STEALTH ATTRACTION NOTES
STEALTH... VALUE OPENING SEDUCTION AROUSAL EXTRACTION
VALUE never stand in the same place too long. always moving. non moving = lowest value interact, but give as little energy as possible. interest you receive - effort you're giving to get that interest = attraction one of my favorite things to do: create situations where surrounded by women. dancefloor, enjoy, have fun, but do not look at women. soon women crowd around you. if women giving you ioi, little wave, or kiss sign. (for non that good women). then turn your back on her, so that gives them permission to point at me.
this hot girl is now paying attention to you and you haven't done anything yet. Leave the whole club, instead of going to the smoking area, I need to get sum money, from the atm, buy some cigarettes in the shop, make a phone call... shake the bouncer's hand, make sure he remembers me, "i'll be back in a second", make sure he stamps me, remembers my face, buy a chocolate bar, wait a few minutes, outside huge queue. Force IOI to some girls, make sure they notice me. often go to smoking area. quite, few distractions. good place to open. If you can see the queue, you can force IOI with girls in the queue. eventually chat with them. "hi, I'll see you inside", and just breeze back in. when they see you inside, you're that high value guy that got in more easily than they did. Any girl that has to queue sees you at the potential a way to get more easily into the club next time. (even though you had to queue as well before haha) buy glass of champaign (similar price, but higher value drink) fashion: go into the club, look at the highest value guy (the top dog), and copy him. He's got the fashion that's work in that environment. Not generic. hottest, high value girl, that everyone looks at, ignore her. don't look at her, or only peripherally, or go in front of her, looking around her while making her feel invisible. as if you're searching for your friends. Movie star effect: get that attention without peacock or an obvious why women might be looking So light touch on back of the hand, legs, then other hand if can, "who is that guy, did he mean to do it?", then do it for all women you pass thru, soon they talking abt you and superstar effect. Look around the room, for the most intimidating/scary girl. It'll make you look higher value if you're seen interacting with her, especially if it's going well. Unbreakable opener. Not any investment in this interaction. Disqualify yourself first, "present for gf advice, blablabla, you seem very stylish, what should I get blablabla" then leave it. (after she answered) Even can say present for your boyfriend, totally disqualifies you, be the gay dude for a minute haha. You've raised your value. Stacking IOIs. In set. catch her eye, and force the IOI. (wave your hand type of thing, and smile like hey) Girl you're talking you doesn't see the response of the girl you're waving, can never be to bad and even if negative the girl you're talking to doesn't see it. Then leave, talk to other girl, you've already raised your value.
Done that with girl I wasn't really into, then wave other girl, get her number, and come back "oh shes a girl I haven't see in a while blablabla" It seems like you get friendly and sociable, and always excuse, "oh I've lost her number". In essence, stealth value allows you to very easily build your value in an environment. You don't have to do 20 cold approaches, interact with people too much, it'll help if you do, but there are cover ways to pump your value for girls in any environment.
STEALTH OPENING 1- Approach Priming Non verbal technique, rejection proof, hits a lot of buttons that verbal approach never can. Traditional approach: 90% of those cases, approach has been bad. She got all those negative associations with it. She also asks herself: Do I wanna stand and talk to this guy for a few minutes? Do I want my friends to see me talking to this guy? Do I want the other guys in the club see me talking to him? Would I rather be doing something else? Questions she asks while you're walking towards her. She assumes it's gonna be bad, she can reject you straight away, and simply because you're approaching her the same way so many guys did in the past. Approach priming: familiar situation, but POSITIVE one. Positive association. Few times in her life, she bumped into someone she hasn't seem in a shile, old friend. Get that rapport from a distance, and make her feel that she's already comfortable talking that she knows; Forcing IOI, kind of the precursors to approach priming. Catch a girl's eye, wave, tip your hat or raise your drink, tryna get a positive response, etc. and if yes approach. Approach priming, goes a little beyond that, locks her eyes, tilt my head, narrow my eyes, I'm communicating something: Don't I know you? I'm playful
This is an interaction What I'm looking for: her to mirror that response, react positively, and give me something back. Then, response in 5 different ways. -Curious (ask her question) -Playful (cheeky) -Intrigued (don't I know you?) And she'll say "don't I know you?" The reason she'll do that is because I'm triggering that emotion. She must believe she does know me because I'm triggering that face. She'll end up doing it. So many times, girls I've NEVER EVER EVER MET before I say: I don't think I look that generic (smirky face) She goes: "Didn't I see you before, where you last week, last year, where you in my school,..." They're just searching for it It's just because of that association with the face I'm doing, they're mirroring it and feel the same emotion. A lot of the times the girl will open you, imagining that she knows you. Fourth thing I might do. Notice that she's doing, and mirror it. Purpose= rapport. Pace and lead. Only negative thing can happen is start looking away, but what do you risk. Is she playful, is she fun. Also, she cannot fake it. Pure response. Cannot fake it. When you keep things non verbal, she can't help but let the signals leak out. And you will get a very honest response. More likely gonna be yes than if you do a cold approach because it's not putting the pressure on her and not asking a difficult question. FIFTH option: be sexual right away, you catch her attention, and it's the right situation, approach very slowly, but with obvious sexual intent, you might take her hand, then the next touch might be a stroke thru the hair, you're gonna slightly come in... You might introduce yourself, so you might say "Hey I'm John" kiss on cheeks, and back in the middle going in for kiss slowly.
In your movement you're saying "I'm gonna kiss you", you're letting her be ready for it, that way you see her signals and she lets you know that it's on and if she's not ready for it (turns away, backs on, looks uncomfortable) you change your walk into a "hey I've got a question type of thing" The sexual walk and going in for the kiss it's all done slowly so that she knows that if she's cool with it she'll be ok for the kiss. Tactile opening: Before you've got eye contact, before you've said anything, you open with a touch, very subtle, nobody sees it, useful when you want secrecy, in noisy environment, or she's with a guy, or friends, etc. Example with girl dancing on a table of a guy paying her champaign. Hard for her to be seen with you when other guy is paying for her, kinda disrespectful. Walk past her, don't look at her then put your back close to her while dancing. If she doesn't like it she goes forward and done. But if she keeps with it she likes it and you can move forward. Real unconscious response, very easy thing to say yes to, as opposed to verbal opening. Turn back, making smirks as if I'm looking for my friends, and she'll see me, know I'm quietly saying hello to her. We now got an interaction that no one in the club knows. It's playful. Then turn her slowly holding her arm. Thousands of ways to do it, but the thing to bear in mind is: Very subtle touch, gaging her response, gradually increasing things to the point where it's safe. If you think about it, I never have to be worried about rejection. I never gonna be walking around with a lot of approach anxiety. Cause it's so subtle the harshest response you're gonna get is just the girl moving a little away, everyone can take that. Another example of tactile opening: New York example, sitting next to a girl, very subtle touching her legs with mine in tune with the music. Me talking to my friends, her sitting next to 2 guys. Me: unnecessary touching with my arms, to her arms, since it's so subtle her response will be subtle. Then I wanna see what's going all in the rest of the bar. My arm touching her arm. Smirky face again, then she sees me, can take things further. I took a situation very tough, and found out that she's probably single but definitely available.
-Familiarity opening: Found out by accident but use almost exclusively now. I approach prime, come up to the girl, "good to see you again", or "hey, how have you been?" (most commonly) She feels maybe she has met me somewhere before, but it's ambiguous enough for her not to ask. reason also I use it: she's in a group. Toughest situation example. Beautiful girl, boyfriend, big huge guys, annoying friends. If I approach prime, no one's gonna see it. I approach her, then "hey how have you've been", (LOUDLY)while putting your hand forward as if to shake hands. The rest of the group hears that. Here's what's going on from these guy's point of view. They see me approaching, then the girl's face, and depending on her reaction they're ready to take action. But because I primed it and faked the IOI she got a smiley kind of face. So they're like "oh I think she knows him". They're 70% sure that I know her. Then I go "Hey, how have you been?", then 100% sure that I know her. As soon as I do that, they disappear. The girls talk to each other, the guys, ... talk to each other, and they'll give me that time to game her. After I've said that first part loudly, the rest of our interaction is quiet, and I'm talking just to her, only for her benefit. I'f I'm out with my GF, and you wanna steal her off me, that's how you do it. Cause I'm standing there, see the guy, not gonna be like "hey gtfo" to the guy, doesn't make any sense, I'm gonna look at my GF and see if she knows him or not, and if she goes "ooohh" I'm like oh okay they must go to work together, school together, be old friends. And the opener seals it. Oh I'm gonna go to the bathroom, or get a drink, or talk to my friends. This guy could be all over my GF. He could game her silently, and say "oh yeah, I've lost your number I've got a new phone, can you give it to me I'll be in touch we should meet up for a coffee." "Come up with me and my girlfriend."
I'll be like "oh that's fine" and she'll be like "wow this is exciting". That's how he steals my GF. I've used it in cases where it would have been impossible to get a girl and interact. Not because she wouldn't like me but because no matter how much she liked me her friends wouldn't let her talk to me. For example, 3AM, girls leaving the club, they're about to jump in a taxi, familiarity opener the girl right at the end, the rest of them go wait for her patiently because they think we know each other. You would never interrupt old friends catching up, you would give them a little bit of time. And a little bit of time is all you need to get a phone number, to join the group, to steal her away somewhere else, and that's what you can do. So when you see that big group, that's one thing you can do, nonverbal, inter familiarity. And it'll work. Before we get into the real meat of the verbal game, Something I notice I often do is I use a few transitions. These transitions normally bring about familiarity and are quite logistical in nature. I wanna find out... When she got here Who she's here with If she's got any plans for later Reason I'm doing that: So that I can very quickly think about how do I get her out with her, if I have to get around any other people in order to do that, or invite them up so I can stop thinking about that, and what her plans are for later. She could say she needs to get an early night because she wakes up early, or that they're planning on going another club, or that she doesn't know. The last 2 options obviously lead you later on to help with the extraction. So my first couple of questions, normally quite generic. DISC 2 - STEALTH SEDUCTION/ STEALTH AROUSAL 3 - STEALTH SEDUCTION key thing: Rejection proof Escalate without any chance of rejection Comfortable with it - needs to be very smooth
demonstrate attractive qualities -playful -confident -sexual -secretive use our bodies, eyes, verbal games, to create a really strong sexual chemistry to make attraction go to the roof. Micro Escalation Problems with traditional escalation, to go for the kiss. Putting it all on the line. In your head, thinking about whether it's gonna work or not. Micro escalation, put everything you do, 0 to 100, 100 being the more sexual tension. Slow down, smooth out, change the way you look at her, close that distance, look at her mouth, as if I'm gonna kiss he, introduce pauses. Sexual tension happens during pauses. Girl sometimes talks about something boring. You listen to her, while kinda flirting looking at her. Girls laugh. Gambler says it's a good response if you can get her to do that. yeah yeah, I don't really care, huh huh, moving in closer. Lot of guys really kill the sexual tension another way. Nightclub, guys talk in a girl's ear, kills the tension. Cos no eye contact. When no eye contact, girl's looking in the room, in a busy nightclub, she's looking around the room, better things to do that talk to this guy she barely knows. Anytime I'm talking in her ear, keeping as much contact as I can, talking into her ear, then let her talk in mine but meanwhile I look into her eyes. Increases sexual tension. Puts your arm around her shoulder. Even more, put it around her neck. Even more, around her cheek. Even more, even closer to her cheek, to her mouth. Even more, move your leg forward, your leg touches hers, creates lots of intimacy. Very easy to lean in for the kiss. Have a little kiss on the cheek is something you can do. It's done so smoothly that it's subtle and she can't reject you harshly. The idea = use your whole body. Go from 0 to a 100, all done very slowly and gradually. Frog into water analogy. And then turns up the heat.
Is it alright, if I move in a little closer. Is it alright if I touch you here when I talk to you. Etc. She's gonna say yes to all of those because increment is very very small. So you can break it down into such smooth movements she's just gonna accept every part of it. But the cool thing is, you don't have to take an hour. You can do it all within 30 seconds. That entire sequence, 10 seconds there, 10 seconds there and within 30 seconds you can kiss her. Another trick to build the sexual tension What's your favorite food. -Pizza -Pardon? -Pizza -I don't hear, pasta? -Pizza All while moving in closer to her, to her ears, your cheek close to hers, pretending you didn't hear, builds the sexual tension. She's gonna be cool with it because it's not a that serious kind of approach. Something quite nice to do as well is to combine 2 elements. Micro escalation Multi level communication (cover it later) Communicate one way verbally and one other way non verbally. Like you're talking boring verbally, but being sexual non verbally. Girl might be with a guy, or with a group, leaning back next to her, putting your hand on her hips, very sexual, then lean back, to very boring shit etc. Allows you to covertly seduce her; and tick all of her boxes. You don't appear as a threat to other guys, like her BF for example. It's exciting. She knows that she's being seduced when no one else in the room could tell. Really powerful. If you do a lot of this stuff, you're gonna give the girl multiple experiences that she's never had in her life. She's never been tactile-opened, she's never been micro escalated, you do this stuff and stack it up, and she's got an amazing memory of the half an hour of whatever it was interaction you've spent together. Conversation Control:
Conversational/Verbal element of what's going on. Same time as micro escalation and it's layered on top and there's a lot of things even in conversation control. Imma break down some of the stuff I do conversationally. Why they work etc. I use Future pacing Bounce a girls around lots of locations. Take her to a few different venues, seems like time is longer than it seems in her head. Trying find a lot of ways thinking about future situations with me. Common objection to sex: she might think you don't wanna see her again. If you talk her about the things you'll do with her in the future -you love cocktails? -i love cocktails -you know what i gotta take you to this wonderful place where they serve delightful cocktails -oh yeah movie conversation, there's this movie I have seen, have you seen it, nope, oh I gotta watch it again with you blablaba I think I've got a DVD I'm gonna invite you there blablabla You know when I was younger I used to go to the park, I 'll tell you what, next thursday, walk for the park, etc. I'll talk her 5 to 10 things. What's your favorite food? Pizza. Oh you know what nothing hills, pizzeria with wonderful food, you'll adore it blablabla. She's imagining all those future dates. Done very casually, no pressure there. Very powerful, getting her to imagine something that's gonna last. When she's pulling her clothes off, she's imagining all the wonderful things she's gonna do with you again, not a one night stand where she might not see you again, it's more like a start of a relationship. Women have a sort of stigma about one night stands, but if you can remove the objection it's pretty acceptable. ie that she's gonna see you again.
Next part, something I have a lot of fun with: Ticks a lot of boxes, Tongue and cheek romanticism, baby, look at the stars, I wanna lie down in the grass and then I'm looking at her I burst out laughing, or oh baby what's your favorite drink, she answers, oh yeah me too you know what I think we're meant to each other, then burst out laughing. Playful but for a second letting her feel those very romantic feelings. What you doing next week. blablabla parents, do you think they'll like me? Oh of course they will like me... Then burst out laughing. I only do that with girls I really like, and plan to see again. The thing is, you're being romantic without being a wuss. Worth noticing the things that are missing. I'm not DHVing Tryna assume positive things but not overtly tell her. If you tell someone DHV thing about you, it's validation seeking. By not telling at all, you come across as quite humble. I don't compliment on physical attributes. no "you're beautiful" , or "you're fantastic" blablabla She has it all heard before. Give her all the power in the interaction By not mentioning anything verbally, you're not giving her 100% certainty. She's always kept guessing. She's wondering if you think she's hot/Interesting. Cause you're not telling her. That means she has to put more work here. What I do though is I show her non-verbally. I look at her like I find her sexy. Like I wanna kiss her. I'll be a gentleman, I'll do nice things, I'll open the door for her, etc, I'll be polite. But the compliments won't be there at all until maybe when I get her into bed, and she's naked. Or after I slept with her. But generally not before. I don't verbally escalate.
No "I wanna kiss you", "I wanna take you home" blablaba, I'm not giving her any signs verbally that things are moving forward, I'm gonna escalate purely physically. A lot of guys wanna talk dirty to a girl, wanna bring out sexual subjects, wanna ask permission to kiss, I'm not gonna do any of that. If I wanna mention anything sexual it'll be downtime in cheek. The reason is, any guy that verbalizes, she then knows what's on your mind. Non-verbally, slightly hedge, whereas verbally, you're fully invested. Make her like "I wonder if he wants to kiss me" etc. Cos as soon as you verbalize it's like "oh he wanna kiss me do I wanna kiss him", or "oh he likes me do I like him", etc. "oh he wanna take me home and have sex with me, do I wanna do that with him" And thats not what you want. You want her to wonder and to want it from you. Can also deal with objections in tongue and cheek romantic way. Girl says: -huuumm I can imagine that you must be a player, you must have loads of girls -baby, you know that's not true, you know you're the only girl for me this is a girl I've just met. But I'll do that and imagine what's going on. I might run into something I know, and say hey this is my new gf, don't we look good together, hey this is my new fiance, blablabla I'll call her, sweetie, pumpkin, baby, etc. Done early, but safe. If you constantly give a girl tongue and cheek romanticism, she'll want the real romanticism eventually. Promote feelings of safety, the fact that I'm gonna be there for her. All done tongue and cheek. Like when it's cold, "oh baby take my coat, I'll protect her" blablabla. Third convo element. My favorite, The irresistible asshole. Setting yourself up as the badboy guy, but not really serious.
Totally unpredictable, making her laugh, creating attraction. If you look at my responses, it's never the standard expected response. It also shows a lot of confidence cos it's not safe. It requires balls. Gives her a unique experience that she's never had with other guys. Ex: She's talking -shut up! She's talking, telling you she's not easy, you're answering, "oh no.. you're not easy? but even with a few drinks? Hey have you ever meet one of those asshole guys that sleeps with all the girls, and that never calls again? -no -well, I'm one, nice to meet you blablabla One of my worst thing my bf did was once we were on a date tryna seduce other girls -oh amazing, what a baller! -oh nooooo! I just have this friend who sleeps with all the guys -well what's her name? -Shanya -You've got her number? -hahaha -is she on facebook? What's your name? Shanya Oh bob! Come, hey come on meat Nikolai from pussy.com! -oh my...
You know what? your skin is so soft. Like a slug! -...hahah thanks... i really really like your shirt
-of course you do you're only human -yea... it's nice though -yeah obviously Again, not the traditional response, she's expecting a compliment, you're not giving one back.
You know what, you look totally amazing -thanks! -almost like a female version of me! -where are you from btw -Australia -oh I'm really sorry to hear that You look different! You've shaved your pussy! -..... hahaha
If you wanna be like a real irresistible asshole, you're coming close to the girl, leaning for the kiss, then, smirky kinda disgusted face, lean back, "it's like kissing my mum!"
The fourth element of play in my conversation, is one of Honesty. 2 previous elements, like tongue and cheek romanticism and irresistible asshole, show deviations of what's expected, that you're not really serious. If do solely that, you're like the guy who's not really serious, can't connect with him, and that might be fine in some situations but something nice to include would be honesty. Honesty. If you ask me a question, I can use tongue and cheek romanticism, irresistible asshole, play it up, but after that you have to be honest, you know, honestly, I am dating a few girls, but I'm a guy that can be monogamous. And I really like having girlfriends. When I meet a girl I like, I don't cheat on her, I treat her really well, but in the meantime I'll be honest, I'll say if I'm dating other girls, etc, and everyone will know the whole situation. When you say something like that, she'll believe it. Sometimes it's nice to be honest. Otherwise if too evasive she might think you have something to hide.
Or for example, for the architect example, if she says she wanna be an architect and you say "oh why don't you be a strip tease" . So you first are the irresistible asshole but then you are honest like, hey, no but seriously, this is really cool, blablabla and throw a question about it, while being interested. Means she never knows when it's gonna come. Not gonna be able to pin you down. She's gonna trust you cos once you do it she connects with you. Guys mess up when trying to be funny all the time. Good to first spark attraction, but then switch to honest. To build connection and trust. Third element Multi Level Communication. Verbal/non verbal. Verbal, pretty playing Non verbal: sexual Girls have a good girls part, and a bad girls part. Good girl: i don't wanna seem to easy, my girls see me, blablabla bad girl: haven't had sex in a few weeks, wanna sleep with that guy, I wanna kiss him blablabla ML communication: way of removing the no. ex: oh yeah, so what you're doing tomorrow. blablaba, watching a film oh yeah? what kind of film? chicks film? oh yeah that's cool! yeah i've seen a couple that I've like. Sometimes I'm not surprised but sometimes I like them blablabla meanwhile, caressing her back, moving in closer, her neck. In short, boring verbal conversation, that doesn't provoke the no, but you've got the non verbal going on, that increases the sexual tension. What this means is: You can escalate non verbally more than you would if you did both together. If I'm being very poker face in my verbal game I'm able to do many things non verbally. (personal note: reminds me of 60YOC)
The other thing that it deals with is the worry about other people in the room. You were watching this and you didn't know what was going on before. She knows that. So she'll accept it. Allows you to do very cool stuff. What women like is when you can escalate in public but in a way where other people can't see. Under the table, etc. You can use ML communication to do very crazy stuff. You can be talking with other people and you can touch her bum. And no one will know. You can even put your hand up her skirt, down her jeans, you can do that, and if you do it slowly, and you seem to have a cool interaction with everyone else, she's just gonna enjoy the turn on and never feel the need to say no because you're in control and you're being subtle with it. And you're satisfying her nice girl part and her bad girl part. Reason why it works is she can't see you being too excited about it, like a pervert, also you don't seem to attached, kinda poker face, like it's no big deal. I was in a situation, in a party, with 2 girls that I'd had never kissed before, Sitting between 2 girls, one girl, arm play with nipples, other girl leaning forward and my hand with the back of her jeans, and both know what's going on, and look at each other, meanwhile I'm having a normal conversation, with this dude in his hotel room, and he doesn't know what's going on. And they just sit and look at each other like "oh I can't believe this is happening". Those would not let me do that if we were the only people in the room. And they wouldn't let me do it if it was a fool communication. It's called ML communication, it splits, because my non verbal is a 100% escalation, my verbal is 0, so it balances it out. They would not let me do it if I was like "yeah baby you like it don't you huh" They wouldn't like that it's dirty. 4- Stealth Arousal Kino stuff Sleazy kino Create real spikes in arousal. Never has been done to her before, very sexual, implying the same elements of playfulness, secrecy and confidence.
You might be talking to a girl, and you wanna wait to touch her boobs, so drink, brush past, arm touch her boobs while drinking, with back of my hands, there's quite a lot of contact there. Can do it with the drink... or touching your face, or whatever. Incidentally brush past. You can also be leading her and brush the boobs with the back of your hands. 1st time shell pay no attention, 2nd time shell wonder and 3rd time shell be like omg whats happening, beat rate increasing, etc, she starts getting excited Also when you take her hand, to dance, you grab her hand, but your first touch misses, so touches her pussy area first then grabbing the hand. If she does look at me, I'm not getting of af it, ambiguous whether I'm doing it voluntarily, kinda smirk, light smirk. Leg between her legs. Lots of incidental touching. If girls in jeans, quite close, talking to her, hand somewhere around her shoulder, a slight squeeze around the shoulder and other hand laying on her belt undoing her jeans at the same time. In 95% of the time the girl won't notice you undo her jeans because of the distraction pressure you apply to her shoulder. Works, have done it 20-30 times. The next step, is to lift up the zip, cause when it's in the down position, it's locked, but when it's in the up position, it's free. So you wanna lift up the zip, then might leave it up again for a bit, then undo the zip. Most girls don't wear belts, so easy to do. Then put your hands in the back of her jeans. Girl train station police officer example, never happened to her before. It's like the old pick pocket trick. Creates a sexual spike, shows a lot of confidence, but funny. Not sleazy. Touch her jeans, oh, is it the same material? while touching her and her ass. etc. oh you have something on your jeans, first safe, trying to clean it, then caressing it slowly... She's gonna put your hand away soon but with a smile
IF she's not wearing jeans, probably wearing a dress. Giving her a unique experience. Raise her nickles, take hold and draw them below. Tryna remove them. Not gonna be able to do it, but. You're just demonstrating here that you're a sexual guy, and doing something that's quite crazy. No one else in the room is aware of. If you can grab thru the dress that area, gonna be stimulating. No guy does that. When you're doing it you're playful with it. Something else Non ambiguous touch. You can talk to a girl for half an hour, touch her a lot, but she might not get the idea that it's sexual. Few touches very easy to execute. Hand caressing, she has a few different responses, first is reciprocate, means ready for the kiss, other means shes okay with it, worst possible response is she does this, like remove her hand and caress her arm. Another non ambiguous touch Again, these all fall in the category where they're sexual, not massive escalation, but give you a very clear answer to whether she's sexually interested or not, second one is the leg touching. With your legs. If shes not into it its just a simple step away, she's not gonna slap your face. Goal is you get a very clear answer with a very small escalation. Some other things I like to do if I'm in the club. I'm talking to the girl, I pull her into the corner, I put myself and I pull her with my leg around her it looks like she's into me, she's putting her weight onto you cause you're putting her off balance, you're controlling her but not in a physical dominant way, you're using your legs not your hands, so for her it could be quite a turn on moment, but you're not really physically controlling something that she could object to. Also, taking her hand like your examining it, but then pinch her against the wall like a sexual position though she realizes this at the last moment. Done playfully with a funny tongue and smirk.
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DISC 3 5- STEALTH EXTRACTION The final step. Getting the girl home. No chance of rejection, done nice and smoothly. Transitions that I used. Logistical in nature Who you're here with, what time did you get here, what are you doing later, blablaba. Something to bear in mind, is that the girl is NOT gonna live the club with you 99% of the time if she just got there. She wants to dance, relax, have a few drinks, and THEN, get home with you. If she gets there at 11 pm, she doesn't wanna leave at 11:30. A lot of this game is gonna be applied after the 1st hour. You're probably gonna look at most of your extractions happening between 1 and 2 o'clock. In a club opened usually from 11 and late. Sometimes when the club closes. After done my logistics, she might have no plans for later, (mental note that I need to set those plans and get her to agree to them) or she might have plans for later. (ie go to another club). -hijack them and change those plans like go to somewhere else -agree that it's a good thing to do and sidetrack her along the way Ex: says goes to movie I say : bad idea, go to another club, give her a bunch of reasons, like "oh it's straight tonight", "have you been to this club it's awesome..." etc get her to agree, and when it comes to leaving, we're gonna drop past my house. Couple of drinks on the way to this place. If it's the club she originally wanted to go to, we're gonna do the same thing, drop for home for some drinks and THEN go to the club. Of course in most cases you wanna never have that happen. You wanna just stay in the house. Once you get there. Avoid the trigger words.
Not "my house", "my place", etc. Say "house party". Nice to do. Setting some seeds for the house party little bit before you're trying to extract. You wanna say that later you're gonna go to a house a party. When it comes to the actual extraction, you wanna do it in a very smooth way so that she almost doesn't realize what she's agreeing to. "oh we're gonna go to this house party, it's gonna be so much fun, blablabla, you like having fun don't you?" What does she say... Yes. "okay cool! Do you need to finish your drink first? Do you have anything in the cloakroom. Do you need to tell your friends?" What you're doing is you're getting her to agree to comeback by just agreeing that she's fun. You're then distracting and asking the questions, so she's like, "do I have to finish my drink" "do I have anything in the cloakroom?" "do I need to tell my friends?" And she's not thinking anymore about whether she's going back to your house with you, she's thinking "what do I need to do here before I leave". The formula there is. -Suggest the things you're gonna do -Reasons it's gonna be good "oh you like house music? Yeah we've got a nice DJ he got the best house music, just some dude with an iPod. So he's got the best house music. You're gonna love it. You do love house music, right?" Yeah "oh yeah cool. Do you wanna finish the drink, or ...." So you're getting her to agree to something that she'll agree with every single time. Put yourself in that position and think of the things you could have done wrong. "hey do you wanna come to this after party at my house?" sure it's gonna work sometimes, but it's not gonna work every time.
Even worse, "do you wanna come back to my house?" Slightly better "do you wanna come have a couple more drinks?" You're getting to this after party. Just leaving the club, with a girl, who barely knows you. She might be thinking damn I don't know that guy well, I don't know where I'm going, who else is going to be at this after party? Fake phone call (to your friends) "hey mate, how you're doing, so you're gonna come down? Alright cool, who you're with? Sarah, who else, oh Michelle and Steve? Oh yeah, amazing. How long will you be? (watch your watch) Alright, perfect, send me a text when you're outside, yea I'll see you in about 25 minutes then. (pause, as if the caller is speaking) Yeah, wine is good, yeah wine is gonna be okay, yeah okay cool, bring some wine. Yeah alright man. See you later." You're going back, but there's more people coming. You get back to the house, just 2 of you. Just her friends and your friends. If there's a group. And then, you get the text message, oh, no, they've gone somewhere else, or they've car crashed, or he's tired, it doesn't matter, they're not coming. So the after party is just you guys. So when you think of extraction, it's not gonna be a big drum roll moment. You're finding out her plans in advance, so you're never gonna say "come back to my house" and she's gonna say "oh no I wake up early", "my friends stay with me, I'm the only one with key, she's lost her phone, and it's gonna be back at 2 so I have to be there to let her in, and I have to feed my cat, and I've got a flight at 5 in the morning". That's not gonna happen. You're gonna know the situation, and lead into it so smoothly that all she's really agreeing, is she's a fun person, she likes having a good time, and willing to spend more time with you. If you layer this on top of the verbal game, the non verbal game and everything you've done in the whole interaction, showing honesty, that when you're being sexual, you're not sleazy with it, trying to stalk her when she says no, but you're cool, casual, take it or leave it, a lot of fun. So she's gonna be fine going back with you. Something quite nice that you can do: do a little fishing. And see what you can use as a way to get a girl back. "are you hungry?" "no" "oh okay, anyway, blablabla" change subjects.
If she says yes, say "ow me to". I'll tell you what, we've gotta get some food in a minute, do you wanna finish your drink first, and then we're gonna get some food. What kind of food do you like? Do you like this, this and this? Alright perfect. You're gonna love it. She's not coming back to your house for sex now she's going back for food. So if you can think of things that you can throw out there and then see if she bites, and if she doesn't you haven't lost anything, if she does you've got your perfect excuse to get her back. Then you'll be doing really well. Again, you're not gonna use any trigger words, not gonna say "come back to my place for food", you'll say "let's go and get some food". She won't know until you're walking or until you're in the taxi on the bus, or however you're gonna get home, in your car, she's not gonna know until that happens where you're going. And then you just play it off. Then you say. Oh yeah I'm a really good cook, I'm gonna cook you this this and this. Can you cook? So she's like "errr oh noooo, hmmm, what's going on.." "oh I'm distracted. Can I cook or not? Oh let me answer that question." That's what you do. Don't enter into a debate about it. You're gonna answer the question and then distract. And LEAD the interaction. If at this point you've let her lead it. Where are we going? Back to my house. Oh really? I thought we were getting some food? Yeah but... BAAAAD. That's what's gonna happen if you let her lead it. But, if you keep distracting and leading, she won't have time for that negative thought pattern to build up, and it'll be very easy for her to accept what's going on and go along with it. So there we have it. 5 step process, that when you go out, is gonna work in the toughest environments, is gonna involve, raising you value in really easy way, you're not gonna be rejected you're gonna walk around with total confidence, you're gonna have a swagga , cause nothing can go wrong. You're gonna be opening in a really subtle way. Those high pressure long walk ups that are real coin tosses that can go either way that can really really good, really really bad, they're not happening anymore. You're getting accepted on your approach much higher percentages of the time because you're not triggering any of the negative responses. You're giving the woman something different. You're showing confidence, and playfulness, and qualities that she doesn't normally meet in guys that approach her. When you're in there, you're gonna be using conversational game, that ticks all the boxes, doesn't have any of the weaknesses, and means you're having a lot of fun. Cause you're having fun. You come across as not too serious, not too invested, can take it or leave it, high status, etc... making her react to you. She can't take control of the conversation, you're unpredictable,
she's gonna tell her friends about you. Emotional roller coaster for her, at the same time micro escalation going on. Escalation happening so smoothly that there's no way that you're gonna have a big rejection. You don't have to be worried about it. You use multi level communications to get away with things you normally wouldn't be able to get away with. And then you bring out the big guns and you're doing your sleazy funny kinos. And you're doing the other things that build massive sexual interest. Stealth arousal, things that set a huge memory in her mind, that probably never gonna happen to her again in her life, and she might have been to the clubs 100s and 100s of times and you're gonna do 10 or 12, 15 things that she's never had done to her before. She will NOT forget that night. And then, when it comes to taking her home, she could be easy, kind of girls that goes home with lots of guys, but if she's not, you might be the first guy that successfully gets her home. You're gonna be the one that's so under the radar that you're gonna be able to do it right away. When all the other guys would fail. So that's the 5 steps process. Some things that come up, questions I get asked, guys wonder if there's anything differently you should do either if you can't close the girl that night or if you wanna build a bit more connection, and there really is. You might get some numbers, but not the girls. It's very easy to kiss 10 girls, get 10 phone numbers, and then have them all flake. Very easy for that to happen. If you leave the girl on a sexual high point, and that's her interaction with you, and then you reengage with her, whether by phone or text, and then she's not that point anymore cause she's not been drinking and it's the daytime, and she's not dressing sexy, she's not feeling sexy, she won't meet you again. So, for the girls that you meet that you wanna take on a date, take slightly different route. You can kiss her, on the dance floor. Back off, discuss with her, build some memories, if run out of things to say, kiss her again, then back off, cos it's very easy have that conversation after you've sexually escalated. Easier to do that after than before. MORALS. There's no girl out there that hates me. However, if you game a girl a 100%, get her and don't see her again, she could be thinking that. If you wanna sleep with 7 girls a week, you can do that, but you have to be moral about it. But leave out a few things in your game. She shouldn't know too much about you. You shouldn't
know to much about her. There shouldn't be too much of a connection. Remove a lot of the honesty component. Tell her that you're leaving the country soon, or that you're dating other girls and don't wanna settle down. You don't wanna have any false hopes or use that as a reason to get her into bed. If your game is so good that you can blow away an average girl, she's gonna wanna see you again. So don't give her 100%. Give her just enough. If she's giving you IOIs, you don't need to work hard anymore. If you look at everything I do, I only apply all parts of it for girls who are incredibly confident, has loads of options, and stuff going on, has high standards and is used to guys that have a lot of the qualities I'm demonstrating. Not all of them, but a lot of them. That's the only time I'd apply all of that game. If I met the girl who was slightly lacking in confidence, not the most beautiful girl in the room, but I wanted to sleep with her, she might get 50% of what I can do. As soon as I see the point, I'm getting the IOIs, she's interested, she's not going anywhere, I don't need to be funny, I don't need to be the irresistible asshole. I don't to do the most smooth kinos. I don't need to even hold constant eye contact. I wanna control all of that and back it off a bit. And keep it at the level where it's good enough. She'll sleep with that guy and she'll enjoy it, but she won't fall in love with him. She won't desperately wanna see him again. So if he's honest about it, and upfront, she's not gonna miss him that much. When you're applying this stuff, don't just do it as an ego thing, tryna get the strongest possible response, just do what is necessary. And, what I'm hoping, is that with experience it will help you find what you want and then find the girl that you really like. Because that's generally what I use it for. I feel like I can game in any situation, and it's thru that experience of doing it a lot, that allows me to find a girl and stay with her. Bonuses BONUS 1 - STEALTH DAY-GAME I can get EVERY SINGLE GIRL giving me IOIS. while walking down the street. Walk past the girl, don't look at her, then small movement, playful expression, she sees it. On your phone. Women will feel more comfortable looking at you while you're on your phone than without. You walk with someone, discuss while looking at him, then watch her, then look at your friend, while continually discussing. She'll feel more open. 99% of women that will past you.
---I've got a chilled out vibe. How do I open a whole group. Group of girls, loud and noisy, curious face, chill, and then "I'm just wondering". You can come above their energy, but you can also kill their energy and be at the same level. In some ways takes more confidence to do that. Empty glass slow example, there's no way they're gonna be shouting and high energy. Your movement is gonna stand out to them, slow and hypnotic, their heads are gonna turn to you, it's gonna be really high impact but without the high energy. BONUS 2 - Q AND A -Once you have her attention, how do you talk to her? Walking, couple steps backwards, or walking, and turn back and walk along couple meters with her and get her to stop. You might even run after her. But you know it's gonna work cos you've already got that positive response. EXTRACTION question If I didn't live somewhere nice in central London, let's say an hour away, go to the club, there's a guy spending 5 grands. He's either got a suite in a hotel or a big house. No way he lives where I do. I'll go up to him and befriend him, I like your suit, I've got a drink so it's obvious I'm not gonna get a drink off him. Get his name, nice to meet you. I'm with some girls, I'll introduce them to you later. Then I'm gonna go and gonna game as usual, I'm gonna meet this girl with her friends, come and meet my friends, bring her over to meet to this rich dude, you know how rich guys are usually arrogant and stuff, well this guy, not only is he super rich, he's a very nice guy, genuine guy, plus he's got a lovely house, like the really famous after-parties. 50 cent went there, Paris Hilton goes. He's greeted by girls that are very happy to see him. He's not used to that. He's standing there with his ego, not knowing how to cold approach.
You'll feed him girls on a plate. Then you'll say is it okay if we get them back to your place? Then you're gonna do your things, the after-party it at his house, you're going to some nice mansion. You can do it all in one night, but if you've got enough game to go stealth on the girls then you can easily have this rich buddy. Next day he's gonna remember you, call you, etc. And you can probably move in with him and stay in one of his 25 bedrooms. -If you're using a familiarity opener, is there a fun way to deal with the questions "how do you guys know each other?" yes. Sometimes, I'm talking to a girl and her friend comes in. She assumes we know each other. "oh how do you know each other?" "we went to school together, she used to bully me!" That's my usual one. "we go way back". You might not guess that this would happen, but in 90% of cases the girl goes along with it and elaborates with story, then you've got another point of secrecy, another secret communication where only you 2 know the real truth. -Some guys recommend going out with an overtly sexual frame. Do you recommend doing that? No, I think, if you say to the girl, "my Good I think you're fucking beautiful, you're the hottest girl I saw tonight, and I would do dusty things to you", shows a lot of confidence, but not an easy frame to go along with. Leaves little to no imagination. Shows that you wanna get laid. At the end of the day she holds that power. Better to escalate while keeping a poker-face, keeps her excited and on surprise. Non verbally more powerful than verbally. -You were talking about the super hot, said you should ignore her, how do you open her? So she's there, you're gonna ignore her, you're not gonna directly look at her, you're gonna notice her peripherally, you gonna have your back to her, you're gonna do value raising things in front of her, where possible. Talking to other girls, using IOIs stacking, movie star effect, getting girls to be checking you out and things like that, and then you might casually open her like "hey I'm trying to dance, can you give me a bit more room? I'm Richard BTW". Something casual, Open her, tactile opening. Generally you wanna create the value in front of her and then make it a very casual way that you're opening her. -while you were developing all this stealth stuff, did you ever get caught? Got a bit too far and the girl "hey what are you doing?"
I think I've always been someone that didn't feel like I was pushing the limit sexually. I started by not touching girls at all, and then I'd touch her on their arms and things like that, as long as the touch is quite light, and the escalation done smoothly, you're always gonna know. For example, if you're pulling a girls hair strongly she'll either go "hey what are you doing!!!" but if you go slowly caressing her hair she'll lightly remove it if she doesn't like it or go "hmmmm" and keep it. That gives you the answer you need. Never gonna be a harsh rejection. Never slapped. Because I'm very sensitive to where she's out. If you see the 100 escalation as the top of the mountain, the best way to get there is not brusquely, but smoothly while continuously checking her responses -Let's say you've opened the set, gone really well, then cock-blocking friend comes in, what do you do? First they think we know each other, so they don't cock-block. They've seen that girl's response, which gives me a few minutes, so because I approach prime, because I approach with familiarity, they give us that minute, they still might get irritated after that time that the girl is talking to someone, but by that point I've done enough to get in there and get to the point where she'd get rid of them. So I can honestly say that them coming in has not been a problem. You've also from her point of view is gonna be more polite, if the guy's getting a good response. Something that I do is early on in the night, I'm not gonna try to get a girl away from her friends or take too much of her time or do any of that stuff. She's just arrived to the nightclub. She's gonna be chatting to people, flating around, having fun, and I don't wanna get in the way too much. So I might have a one minute conversation here and then I'll leave it to it. For the next couple of hours, she's thinking why didn't he chat me up, what's he doing, why is he talking to those other girls, what's going on, and then, after she's had fun, and danced, and done all that stuff, I can reopen. And you can always reopen a girl that's been nice to you and reacted well and it's gonna go perfectly. So I'm carefully my timing, I'm using approach priming and familiarity, and when you're getting good enough they just disappear anyway. (the friends) More generally, the friends look, and they see that things are looking really good, they just leave up to it. -You've opened her and she's in the group, would you then open up to them and talk to them or just go away or talk to them another time? Different types of girls. Girls who's with a promoter, or with her really close friends. Depends on the situation. I wanna keep a little bit secrecy. Let's say we've secretly been dating, or been to school together. So that their friends think that we got much more history than we actually do. I don't think it benefits the interaction greatly to meet the friends, cause the friends are judging you based on how it looks to them. So if they see you talking to a girl and she's getting awkard face, they're thinking "eww... gotta rescue her"
but if they see the girl reacting very positively, they're happy that she's fine and they assume that things are going very well. BONUS 3 - SOCIAL DOMINATION Building a fantastic lifestyle. Came years ago. Getting some results, but only social circle were other PUAs. Didn't have access to the most beautiful women cause didn't have access to the places. One day I started doing things differently. Within first month I got things sorted. Social circle with cool guys, hot female friends that I met out with, would introduce me to other girls, etc. Building a Social Circle: "his friends are cool, female friends too, he must be a cool guy". Female friends delivered girls to me. Literally. Just because of the introduction. Find role models. Steve, and Alex. Mindset shift. Imagine going in a room, 40 pua dudes, you could do that, found the guys that were the coolest, approached the guys that had slept with 100+ women. Approached them and was incredibly nice. Almost gamed him. Just with the view of hanging out with him, around me, and learn so much from him. Ask him for a drink, perhaps not working. Ask for lunch, better chance. Cos these guys have busy lives. I wanted to hang out with people who would totally outclass me. Role Models Male Friends. annoying guy, friend with a girl, gave him a chance, chat him up, invited him and his girl to my house for couple more drinks, Alex. Also, club promoter, made friends with him. One night, 2 very good friends and connections, I did something that dramatically improved my life.
Make the effort. Example of meeting a guy with good game, we winged each other that time instead of competing, allowing us to get 2 girls. Female Friends Done 1000s of approaches. No social circle. Really weird. I met a girl that became my good friend till today, in the month that followed, made a bunch of female friends that I'm still friends till this day, that have got me laid tons of times, I've gone out with tons of times, and it was a huge fact of making my life better. And all it took was a simple shift. When in club, can have a tunnel vision, like girl for some reason is not attractive, or you can't seduce her in that moment. Be more sociable, talk to more women, if woman cool, fun, female friends, I also started thinking, maybe I can be friends with this girl and meet her again. Much easier to make a female friend than sleep with a girl. Girls want male friends, cause they can give them anything boyfriends give them, minus the stress. Sexual tension, banter, attraction, but, also, guy that can be relied on, there to look after them, make sure they get home safely, that everything goes smoothly. They want the male energy around them. Just as you want female energy. Really appealing to them. If you had 5 female friends, you wouldn't have any problems getting laid. As long as you can escalate. Cause you'd be introduced to women all the time. Every time you'd go out they'd be with different friends. You will be introduced and immediately accepted by that female friend. Much more easily game her but also just make friends with her and expand the circle. It got to the point where one night, I brought 36 women to the club, all on my own. Just meeting all of them, and sent them a text one day and all answered and came to the club together. So, I was in this great situation, where all the women in the club were seeing me with all those girls because I wasn't trying to get sex with them. The best situation to game from is when You've been with female friends all day and been with that female energy, relaxed around hot women, relaxed about their psychology. Take a different approach and it'll help you in tons of ways. And very easy to do. NEXT Getting access, Moving up the levels this took me ages to learn
if in NYC, London, else, there will be a party were all the models go, then afterparty. Few ways to get access to those social circles. The Staff Find somewhere who is the lowest end of this guest list clubs Facebook group, or call up, guest list, "my friend said I had to visit club XYZ when I was in London (or whatever town you're in), can you put me on the guest list?" whatever it takes to get on the guest list. Turn up, Come early soon after the club opens, be very polite, don't go with a bunch of guys, you either come on your own or with women or at most one guy that looks the part. You're gonna pay to get in, but you're gonna get in. Once inside, you can start your work. Rich guys spending money girls the staff One person, the club promoter, you wanna get in with. Young guy, surrounded by tons of women. 10, 20, 30 and no guys. Are you a promoter? Oh cool, I was about to come up next week, and a bunch of my female friends come up, can I put them on your guest list? They'll always say yes cause they get a fee for each girl they bring to the club. And it's a tough business, they gotta send text messages all week to tryna get women to come to the club, and if someone is offering them like this it's like offering him free money. Get his number or business card. Then next week, you're gonna have access to the club on his guest list. But, before then, all you need to do is find 3, 4, 5 women that you can take. You can go to a crappy bar that night, approach 4 women, chat to them, and then go up to say "where are you headed later?", "why don't you go out and check this club with me?" It is quite easy to rounded up a few women to come up with you when you're doing it in a friendly way, not a pick up way and just tryna pick them up to this club. So, you wanna get in with the promoter, and one way to move up the levels is to see what other clubs and nights he promotes. Normally, the lowest level promoter will promote a slightly better place on an off night. A guy might promote a 2 good night and one less good night. There's so many nights to promote that sometimes the less fashionable clubs will pay more so the promoters are happy to work there as well, but might also promote a better club on another night of the week. He's gonna have some access generally so he's a good friend to have. Getting in with the promoter is fantastic, you can roll into the club with them, the girls you bring and invite out
are getting free entry and free drinks, so it's a great way to get a girl to see you again when you close her on that, this guy is gonna be really happy with you because you're bringing women into the club, and him money. You're gonna share his girls cause he's got way too many. The Money The rich guys drinking champaign On a table. Paid a minimum of $500, $1000. Give him a compliment. Cool shoes man. Ok nice to meet you, great to meet you what's your name. Ok. Great to meet you Marc. Listen, I have some female friends, I'll come and introduce you some to you later. Then go around the club and game women. Then, say to a group of women "Listen my friend Mark's other there, and I'm a bit worried about him. He's ordered waaay too many drinks and I think he's gonna get totally drunk. So can you come and help us drink some? BTW, he's super super rich, but he's actually a nice guy. Yeah, he's got all the Ferrari and all stuff but he's actually a really cool guy I think you're gonna like him he's not one of this arrogant rich guys. So nice DHV intro for him, then come up to him "Marc, come meet my friends, this is Sarah, Michelle and Jenny" "Hey guys this is Marc, super nice guy, such a nice guy". You're gonna introduce him and let him talk. And he should offer the girls a drink. If he doesn't, you can say "hey mate, is it alright to pour the girls a drink?" and he should say yes. What he's gonna see is that these beautiful women hopefully, coming over with big smiles on their faces, coming over to him, so making it really easy for him, they've been DHV intro by you and you've already got in with the group, and so, they're gonna give him the time of the day, they're gonna talk to him. IF he did a cold approach, that probably wouldn't happen. In this moment, really great situation. Girls, get them to a table and get them drinks. Give them a kind of solidify your relationship. They're not gonna run back to another promoter or table because you're taking them to one. Next Step Find where he lives (probably big house, mansion or suite in a hotel) Shall we get the girls back to your place for an after-party? And then do what it takes to get these girls back. In most cases, he's not gonna know what to do. So you're gonna be the one that is better socially. The guy that holds things together, and you're gonna have your choice of the girls. You're getting back to his house, have a party and hopefully sleep with one of these girls in one of his 25 spare bedrooms. Next time he wants to go out, does he wanna go out with you? Yes.
You wanna say: What are you up later in the week? -oh, I'm going out on Thursday, and Friday, definitely come out with us. We're gonna go here and there blablabla. Next time you're going in, you're gonna go with a rich guy. The club manager will come over and spend time with this guy and make sure he's happy. People will look after him, all of the staff will look after him. During the week, you can be talking to women and say, "well listen, my friends got a table at this club, come out with us, it's gonna be really really cool". Then ask him "do you mind if I bring a few girls" of course he's gonna love it, that's why he's in the club spending money and showing off anyway because he wants women to come over to him and they're just not gonna do it, he's got too much ego or not enough game to do the approach himself. You're gonna connect him with the girls, you're getting the girls free drinks, free entry at a table, you're offering the guy women. So you're giving everyone what they want. You're now in with a rich guy. Never-mind great networking possibilities and all that, just think about how cool it is to have the VIP treatment and live like a millionaire but without spending a penny? The Girls Comes back to what I said on Social circle of female friends. They need to trust you, feel safe around you, feel that you'll look after them. In the club, you're offering girls Free entry, free drinks, table with rich guys/promoter, and tons of stuff if they come out with you. Cause lots of rich guys are sleazy, but girls still want their free drinks, champaign and free entries. So they put up with it. If you're there, and you're kinda looking after them in a respectful way, then you become the social hub and the person that they need around. You get to the point where girls start texting you and any weekend I've got this going on "what are you up to tonight, do you wanna come, are you going here, where are you going, we'll come with you, blablabla" Cause these girls have more fun than with these guys on their own, they just don't really trust them. So you move up the levels by going to this first club and finding the people that go to the better ones. And going there with them. Is a rich guy, is the girl, is the promoter. You go up to the next level. In that place, you got people that go to the next level, and so forth. When you get to the very top, you're at a point where these people are going to a multimillion dollar house afterward for an after-party, really exclusive membership clubs where there is no guest list, you have to be a member or a known face to get in.
Going to these amazing pre-parties, clubs and after-parties, a lot of those guys get free dinners cause they bring beautiful girls to restaurants. You can do that. In a nutshell, it's some real practical to build some social circle, going out there, and having access to the best places, and that's really how it's done, I've tried to do it in the most distilled, practical way. You can make some mission to meet some female friends tonight.
