Flawless natural superconference. Dating and sexuality from a man’s perspective. It is built out of the love for women and to have they love me too.
Comfort vs growth.
If you are not growing you are dying. Flawless attitude Flawless method Flawless ecosystem ( making your world a women generating ecosystem) Take what works , discard the rest, The reset button. Take everything you know about dating and women and throw it away just for today. Flawless attitude:
Core purpose : Do you have a vision in your mind of the perfect girl for you? Blonde , tall , adventurous, good dancer, big ass, strong, etc.. Ten reason why you want that in your life. 1- Fun 2- Passion 3- Communication 4- Sex 5- Sharing experiences 6- Company 7- Excitement 8- Learn and teach 9- Team 10Friendship
When you lose touch with your purpose and approach this game in a linear fashion, and you worry about the theory it dilutes your purpose and the girl can feel it.
The Golden Touch You will learn equally as much from a good night as from a bad night. The key is to view good nights and bad night with complete
indiference.
Delusional sense of coolness. As far as you are concerned you should be the coolest mother fucker on this planet.
That’s all that matters. Be easily excitable and share that excitement with the girls. Assumptions of glory.
Man and women have the same value . They are equal. Permissions that you give yourself.
You are the only one that can give yourself permission to be a flawless natural. Who gives you permission to be a super cool guy? Yourself.
Give yourself permission to be a natural. Give yourself permission to be great.
The past doesn’t mean anything .It is gone. Pick up is not about the girls at all. Pick up is a celebration of you. When you walk up to a girl and you say : What’s up? You are actually saying , EHHH join my party!!! You are the only constant in this game. You are the only thing that can be changed. The girls in the environment are just variables. Flawless method :
Wooo! It is actually the state that you are in. The internal state. Glowing feeling. Everything is on. Full flow state. Feel absolutely alive. You have an smile inside. Gold coming out the mouth. Nothing matters but being in the moment. The feeling inside of your body will dictate everything. You can change mentally your state by talking yourself up. You can change it physically. Change one and the other one follow. Mind and body are intertwined. SNAP! View state in your mind as a radio tuner. Tunning into the right frequency.
Woo is your high self . It is your best self. When you are in woo everything flows naturally. When you are in a yuck state , everything sucks. You wanna be able to effectively tune into the right mindset (woo). There are two ways to generate woo.
There are two ways to generate woo. Physical and mental. The mind and the body are intertwined. Little strategy to get into state : with passion just before you get into the club Clap your hands with strength and say out loud wooo! Let’s go!!! As soon as you get in approach the very fist girl that you see. It’s like getting up in the morning to go to work. You don’t feel like doing it but you know that you just have to. Sometimes when you approach a girl , you think that you’re getting blown out . But she might be nervous , or in a low frequency state that she can’t connect to you.It is your job to bring that out of her. Mental woo. (big smile inside) How can I make this fun for me and bring her into the party? Instead of What opener should I use? How an I gonna do my approach? Your mind then will open up will all sort of stuff and opportunities for you. Make it fun for you and she will connect to you. Self amusement is key. Any time of emotion that you want a girl to feel, you need to feel that first. If a want the girl to be fun with me , I have to be fun first. If a want the girl to be sexual with me , I have to be sexual first.
Be a player not a spectator.
When you are playing ,you are just doing , acting , you deal with the consequences later.
Once you have been in woo state for 20 minutes . You will be in state the whole night. Cyclone of glory . Going to a group of girls and spinning in front of them. Completely ridiculous but that get us laughing, having fun and draws people in. Bring us into the wooo state. We want to get into the wooo state so that be can we let by our core as a man.
Spontaneous love striking : that’s how you approach. It allows you to take the lid of the core inside. It’s you on turbo. The you that has that purpose to get what he wants and doesn’t doubt not even for one second. There are two energies in this world : masculine and feminine. Masculine = leadership , dominance, Feminine = fluent , loving, nurturing
Women need certainty. She needs to see that masculine man , that feeling of life , that stepping up and owning something. She needs to see that through every part of your approach. She needs to feel that to the core you are a man , you’ve got certainty. EIHHH , come here , come here with me!!! (with very confident voice tone) Bubble of love : generate that “you and her situation” when you both are enjoying it. Having sex is a natural part of my life. Do what you want to do. Don’t let girls drag you away of your interests and passions. Girl: I like X group of music! Natural : I’m glad you like it. It is not my thing anyway….let’s talk about.. Natural : What are we talking about this for? .. What are you talking about this rubbish for? We are in a nightclub ..Let’s party. Communicating congruently from the core. What I’m really thinking , what I’m really feeling.
You approach her with strong confident from the get go… Heyyy, Heyyy, Heyyy, I had to meet you…. (showing that intent) She probably will say : Who’s that guy?
It needs to feel to the girl like it happens all the time. This guy just has what it takes to step up and take what he wants. For her this stepping up and taking what he wants correlates to everything else he does in life too. When you see a girl you like approach immediately with full intent. The fury threshold . You stop a girl in the club and she doesn’t stop. Use misfired approaches to build inner fury. It’s so weird that she is not even stopping for me. Use your emotions to fuel your striking. I’m prepared to go in when others are not. You should proud yourself of this as well. Natural: We need to get rid of your chodes. Girl: I don’t know.. Natural : You are coming with me…(grabbing her hand) When you approach a group in woo state this usually puts them into the lower frequency (spectator mode) and that is very attractive to women.
You do not give a fuck about what anyone thinks of you. If you think making up with a girl in a club is a big deal , she is gonna think it is a big deal. If you think going home in the first night is a big deal , she is gonna think it is a big deal.
Openers. Happy birthday opener. Wooo without intent = entertainer guy Intent without wooo= creepy guy Woo + intent = natural ( talking from the core) Fun inside combined with your absolute intent as a man.
Rhythm 10 til 2. What actually happens in the club between 10pm and 2am. View people in the club not as obstacles but as cheerleader to your success. Going into a group : Hi guys , I’m Tim (introducing hinself to everyone in the group) I thought she was cute , I just had to meet her. Is that ok with you?
Natural : EIHHH! ( dominant tone of voice) Where are the cool parties in London? HB10: I don’t know. Natural : OGGGGGG!!! What’s the good of you then?
I choose you technique (intent from the start) (I choose you out of all the girls in this place)
Natural : tap tap on the shoulder , girl turns around. Natural : I choose you. Girl : Ja, ja!! What for? Natural : You know, you know…Come here!!! What’s your name?? I’ll pursue you harder than any other guy in this planet. ( said to girl running off after making out) Voice : In the club you have to be loud as hell. Your voice will cut over any music. Natural : EIHHH, come here, come here, come here!!! I wanna meet you!!! You are creating instant spectators!! Talk through from diafragm through the back of your throat. In your mind you have your default volume of speaking. And sometimes that volume is not enough.. Not talk to a person , talk through them. Trick : Not picture the girl close to you , picture her three places back. (5 to 6 feet back from where she actually is)
Vocal tonality and body language diagram. TR: trying for rapport Asking something end curling up. (Chode) That says a lot about how you feel about yourself inside. NR: neutral rapport Asking something flat end (confident) Neutral tonality , neutral body language. BR: Breaking rapport Asking something end curling down. Naturally fuelled by the fury.. The ideal place to be is between NR and BR. Presentation of dominance. Getting used to the feelings inside your body.
It’s me and you tonight. (phrase) Touching should happen naturally through your intent. The touch or grabbing (come here , come here) has to have fun behind so that it doesn’t come off as creepy. When you are with I girl:
Instead of thinking what do I do? Think What do I want? Reconnect yourself to the purpose. Look at her lips to reconnect you to the purpose. Tools for getting physical:
The claw
Use the claw to stop girls that walk past you and moves they towards you and introduce yourself. (you never move) Display masculine dominance right from the start.
The claw song :
The claw always wins, The claw always wins, Have no fear The claw is here Keylock of glory.
Hold the girl’s hand , step in and wrap the arm around the back and pull in. Showing dominance.
The longer you leave it to get physical the weirder it gets. The optimum time to get physical is just at the start.
The bubble of love is the roles that you and her play in the interaction. The default role is : random strange dude , random strange girl. Within that role you are very limited of the things that you can talk about. Survey type questions..(where are you from?/ what do you do?etc,…)
You wanna change the random guy role into other role that can actually help you hook up and connect with each other.
Are you guys married yet? (role) They play along …Yeahhh we are married!!! Girl : My name is Ainslee Natural: OH!! No, no, no, no, no, no, no!!! I once dated a girl name Ainslee. Girl: Really , was she cool? Was she like me? Natural: She was trouble!! She was trouble!! You gonna be trouble Ainslee I can tell. I can tell. (you’ve set the role of I can’t go near you) You set a bubble around you two. Now you’ve have a million things to talk about. Natural: You know what. You are just Ainslee , you are fun and adventurous ( grabbing her hand and use it to physically escalate) Ainslee and I used to kiss like this.. Blaming her for your love struckness. Natural : Hello , What’s up ? I’m Tim.
Here I am trying to enjoy the night with my friends and you are dragging me away from them. Why do you do this to me? Look at you all glamorous!!! Making me chase you. Making me pull you in. (your are setting the role that you are the pursuer and she is pursued)
Let’s get married. I’ve decided you and me are getting married now. You can talk about how bad your relationship is and you gonna get a divorce. I love that we are married , we are such a good couple. Sort of things like that …
Let’s have a date. Now, you and me. I’ve decided we are dating. She will play along with the interaction…
You are my new girlfriend. You can be my new girlfriend for the next 5 minutes. Where are we going on our first date? It’s your turn to pay for the drinks…
I need a playmate. I want to play today I need a playmate. Hello dearest (it implies that there is something going on between you two) Hello honey Hello love Hello dear Helli sweetie
Cherishing in the night. RULE: Do not think/talk/ponder/worry or do anything regarding a girl unless you have first established the masculine role. In pretty much all cases this means before you can cherish or go into a cherish frame you must have had sex first. Have you ever picked up a girl, got her number or whatever and then thought about her constantly? or not even constantly. Maybe you played movies in your mind of you two in different situations, going on dates, her meeting your mother, etc. Then when you go to call her up its all WEIRD. You fumble around the phone, stutter when you talk - HORRIBLE. Your mind places the girl in a girlfriend frame And so this is what I call ‘CHERISHING IN THE NIGHT’.
Now I cover this fully in the ‘Flawless Natural Superconference’ however I wanted to illustrate with this recent example: So back to Ryan and I out on bootcamp… Im right up in a girls face kissing her while winging a client when out of the corner of my eye I notice Ryan walking around with another cute girl hand in hand. I remember thinking to myself “awww that looks cute”. Anyway the night progresses and again I see Ryan and this girl - they look cuter than ever. In fact they kinda look ‘in love’. They are making out and gazing into each others eyes and all that. Uh oh. CHERISHING. She looks fully melting in his arms and so happy - like they have been together forever. Awwwwwww.
SO anyway im doing my thing demolishing this place… im walking up to random girls with my new opener “Im sad I need a kiss” and making out with them then going to the next girls and doing the same. (PS this new opener is killer: “Im sad. I need a kiss” then you get them to kiss each cheek. Then lips. They will fight the lips and you simply say “But im sad!” and boom go right in for it. Your clearly not sad and just being a crazy guy. Beautiful.) So at some point Ryan intros me to the girl and she stands beside me, he goes off to help out a client and she is left there with me. Im talking for a bit then notice another cutey walking past… BOOOOOOOM I grab her, sad need a kiss, makeout then throw her back into the crowd all happy. RIGHT AFTER THIS Ryans girl grabs my arm and looks me right in the eye and says “Whoa, you’re agressive, I like agressive”. Oh shit now she is all over my arm. POOOOOOF I eject on her and go back to clients waiting till the end of the night to tell Ryan what happened. Turns out that later she gives Ryan the excuse of “But you are leaving tomorrow, I cant go home with you, we will never work out!”. AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH there it is…. the CHERISHING IN THE NIGHT has killed him.
Because he put her into a cherish (girlfriend) frame she is fully playing that frame and so cannot sleep with him. Now if I had a shot, who knows? Different frame = Different Results. See with me im just coming across as a fun, dominant man who is following his core sexual intent. I have no outcome with the girl other than fun THAT night. They feel that way and act accordingly. I remember how this used to destroy me back in the early days when I would tell the girl “wow I really like you a lot” within 5 minutes of meeting her. This meant she had expectations to live up to and so it would rarely work.
No expectations on the girl = full trust from the girl. Since then there has been no Cherishing in the Night from mr. Ryan deluxe and there should be none for you too. The LORD of the club does not cherish. No no no.
As a general rule its not until after the first sex can you start to go the cherish route. Why though? the girl needs to know you are truley a champ and can get girls - not some chode trying to find his cherish lover in the nightclub. So ultimately its up to you guys on how you want to be percieved but here are some simple guidelines: DO’s and DO NOT’s DO kiss her for fun in the club DO NOT make out tenderly for four hours DO show her that you are fully interested in her NOW DO NOT start talking about future plans and dates and how much of a match you are DO lead her around dominant style DO NOT prance around the club like you have finally found that special girl… You get the drift…
Most guys the like to have sex like this: They will take you home and they will be all lovey with with. Like cherishing in the night. They will look at your lips and lay you down.And make love to you. Meeee : Fuck that!!! I’m here for real sex. Fuunn, adventure….
Net theory. I view my mind like a net. I can choose what gets caught in my net. I can choose what goes straight through the holes. Example: Girl : I don’t like you. Natural: (accept it) Yes , I know / Yes , anyway / Ok, I understand (and keeps going) unreactive. (goes through the net like it never even happen) Never even got caught in my net. And continues normal conversation.
Grab her hand to walk in. She let it go. If you let get caught in your net , it could ruin the whole date. AHHHH! OK.. (don’t let it get caught in your net)
Pinball of positive. Redirecting the energy of the conversation to where you want it to go. Girl brings up something that it is negative into the conversation. Accepting and redirecting . Girl : I don’t like you. Natural: (accept it and redirect it ) Yes , I know / Yes , anyway / Ok, I understand (and keeps going) unreactive.
WAIT, WAIT,WAIT!!!! (technique) Girl : We can not do this , we can not…. Natural : WAIT, WAIT,WAIT!!!! WAIT! OK, Let’s go.!!!
(snap out of that) Natural: WAIT, WAIT,WAIT!!!! I’m Tim..What’s your name? OK, Cool –anyway Girl: We can’t leave the club together. Natural : OK, cool – anyway…Let’s go.
If the girl is not giving you attention. There is no spark. And to get the tension back and really demonstrate the core intent from the start. Pick 5 random questions , the more random the better. Natural : Where are you from? Girl: New York Natural : What do you like about New York? Girl: It’s a nice city Natural : Do you have friends out there? Natural :WAIT , WAIT!!!! Natural : (do you like lizards?) Girl: No Natural: (Have you ever been fired from a job?) Girl: No Natural: (have you ever spiked a guys’ drink in a night club?) Girl: No Natural : (Ok , what’s your favourite colour?) Girl : Blue. Natural : Cool, That’s good enough we can be together. Natural : you are trustworthy , we can get married. (bring the girl into your bubble / give her a role to play) (she will we thinking: Why is he asking this? Where is this leading to?) Natural: That’s good enough.. we can go now.
This is my version of guy and girl. When you throw something sexual to a girl such as for example: You and I , we are going home tonight. Never say “I’m just kidding” because that will kill the sexual tension immediately.
The bubble makes you a sexworthy guy.
Don’t view girls as a battle to be won and conquered. She get as much out of this as you do. You and me are adventure partners.. She will play alomng with this role… It’s a “you and me” not a “you vs me”
Walkin up to a girl …saying hello I’m Tim and for no reason walking away. It means you are not connected to your true intent. Sometimes you have the attitude : I gotta talk to girls now , I’m learning this pick up stuff , I guess. You don’t even know why you are doing it.
This is taken care of why the bubble of love. Setting a role for you and her as opposed to we are meeting in a night club and talking about where we are from ad what do we do.
As soon as some obstacle ( friend, guy, etc) appears don’t sit back and hope that she’ll come back to you. Make it happen. That comes with the intent side of things as well.
Physically escalate from the very beginning.
View obstacle as your cheerleaders , look at everyone in the club as your personal cheerleaders. Create your personal cheerleader in your own mind that will cheer you up in any situation to motivate you and make you feel good.
Do I introduce myself to the whole group or to the single girl of the group? Remember , take care of the whole group.
If you are talking to a girl and you see a friend of hers approaching , start a conversation with her and include her in the group so that she doesn’t take your girl away. Video 5
What happens between 10 pm and 2am ( the entire night). Wooo and intent . They need to be tuned , they need to be balanced. The perfect rhythm throughout the night. 10pm to 12 am / 12:30 am.When you first met the girl you need to have a 5050 split of Wooo and intent. You are fun and you are showing that intent. Show your intent (It’s you and me tonight…) and walk off and go back to your friends and have fun with them . Let her get back to her friends so that she can have fun with her friends. 12am/12:30am to 2 am She is ready to go. Then you shift your rhythm to more intent than Wooo. You’ve already demonstrated that you are a fun guy that can chill out , shoot the shit, have fun with your friends. Now it’s time to ramp up the intent and pull hard. Come one time to go!!! Time to go!!!! Time to go!!! Come one adventure!!! You don’t want to go? Let’s just go eat!!!! Come on eat time , eat time!! Be cool / comfortable with the silences…
If you have the right amount of Wooo ( the right feeling inside) , the right amount of intent , the right bubble of love (the right situation, the right roles for you and her to move it forward) and you understand the rhythm of 10 til 2. You come to a point when you say to her : Let’s go!! And she will say : Yess, let’s!!!! She want to be with you just as much you wanna be with her. That’s a goal , that’s an awesome goal. Core purpose : she will enjoy me just as much as I will enjoy her. So you both win. She has the man , you’ve got the honey. WIN /WIN This is how you should view it. When you walk up to a girl and she says : NO, NO , NO …you can say : Whaaaaatttt? I’m trying to help you win… What are you doing? Come back here… What is this?... You can’t run away like this …That’s weird!!!! Always looking for the win for both of us…. You are building a house. You start building the walls and while you are building your third wall , The first one you build falls down. You can react in three different ways: 1- Fuck this. Fuck the house. Gone 2- Quickly gotta get this up. Purpose. 3- I don’t know about this… Number 2 wins.
How can we relate this to picking up chicks. When a girl throws something out there that you didn’t expect. The most effecting option is number 2 , keep going and create a win-win situation where the two of you are going to win.
Make your world a women generating ecosystem.
It is like a system that works on its own. Getting the number: Put your number in , maybe we’ll hang out sometime. Maybe and hang out = keywords The key to running a good phone game is running a good interaction to begin with…She will be the one getting nervous when you call her. Texting girls: You are my new (text message GF) GF for the next 5 minutes. We can be married over text for 5 minutes. Five minutes later. Awwww.Now we are broken up.It’s not you it’s me.It was fun though. Later.
this bubble doesn’t have to be the same one that you use when you first met. It can be a different one. Easy last resort when nothing is happening:
Girl: Why are you asking me this? Natural: How am I supposed to get you on the phone?
or Why do you do this to me?
No reply from Ally :
Your ecosystem is the free time that you have to generate girls in your life. Rules for your ecosystem and what you let in.
Make up your own rules for the things you let into your world.
Places you divide your free time into in order to generate girls in your life. Club. Frequent the same club for a moth or so. Meet the bouncer = Hi , I’m Tim…( shake hands with the guy) Greet the bargirls: Hi, How’s you night going? I’ll have a scotch.
Girls will start to recognize you and that’s a good thing. CAFÉ Some cool little bar to bring the girl to. Home Give you house a name. Example : you call your house “the palei” Palei time, Let’s go.. Take the girl out of the club , take her to a supermarket and ask her to choose her favourite fruits. Take her home and cut and squeeze the fruits together.
Create your own vision Board with pictures that will motivate you and fuel you every day when you get up in the morning and look at it. Energizes your day and gives you a boost.
Bouncers. If they don’t let you in : Keep overloading them with useless chat until they let you in.. Example: But I’m wearing my new shoes, But I’m wearing my lucky shirt.. I’ve come straight from Australia to visit your wonderful club.
Develop your own rhythm . Find your own. A rhythm that really resonates with you. A rhythm you will incorporate to the way you walk , talk and even live. Happy , upbeat, strong, passionate. Your own language , you own attractive world. Name things to make them look cooler than they really are. You can name you car , your house even your cock. I have a deep love for women , not for the theory. If you fall in love with the theory, what it does is misaligns you from your purpose inside. You have to remember to be driven from your core purpose (WHEN YOU SEE THAT GIRL AND SPARKS HAPPEN INSIDE)
Create a bubble of love for the two of you to win. Develop your own natural method.
