire it. (o oin forward, I'm oin to talk a!ut some suestions a!out how #ou can raise #our vi!ration to love and a!ove and keep #our famil# on a certain path so that #ou don't imprint #our children with prorams that ma# or ma# not !e !eneficial to them. f #ou're a parent #ou can't %ust tell them what to do, #ou should !e
the ener# of it. *ecause the onl# wa# the#'re oin to soak it up in the riht wa# is if #ou're reall# !ein a role model and !ein the ener# that the# need. @amil# !ondin has !een shown in various studies as one of the top main thins a child needs from a parent. The onl# wa# to !ond to a parent is throuh love and attention. (tudies have shown that parental !ondin is needed to raise hopeful, confident children who don't do drus and alcohol. 3ou see, kids are !ondin with these other friends as a makeshift famil#. The# ma# !ecome motivated to follow that crowd. surve# of "2 teens aes 1" to 1< showed that the kids who ate with the famil# five times or more a week were more likel# to turn down drinkin, smokin, drus and were more motivated in school and more optimistic a!out the future. This was versus kids who ate dinner at home three da#s a week on averae. n interestin side of that, to makin the effort to eat toether is that the ener# value and closeness #ou receive from an# mem!er of the famil# that takes care of #ou can affect their emotional level and their happiness level. (tudies have also shown that children unattended, with no touch, love and !ondin have hiher levels of Cortisol, which is a stress hormone in their !od#. These hormones create stress effects on the !rains of children if the#'re under continual stress. The# studied children who row up poor the# %ust studied poor !ecause there's a lot of stress in those environments. hat the found is, it wreaked havoc on their !rains. Their !rains did not develop towards the intellience needed to thrive. -ther studies show that !a!ies !orn in orphanaes and not touched develop Cortisol increases, aain indicatin stress. These children were reported to not do so well in life. ain, it points to choosin love, affection, attention, !ein connected to it. nother stud# showed that children who rew up in societies where the people ph#sicall# touched and hued their kids, and the moms carried them around on their !acks close to the !odies, were overall more peaceful societies. The kids left without huin, attention and love later !ecame violent in life. It prorams the child to !elieve that the#'re not important, the#'re not loved, the#'re not wanted. If #ou're not loved, wanted and important how is that oin to make #ou) It's pro!a!l# oin to make #ou feel a little anr#, fearful, worried. (o all the lower eneries. Choosin to imprint #our child's life with the e4perience of %o# and compassion is an important thin. 3ou #ourself have to !e the ener# #ou e4pect them to !e. 3ou're the role model. emem!er, the# imprint #our stuff while the#'re in #our compan#, so offer comfort and a and heart. !ove all else, this is what the# trul# want. Bids mostl# want to !e with #ou and !e loved. 3ou !ein the ener# of what #ou hope the# will !e will affect them faster than an#thin else #ou could do. That's wh# a lot of thins I'm showin #ou have to do with !ein the ener# and havin #our ener# cleaned up. arents have to !e happ# and when the kids see happ# parents the# o, $-h, happ# is normal. I want to !e that&. This is the ultimate choice. 3our !eliefs control #our realit# and if #our !eliefs a!out parentin are somewhere !elow love it's oin to !e harder to function as the parent #ou wish to !e. (o monitor #ourself and see what #our !eliefs are. 3ou can alwa#s connect to the liht and asked that the !eliefs #ou alread# have !e deleted and replaced with the !elief #ou desire. =et's %ust sa# #ou have a vision !oard ma#!e #ou don't see #ourself how #ou reall# want to as a parent. @ocus ever# da#, visuali5in and seein #ourself !e the parent that #ou wish to !e. sked to !e alined ever# da# and send !lessins and love to ever#thin.
ccordin to the Heart Math Institute, the# have research that shows the power of connectin to the heart, eneratin love ener# !rins a cohesive field of ener# to the !rain and whole self. The#'ve actuall# seen that the ener# field from the whole heart !rins a whole cohesion to the s#stem. There's a field of ener# around #our heart that looks like a douhnut !asicall# That's what a field of ener# is and it looks like a vorte4 from the top down. It acts like a second !rain. *ut this ener# sphere oes out all the wa# around #ou and affects ever#!od# around #ou. The research from the Heart Math Institute indicates that people feel live in the area of the heart, so when #ou focus on the heart that's where #ou feel love. The ph#sical heart responds to this love and it can !e measured !# 7C6 which is an electrocardioram and a heart rate varia!ilit# rh#thm. hen a child or adult feels frustrated, anr#, worried, fearful distressed, their heart rh#thms !ecome un!alanced and disordered. (tress creates Corti5ol, inhi!ition, a shuttin down of the creative facilities that cause the !rain to !e less efficient in makin choices. *# eneratin lovin and appreciative feelins, heart rh#thms come !ack into !alance and the# reain their natural harmon#. =earnin and adapta!ilit# !ecomes reinstated. Children have the a!ilit# to move from love to frustrated reall# /uickl#. *ut if stress remains unresolved and heart rh#thms remain disordered, the child's natural adapta!ilit# and hopefulness diminishes. The#'ve even found that there are lots of neurons in the heart. The heart is like a second !rain. -ther research indicates that the m#dala + it's a portion of the !rain that speciali5es in stron emotional memories such as fear + what happens is, the m#dala compares what's familiar in memor# with new information comin in. *ut if fear !ecomes a ha!it, a child responds to the new information with fear even if it's not what's actuall# happenin. (o the !ehaviorm#dala communicates its response to another part of the !rain, the !ottom part of the frontal lo!e and this determines what the !est response or action would !e. The frontal lo!es take a lon time to develop. (o !# 1J, the frontal lo!es are still maturin in a teenaer. nd that's wh# children and teens often feel and act !efore the# think. The choose !ehaviour !ased on what's familiar + !asicall# what the#'ve imprinted + !ecause the# don't know what the !est response is their !rains haven't formed. If the adult role models don't teach them what the !est response and appropriate !ehaviours are these patterned emotional reactions continue into adulthood. It can override the potential for the frontal lo!es and the# never learn the appropriate response. There's also !een new !rain research that shows that we can row new responses. The Heart Math Institute also has studies on how #our heart and openin it can reduce stress, an4iet#, depression. It can decrease !urnout, fatiue. enhance #our im munit# and hormonal !alance and improve #our conitive learnin a!ilities. It's even !een found that #our heart has an intuitive knowin in other studies that did. (o intuition is not onl# !rain !ased !ut is heart !ased. hen the ph#sioloical coherence happens when #ou're connected to #our heart, driven !# a positive emotional state, it's called s#cho0ph#sioloical coherence. This state of ener# is associated with sustained positive emotion and hih derees of mental and emotional sta!ilit#. It creates s#nchroni5ation and harmon# !etween all the !odies, the mental, emotional, ph#sical and spiritual !odies.
(o #ou can see that !ein in #our heart has man# other !enefits that #ou miht not have !een aware of. Harmoni5in #our heart and !rain throuh love can esta!lish a complete intellience, a complete self where a child can look at life and reali5e there are no dead ends, there are onl# possi!ilities. The reatest ift a parent can ive a child throuhout all the ups and downs of life is love. s school sometimes have to fill for the disinteratin families, children often don't e4perience sustained emotional !ondin and the find it harder to learn self control and care. I know a lot of parents feel uilt# and frustrated for the lack of time the# have to commit to their children. (o what !ecomes important is that when #ou do spend time with them that #ou reall# make an effort to commit to connectin in a rateful, heartfelt space. The thin that teenaers and parents complain a lot a!out is communication and misunderstandin. ith a lot of families not eatin toether, not havin lon conversations, it's eas# for these communication c#cles to !reak down. I read one statistic where the# did a surve# and in the last month the teenaers and parents + the ma%orit# of them + did not talk loner than 12 minutes. In the last monthK *# teachin ever#one to listen to each other intuitivel# and listen with #our heart and #our head connected to source ener#, #ou can chane a lot of thins. I call this active listenin. It's where ever# part of #ou is listenin where #our intuitive self is listenin and #our ears. It's not %ust #our head. It's where #ou connect to #our child's emotional fields and reall# feel what's oin on !ehind the scenes whenever #ou're communicatin. If #ou reall# communicate from this place and not %ude #our kids, it makes it easier for #our children to tell #ou more. 3our kids are more intuitive than #ou ma# !e aware of and the# can feel when #ou're %udin them. (o the# shut down and don't enerall# tell #ou as much as the# should or could. (o make sure #ou're askin if the#'re talkin to #ou, $h# are the# tellin me this) hat does this feel like) The#'re tellin me this thin !ut what's reall# underneath it)& @rom a ood place. Ma#!e the#'re tellin #ou a!out somethin fun that happened with their friend. Ma#!e the#'re also sa#in to #ou, $Mom, I want more fun with #ou&. -r ma#!e the#'re tellin #ou somethin a!out a part# !ut #ou feel some other kind of vi!e oin on so ma#!e there's another stor# there. *ut if #ou're not intuitivel# listenin #ou're not oin to know what's actuall# oin on. There's sometimes more there than meets the e#e. (ometimes #our kids need to talk to #ou !ecause the# need to work throuh emotions. If #ou think of all the emotion overloads kids now et with the Internet and te4tin and friends, the# receive a lot more information that the# have to assimilate than ma#!e #ou did when #ou were a kid. nd if the# don't have a !ier picture or !ier scope of thins, it miht !e hard for them to see wh# people do certain thins. The# need to talk to #ou so that the# have some!od# to !ounce thins off of who has a !ier scope and a !ier picture. If #ou're not reall# talkin to #our kids a lot riht now, how the# internali5e this is that ma#!e #ou don't care. hen I sa# talkin I mean the tone that #ou use, how much #ou're reall# listenin to them, are #ou half checked out) Communication is a two0wa# street and #ou reall# need to !e present. child cannot have the ener# around them for too lon without takin it in and oin, $ow, the#'re not reall# listenin to me. The# must not care. -h, %ust foret it&. If #ou're hearin a lot of >oh, foret its' I !et #ou there's a lot of thins oin on that #ou miht not know a!out. I would consider when I'm talkin to m# kids, %ust do the whole I !less #ou, I love #ou I !less #ou, I love #ou I !less #ou with pure source liht. 6et in #our heart space and talk to them from there. The#'re oin to feel that #ou're appreciatin them, #ou're lovin them and I know that
when I'm in that space clients tell me ever#thin. It's like their file %ust opens up. *ecause, $owK some!od#'s actuall# hearin me and lovin me&. 3our kids will open up to #ou more when #ou're in #our heart. The# will feel the care comin throuh #ou and that's a!ove all else what the#'re lookin to feel from #ou. Children desire to know that the# are enouh %ust as the# are. If #our child is appreciated + which aain is a hiher vi!ration + the# know the# are enouh. It ives them room to flourish. -ne of the ver# simple thins #ou can do to et into #our heart space... let's %ust sa# #ou have to handle someone who's in front of #ou and #ou're reall# not there and #ou can't leave. -ne of the easiest thins to do is take #our hand, put it on #our heart, take a deep !reath and push love down from #our heart down into the round and sta!ili5e #ourself. That's one of the easiest thins to do to et into #our heart space. ut #our hand on #our heart Take a deep !reath *reathe the ener# down #our feet into the earth That's what #ou can do when some!od#'s riht in front of #ou when #ou have to handle somethin in the moment. t the end of this C; I'm oin to take #ou into a loner meditation a!out ettin into #our heart space. child also needs to know that it's -B to make mistakes. I heard this somewhere and I don't know whom to ive credit for it. It takes a new !a!# an averae of "22 tries !efore the# walk. The# fail "22 times. Most skills ma# take "22 or more tries to et prett# ood at or to et prett# e4cellent at it. M# point !ein, there's never reall# a failure, sometimes it's %ust practice. Michael Aordan was /uoted as sa#in he missed nine thousand shots and lost 922 ames and was entrusted to make the ame0winnin shot "? times and missed. *ut was it more important that he take the shots or not take them !ecause he was afraid to ask /uestions, practice and o for it) I would consider teachin m# kids the power of settin their ener# to #es, #es, #es ever# da#. Aust do it !efore the# o to school: 3es, #es, #esK 3es, #es, #esK -r ma#!e the# could visuali5e a dial turnin up to #es, #es, #es. hen emotionall# chared situations happen, if #ou could teach #our kids to %ust call in the ener# of love or a!ove, connect to the source, connect to their heart, #ou can chane the wa# the# react. teen with all those hormones needs to know that the# can connect to the source ener# for calm and uidance. It's the onl# wa# to et them out of reactions and loop# emotions and into their heart. ain, the field of ener# in #our heart !alances #our whole s#stem. Teens need a lot of love, the#'re oin throuh a lot of chanes. I know a woman who started visuali5in her dauhter when she was 12 #ears old !ein happ# as a teenaer. (he started doin this !ecause all she heard from the parents around her was, $-h m# 6od, m# teenaerK& (o she didn't have an optimistic viewpoint !ut she was spiritual and connected enouh to know, $I am not oin to let that manifest in m# life&. hat she did is, once a month or a couple of da#s a month she would %ust visuali5e her dauhter happ# as a teenaer and totall# thrivin and well0 ad%usted as an adult doin her life purpose, !ein a!undant, !lessed and feelin reat in all wa#s. hat happened for her is, she had no pro!lems when her kid was a teenaer and all the other parents around her did. (o it's an e4cellent thin to ma#!e do.
I noticed this woman who was a friend in m# life she had particularl# !lessed life. (o I asked m# anels and uides to tell me $h# do #ou think she has such a !lessed life) hat's up with that& hat the# said was that her mom was actuall# also an e4cellent manifestor and visuali5er. nd that her mom used to alwa#s pra# for her dauhter and see her happ#, well0ad%usted and successful. I !elieve that when #ou pra# #ou should pra# with the happ# end result in mind. *ecause pra#er's !asicall# like a form of visuali5ation and connectedness and creatin a realit#. icture the happ# end result a lot more than #ou picture what the pro!lem is. The power of that is, as a parent #ou have this reat caretakin role that if #ou spend five, 12 minutes a da# %ust visuali5in #our kids happ# and well0ad%usted, #ou can reall# chane their world. nd #ou can chane the whole ne4t eneration on this planet if enouh parents do this. I like to look at emotions as a computer. hen #ou have too much input in it, it could crash #our s#stem. Bids need to know + and this is a ood visual for teachin #our kids + that if the#'re oin to o towards the neative, drainin emotion and it crashes their s#stem, how does that make them feel) nd from this place ma#!e the# can choose to o the hiher route of, $-h, I don't want to !e mad at m# friend for too lon. I'm oin to o this direction&. If #ou teach them from that one point0of0view, $If I feel this emotion is it oin to crash m# s#stem)& the#'ll pro!a!l# et it riht awa# and switch to the other proram. I would consider also teachin them that foriveness comes from !ein in #our heart. Aust teach them to o into their heart and reall# let it o. (how them that %ust !ecause some!od# else is doin somethin, $ It reall# has nothin to do with #ou. It's %ust their perception of the world. It's %ust their realit#. 3ou don't have to aree with it and #ou don't have to move into their realit#. 3ou can take #ourself out of it. 3ou have free will and #ou have choice.& Bids take thins personall# I understand, cause the#'re learnin how to do personal relationships. *ut if #ou reall# teach them at a #oun ae that it's not personal and it's not reall# their deal that it's not personal and it's not reall# their fault, people are choosin what the#'re oin to choose, that would !e an e4cellent wa# to start. (elf0 esteem for kids comes from makin choices alined in love. The reall# conscious kids I know are uided, ood kids. The# don't have a need to drink and do drus. I know some kids who are raised in ver# hih vi!rational families the# o to parties, it's not like the# avoid the world. The# o to parties, the# have reall# happ# relationships with their friends !ut the# %ust don't choose to indule in that. Their friends all do it !ut the# don't. I have a friend who has a teenaer who sa#s it's %ust kind of dum!, it's a waste of time, she doesn't want to feel !ad in the mornin so she doesn't do it. *ecause she was raised to trust herself, she does not feel the need to o with the crowd. (he is stron in her own riht and the reason I feel that she has so man# friends and is popular is !ecause the kids are drawn to her naturall# hih vi!rational ener# field. 3ou know when #ou're around a confident person and the# e4ude this manetism that draws #ou in and makes #ou trust them) That's what she has. I've seen a lot of kids in families whose moms and dads live !# the principles I've shown #ou. nother techni/ue #ou can teach #our child is to think ahead. (o feel the ener# if I do this activit# or follow this route, in two da#s am I happ# with that) In five da#s am I happ# with that) In si4 months am I happ# with that) If #ou follow the ener# out to the future #ou'll know if it's a ood thin to do. If it feels liht, o for it. If the ener# feels a little heav#, that's a >no' response so don't o for it. Teach them liht and heav#, #es and no. ;o it while #ou're drivin with them. Ma#!e #ou're drivin and #ou sa#, $-B, when we pull out of the drivewa# the first color car we're oin to see on the road is...& -r $hat color shirt do #ou think #our friend's oin to !e wearin
toda#)& (tart teachin them to activel# listen and know what's oin on with some!od# !e#ond what the#'re sa#in , usin their intuition. hen #ou're livin in awareness #ou %ust look at the ener# and with a lihtness a!out it #ou o, $I like that, that feels liht&. -r $I don't prefer that, there's a little heaviness there&. 3ou can %ust %ump from one ener# field to the ne4t and follow #our life that wa#. =et's %ust sa# there's a child who picks on #our kid at school. 3ou could teach them to look at the ener# and sa#, $He#, wh# did this person do that) nd is it in m# !est interest to waste m# time !ein anr# a!out it) Is it reall# worth feelin this ener# in m# !od#)& -r #ou can %ust ask intuitivel# how do I stop this) !lessin from the heart with pure love and liht has chaned a lot of people I have seen from anr# to not so anr#. (o %ust teach #our child to send love to that person, call on the hiher eneries and sa#, $I !less #ou, I love #ou. I don't know what #our deal is !ut I !less #ou and I love #ou. I !less #ou with pure love and liht&. -r teach them to call on rchanel Michael and ask for an assist. Aust tr# to take uided action. I'm well aware that sometimes #ou need other eneries to stop thins. *ut alwa#s tr# for the liht touch first. I'm oin to show #ou a few wa#s that I do !lessins. emem!er, the feelin of love and ratitude is the most powerful thin. If #ou think of somethin #ou are rateful for, #ou move into that ener# field. The first thin I do + step one + is, I think of somethin I'm rateful for a!out the person and mentall# I tell them, $I love #ou and I am so rateful that #ou are in m# life&. -r, $I love #ou and I am so rateful a!out this reardin #ou&. -r, $I am so rateful and I love this a!out #ou&. @ill in the !lank. *ecause there's alwa#s somethin #ou can find to love a!out some!od#, in m# e4perience. emem!er earlier I had spoken a!out the scientist ;r. 7moto he took the photos of the water samples when the# were startin to cr#stalli5e and for into ice. The# formed the most !eautiful eometrical shapes when #ou said words that were a hiher cali!er. -ne of the photos that was astonishinl# !eautiful had the words under it: >Thank #ou' and >I love #ou'. The ener# of that infused the water and infused the cr#stals. emem!er the words that were lower ener#: aner, hate, fear all that kind of stuff) The# didn't even form cr#stals. The# %ust looked like !lo!s of the ener#. (o it's ver# interestin that >thank #ou' and >I love #ou', hiher vi!rational words, formed these ama5in cr#stals. emem!er ratitude has a ver# hih vi!ration, it's over F22. Now it's reall#, reall# eas# to do !lessins and it's %ust a choice. -ne time I asked m# seven0#ear old niece to use her mind and visuali5e love comin her heart and into her apple %uice. That's how I told her how to !less it + and she did, It took one second. (he took a sip of her apple %uice and she said, $-h m# 6od, this tastes !etterK That's weirdK& (he was super e4cited !ecause it tasted !etter and she showed ever#one. I did not tell her it was oin to taste different or an# such thin, it was naturall# what happened. Here's another t#pe of thankin. 3ou can thanks a happ# outcome for showin up !efore it has show up. 3ou can even thank a person for some /ualit# that has not shown up #et that #ou would desire to see more developed in them. =et's %ust sa# #our child needs some focus. 3ou could sa#, $I am so rateful and thankful that #ou are more focused. I am so rateful and thankful that #ou're oin to et s on #our test&. I've even done this with clients who come to me and the# want to et over their addictions to either food or alcohol or smokin, an#thin. The first thins that I do in m#
ener# field is, I %ust think, $I am so rateful and thankful&. *asicall# I %ust do the happ# end result. =et's sa# it's alcohol what I see is, I visuali5e them drinkin water instead of alcohol, so happ# end result. I am so rateful and thankful that the# are drinkin water instead of alcohol. nd I see a picture of them pushin awa# the alcohol and sa#in: No, never aain. (o it's somethin to consider !ut remem!er, think happ# end result. 3ou can't sa#, think of a pink elephant !ecause #ou create a picture of what) pink elephant. Now this is a muscle #ou ma# have to fle4, !ut remem!er I told #ou it %ust takes a second if #ou focus. It's %ust a matter of choosin to do it. hen I did a week of !lessins cars in front of me, I !lessed the mail!o4, I !lessed ever# person I came across, I !lessed ever# o!%ect I touched and it !ecame more like a communion with the ener# of ratitude. M# whole state of !ein !ecame ratitude. >I am so rateful' was not %ust words it was the pure force of 6od movin throuh me. I !ecame one with the ratitude for all thins and all people. nd when I sent these thins out miraculous thins %ust showed up in m# life. This is one thin that if #ou do can raise #our consciousness sinificantl# and that's wh# I'm focusin on it so much. Now #ou can also send !lessins %ust as an ener#, as a visuali5ation. 3ou can, for instance, see a shower of !lessins comin over someone. -r, #ou can visuali5e a rain!ow comin into them with !lessins and %o#. 3ou can also visuali5e a pink !lanket filled with love and co5# !lessins !ein wrapped around some!od#. 3ou can imaine a shot of liht comin from #our heart and into theirs. Make sure if #ou do this from #our heart that #ou're in the state of ratitude !efore #ou do this. Notice >I love #ou'. 6et into #our heart: >I love #ou'. lso visuali5e an ener# !all in !etween #our hands and ask whatever color wants to come up to come up for this !lessin, and #ou'll see a color. (ense it fillin up with whatever /ualit# #ou desire focus, love, peace. ain, whatever the happ# end result it. If #ou're at work and #ou know #our child is havin a pro!lem that da#, check inside what time of the da# and send them some !lessins. M# sister does this a lot for her dauhter. (he %ust checks in and sends her dauhter some ener# when uided throuhout the da#. Then she later asks, $hat was oin on at this time)& nd usuall# when she checks she finds that her dauhter is havin a little trou!le and it helps her. If #ou keep track of this #ou can reall# see somethin is happenin in #our life. M# sister also does it for her famil#. Imaine a whole famil# that throuhout the da# sends positive, lovin vi!rations to the rest of the famil#. hat's oin to happen is that #ou're reall# oin to use this stuff and et so aware of ever#thin that #ou'll know if some!od# needs somethin in two seconds. hat's oin to happen is that if #ou use this stiff, #ou're oin to et so frickin' aware of what's oin on #ou'll know ever#thin that's up in a!out two seconds. It's oin to !e fun. 3our child develops their self0esteem !# makin choices that lead to a success. (o think of the ama5in power of havin aware kids who know how to check inside and make riht choices. If the# check inside and it feels ood and the# follow throuh, the# feel stron and the# trust themselves more and more. Then all these choices lead to successful actions and the# no loner have to o throuh life in fear and dou!t. The#'re livin in truth + it's an ama5in feelin. It'll teach them to respect themselves, which also increases their selfesteem. It teaches them t make choices that the# make with the ener# the follow the ener# and the# alwa#s can trust that it'll lead to success. I reall# !elieve that kids %ust want this, the# %ust want to know what their role is and feel stron and ood in it. It'll teach them to sta# a!ove the crowd, not %ude other people, reali5e ever#one's ot their own
path and their own thin and the# could %ust o throuh life from a reall# love and a!ove, compassionate, allowance kind of wa#. Ao#ful activities stimulate the !od#'s hormonal s#stem and create endorphins. *ondin with #our children is created !# pla#. -ne of the happiest families I've ever met has a (unda# niht famil# niht with food, fun and ames. This famil#'s !een doin it for over "2 #ears and the rown0up kids still come visit for ame niht. The# do it !ecause the# love it, not !ecause the# have to. hat if #ou made #our ever#da# life a little more cele!rator#) I met this healer one time and he had the most ama5in ener#. He was full of life. I asked him, $hat's #our secret)& He said, $I make ever#one around me, m# famil#, friends, !usiness associates remind me when I am not !ein in m# heart and !ein full# present and full enaed in life&. He said he was not alwa#s this wa#. He was normall# the !usiness u# kind of checked out in life, alwa#s doin four thins at once and never reall# !ein present with an#thin. He decided to !e the heartDself u#. He said, $I started !ein reall# present and reall# in m# heart when I communicated with ever#one as m# first task&. (o his first task !efore he did an#thin he thouht into his heart: reall# !e present. $M# famil# likes me more&, he said, $nd I've had the most ama5in four #ears with m# teenae son. nd I'm so lad I did it&. The onl# wa# to secure #our child's future is to help him riht now. ll the prorammin the# are receivin riht now is settin them up for life. 3ou can do this #ou have the tools and #ou have the will. nd if there's a willinness there's a wa#. e're oin to o throuh a few /uestions and %ust see where #ou're at with #our child. There's no %udment, it's %ust awareness, %ust a check in and it's %ust oin to point #ou on what to ma#!e look for and focus on durin #our da#. re #ou enerall# reactive to #our child's emotional out!ursts or do #ou consciousl# consider: $Hmm.. what's the !est choice here)& hat one !ehaviour can I do that models for them the wa# the# can !e in the world) s we discussed, children are ver# impressiona!le from !irth until adulthood. The# download how #ou !ehave and mimic. (o o!serve them closel#, look at how the# should respond to their actions, move into a connected space and model the ener# of what #ou e4pect. Here's an interestin thin that I've noticed. I've noticed this in a lot more clients than #ou miht imaine. If #ou tend to sa# in #our famil# that #our child acts like one of the parents. $*ill# acts %ust like dad&. or acts %ust lie mom, #ou're actuall# prorammin them deeper. This can !e e4cellent or not so e4cellent, it depends on that the ener# is. If the#'re actin up and #ou sa#, $-h, #ou're %ust like #our dad&. That's not so ood. I actuall# corrected one mom on that as I was uided to !# her anels. I said, $The#'re tellin me that #our son prefers it when #ou don't sa# >he#, #ou're %ust like #our dad'. (he went home and she apoloi5ed to him. He said, $3ou know, that reall# does irritate me&. (o she ot her confirmation that he reall# didn't like it. I see this a lot, so %ust an interestin @3I. Gnless it's reall# oo !ehaviour I wouldn't sa# that so much. nd if the# are actin up what does that mean) It means the#'re ma#!e takin on the emotional ener# from a parent and it's a ood time to call in the anels and clean the ener# up. hat kinds of emotions and !ehaviour do #ou model when thins o wron) If somethin oes wron in #our life do #our kids see #ou as a victim) ;o #ou !lame and %ude others) If #ou do that #ou can help their children develop their own inner securit# !# avoidin the tendenc# to !lame when thins o wron. This wa# the# won't !lame others for their pro!lems. *asicall# the#'ll row up and the#'ll !lame #ou for all #our
pro!lems. (o make them totall# self0responsi!le. Bids need to know that the# have a choice in how the# react. The# can control their future and the# can chane it. Bids need to know that !ein responsi!le means that whatever happens in #our life #ou can take some uided action and make it different. nother /uestion. How often do #ou use uilt, shame or fear to control #our kids) I had a friend who pointed this out to me. I wasn't reall# seein it. I could see when parents were doin uiltDshameDfear !ut she said, $He#, that's emotional !lackmail&. I was like, $ow, #ou're rihtK& It's usin uilt shame or feat to threaten the person with $He#, I miht take m# love awa# from #ou. If #ou don't do this then I miht take m# love awa#&. Can #ou see how that's !asicall# !lackmail) M# friend sa#s that when her kids were rowin up, she wanted to eliminate this as a pattern in the famil#. (o an# time a famil# mem!er used fear uilt or shame to coerce some!od# in the famil# to do somethin or to use it as a controllin mechanism, the# had to put mone# in a mone# %ar. That was her thins. " cents, a dollar, ever# time the# did the emotional !lackmail some!od# had to pa# up, includin the parents. If #ou choose this ma#!e #ou %ust take awa# 12 minutes computer time, *ut if #ou do it for #our kids #ou also have to do it for #ourself. Cause #ou're the role model. How often do #ou have structured time with the whole famil# toether in communication) s we discussed !efore, that's famil# !ondin. Talkin a!out thins, creatin thins, an#thin that's ood toether as a famil#. Ma#!e it's (unda# niht. Aust reall# make the effort to set aside a date niht with #our kids and famil#. Now %ust sa# #ou don't reall# know how to make the time, #our schedules are all packed up. h# don't #ou ask the universe and put it on #our vision !oard that somethin opens up or somethin chanes or shifts a little !it so that #ou reall# do have famil# time) It could !e a half hour, !ut a half hour of reall# connected ener#. It's completel# different than two hours of unconnected ener#. ;o #ou have conversations with #our children a!out what the#'re e4periencin emotionall# in life) 3ou can ask them a!out their friends, school and famil# and how the# feel a!out thins. The# need ad%ustin to new e4periences. If the# can talk it out with #ou and assimilate their emotions and feelins it can ive them perspective. If #ou can !e connected at the time and reall# perceive what's oin on, that's the !est, doin all of this without %udment so that the# can learn how to handle all their emotions themselves. Aust uide them to sort it out. I know a famil# that wasn't ettin alon. The# used the active communication where the# let their dauhter %ust vent. The mom had the awareness that she reall# needed to do this. (o the mom asked the child to tell her ever#thin she thouht a!out life in the famil# and she %ust sat there, didn't %ude, held her opinion and ever# time the kid said somethin she's o, $-B, is there an#thin else #ou don't like)& (he %ust kept askin her, $lriht, is there an#thin else #ou don't like) (he kept doin that until !asicall# the kid let it all out. Bids are reall# resilient once the kid let it all out she was done with it. Mostl# what the mom learned was that the child wanted to share her feelins and she didn't have the space in the house to reall# !e heard. Now the# do this ever# (unda#. The# %ust reall# check in with each other: How are #ou, how are #ou reall#) The ke# to doin this and ettin #our kids to do this, is the have to know that #ou're not oin to %ude them, that #ou're %ust oin to keep #our ener# open and o, $lriht, what else)& How often do #ou openl# e4press #our ratitude and appreciation to the children in #our life) I know a famil# who ever# time the# eat toether, the# make sure to tell each mem!er of the famil# what the# feel !lessed a!out or what the# wish for some!od# else at the ta!le. I'm rateful for #ou and what I reall# wish for #ou is that #our life look like
this. -r, what I reall# wish for #ou is that #ou et this in #our life. -r, what I'm reall# appreciative of and rateful for is... nd the# do this !# wa# of e4chanin love around the ta!le. ;o #ou have a tendenc# to pro%ect #our !urdens onto the famil# and especiall# #our children) -r do #ou ive them a lift) (o now #ou have some intuitive skills and some spiritual skills in #our toolkit, #ou can use #our intuition to solve a lot of issues and #ou don't necessaril# have to some home with them. nd #ou can use all #our other time to %ust !e present and have reall# ood, fun conversations with #our kids which will also !rin #ou alined with a lot more %o# in #ourself. ;o #ou have a !alanced set of rules desined for #our child's !est interest) ;o #ou enforce them consistentl#) -r do #ou find #ourself ivin in to demands and lettin it slide) *alanced discipline is important. Have some !ottom line rules a!out what's appropriate and then %ust reall# !e secure enouh in makin sure #ou enforce them. The# want to know that #ou care enouh to pa# attention. Bindness, carin and love aain, those are hiher vi!rational fields of ener# and #our child will feel that from #ou. The# want to !e supported, the# want to learn how to enerate these feelins for themselves, the# want to love #ou and the# want to !e loved. Thank #ou for takin the time to o throuh that and self0assesment. Aust make a little pact with #ourself: In 92 da#s I'm oin to do it aain. I !et #ou can see some thins have chaned in #our famil#. nd I !et when #ou come !ack and listen, #our ener# field will !e a lot lihter. This meditation is to open and awaken #our heart center. 6et in a comforta!le position and when #ou are read# close #our e#es. Take a deep !reath and rela4. Take another deep !reath and rela4. =ook up o up to where #ou can connect and feel the liht. llow the liht to come into #our !od# and fill #our head... fill #our face, fill #ou ears, fill #our !rain... let the liht move into #our throat, #our shoulders... llow this li/uid liht to move throuh #our arms, #our el!ows and out #our hands. llow this liht to continue from #our throat and to #our chest and into #our heart space. @eel it oin deep into #our ri! cae, #our a!domen, fillin up all the nooks and crannies with liht. llow this liht to move into #our hips, #our thihs, move the liht into #our knees, #our calves and #our feet. llow this ener#, this liht, to move into the round and send a !eam of liht throuh the earth and connect to the center of the planet where it feels the happiest. @eel this earthl# lovin support and allow the earth to ive somethin !ack to #ou and send the ener# up this !eam of liht riht into #our heart. 3ou're invitin in the hihest liht source from !elow and a!ove. It's vi!ratin at the hihest rate, vi!ratin from pure consciousness. hen #ou're read#, connect to #our heart where !oth lihts are meetin and !reathe in liht throuh the middle of #our heart. llow this liht to e4pand out into a !u!!le of liht fillin #our heart center with pure, lovin consciousness . Connect to #our heart and think: I love, I love I love. I open and receive the ener# of more and more love. Take another deep !reath and !reathe in liht throuh the middle of #our heart and allow it to e4pand out and around #our !od# into a !u!!le of pure, lovin ener#,
surroundin and encompassin #our !od# and think: I love, I love, I love. I open and receive the ener# of more and more love. *reathe in liht throuh the middle of #our heart and allow it to e4pand out fillin #our !od# with more and more love. nd feel: I love, I love, I love. I am open to receivin more and more love. Take another deep !reath and !reath in liht throuh the middle of #our heart and allow it to fill in the !u!!le of ener# surroundin #our !od#. llow this ener# to move in !etween the spaces of all the spaces in !etween the molecules and the cells. In !etween #our ;N, #our N, #our mitochondria, creatin perfect spheres of love. I love, I love, I love. llow this liht to infuse all the atomic and su!0atomic levels, eneratin vitalit# in all wa#s. I love, I love, I love. *reathe in liht throuh the middle of #our heart and allow it to fill in the ener# that is #ou, fillin #ou with pure, lovin consciousness. I love, I love, I love. I receive more and more love. Bnow that #ou can alwa#s return to this space of love at an# time, #ou %ust have to !reathe it in throuh the center of #our heart and allow it to e4pand within #ou. I love, I love, I love. This is meditation on visuali5in #our perfect famil# life. 6et in a comforta!le position and release an# fears and worries, an# thouhts from #our da#. Take a deep !reath and rela4. Take another deep !reath and rela4, lettin all #our cares and worries melt awa#. Take another deep !reath and rela4. Close #our e#es, look up and connect to the liht. (ee and feel and sense this liht. =et the liht move into #our !od# and start fillin #our head, #our !rain, #our e#es, #our ears, #our mouth, and #our cheeks. llow this liht to start fillin in #our throat, #our shoulders and movin into #our heart. llow this liht to !urst out #our heart and throuh #our arms and throuh #our hands and out #our finertips. llow this liht to move into #our ri!cae, #our torso, fillin in all the nooks and crannies. llow this liht to move into #our hips, #our thihs, #our knees, #our calves, and #our feet. llow this ener# to move into the round and send a !eam of liht throuh the earth and into the center of the planet where it feels the happiest. @eel this earthl#, lovin support of consciousness and allow the earth to ive !ack to #ou and send ener# up this !eam of liht into #our heart, radiatin out #our heart like a sun. 3ou're invitin in the liht source from !elow and a!ove, vi!ratin at the hihest and purest consciousness. Ne4t, imaine a scene in front of #ou, with #ou and #our famil#. Imaine or a moment that #ou can have the perfect famil# life, one in which all mem!ers of the famil# are feelin e4cellent a!out themselves happ# and vi!rant and well. Aust et a holistic sense of #ou and #our famil# interactin as a roup. (ense the famil#'s atmosphere as fun, compassionate and %o#ful.
(ee this scene in #our dail# life where ever#one is in the reat atmosphere, interactin with ease and %o# and love. hat would these famil# mem!ers !e sa#in to each other if the# were ettin alon) hat would these famil# mem!ers !e sa#in if the# were doin ratitude to each other) hat other thin do #ou notice in #our perfect famil# scene) Bnow that the more vi!rantl# #ou alin this ener#, the !rihter the colors, the more vi!rant the ener# feelin in #our !od#, that it will easier to manifest. (o ask one mem!er of the famil# to come forward and mentall# ask this person: what do #ou need from me) fter #ou have received the answer, mentall# show them the wa# #ou would reall# like to see the normal interaction !etween the two of #ou. (how them in a wa# that is clear, !riht and !old. Mentall# sa#: let this !e so... now. Thank them for all the !lessins the# !rin to #ou in #our life. Tell them one thin #ou love a!out them. In return as them what is one thin the# love a!out #ou. hen #ou're read# the# can step !ack into the famil# circle and ask another famil# mem!er to step forward. Mentall# ask this person: hat do #ou need from me) fter #ou have received the answer, mentall# show them the wa# #ou would reall# like to see the normal interaction !etween the two of #ou. (how them in a wa# that is clear, !riht and !old. Mentall# sa#: =et this !e so now. Thank them for !ein in #our life and tell them one thin #ou are rateful for. llow them to tell #ou one thin the# are rateful for a!out #ou. hen #ou're done, ive them a !i hu and send them !ack to the famil# roup and ask another mem!er of the famil# to come forward. Mentall# ask this person: hat do #ou need from me) fter #ou have received the answer, mentall# show them the wa# #ou would like to see #our normal interaction !etween the two of #ou. (how them in a wa# that is clear, !riht and !old. Mentall# sa#: =et this !e so now. Thank them for !ein in #our life and tell them one thin #ou are rateful for a!out them. =et them tell #ou somethin the# are rateful for a!out #ou. hen #ou are read# thank them and send them !ack to the famil# roup. Now for a moment I would like #ou to %oin the famil# roup and to imaine #our perfect famil# life from the holistic viewpoint. (ee all mem!ers of #our famil# interactin with pure love and %o#. sk that all the resources, all the ener#, all the knowlede, all the tools, all the earthl# thins #ou need to live this wa# show upon in #our universe now. =et's ask for a releasin of ever#thin in the wa# of this and call in and allow all the ifts and a!undance and tools to !e !rouht to #ou swiftl#. (ense each mem!er livin in harmon#, ettin all their needs met. ll mem!ers of the famil# allow all other mem!ers to have that for themselves. (ense prosperit#, a!undance and love in all wa#s, infusin all mem!ers of the famil#. (ense that all