The wounded mind
All of us are masters, we have hav e the power to create and rule our own lives We master whatever we believe we are How do you apply your power? What kind of mastery do you have? After practice, you can become a master of«anger, jealousy, sadness, selfself -rejection -rejection All our drama and suffering comes from practice = mastery Human mind is sick with a disease called fear (anger, hate, sadness, envy and hypocrisy Denial system ± ± mask / restricts restricts restric ts yourself yourself yours elf ± ± the dre dream am of hell hell Hook attention ± ± dom domes domestication esti tica cati tion on ± ± need to be be accepted accepted accep ted A man and a woman make an image of what wh at they want to be
The loss of innocence
Emotional
Alarm system ± ± fear fear ± ± domesticate dom do mes esti tica cate te ± ± injustice inju in jussti tice ce
body ± ± tu tune tuned ned d to to lov llove ovee
Hook the attention ± ± emotional emoti em otiona onall poison poison poiso n is is transferred / released
We punish ourselves
All the beliefs that make us suffer suffer ± ± parasite par aras asit itee
We are never going to be perfect
The man that didn¶t believe in love
Love
is like a drug Possessive Provider manipulate vs. addiction Fear relationship based on control Afraid to be alone ± ± end endure ure the suff ssuffering ufferi ering ng Met ³love doesn¶t exist´ Vulnerable ± ± se self selfishness lfis ishn hnes esss Put the star in her hands ± ±d doubt oubt ±overwhelming ± overwhelming Making someone else responsible for happiness Exchange rings?
The track of love, the track of fear
± fea fearr Emotions ±
(95%) (95%) and lov lovee (5%) (5%)
Characteristics: love has no obligations, no resistance, no expectations, based on respect, ruthless, have compassion, responsible, kind, generous, unconditional Track of love = justice You are only responsible for your half in the relationship
The perfect relationship
You are what you are ± ± be be honest honest wit with h yourself yourself yoursel f
Love
The right one? Don¶t need to change c hange
Closely aligned ± ± a key key in in a lock lock loc k
Don¶t invent in people what is not there
Love
Relationship is an art ± ± ½ ½
Service ± ± sselfelf -love -love
someone just just the way he / she is
and accept yourself just the way you are
The magical kitchen
You already have all the love you need We can¶t see that love ± rrisk isk Love hurts ± Self--love Self -love before you can love someone else Searching for someone to control and an d manipulate ± ± se self selfish lfis ish h We reject ourselves for not being perfect Most wonderful relationship: with yourself Be happy alone ± ± ref refuse use to to beg for for love love What makes you happy is love coming out of you Generosity will open up all the doors
The dream master
You are responsible for the consequences of whatever you do, say or feel
The mastery of transformation
Control your reactions ± ± ch chan change ange ge your your rou rroutine outi tine ne
Once you have awareness, you have a choice
Be responsible for your own life
Accept yourself just the way you are ± ± selfself love
Sex,
the biggest demon in hell
Sex is the biggest sin Beliefs about sex ± ± gu guil guilt, ilt, t, sha sshame ham me Believe a lot of lies about sex The need is in the mind = love Split needs: body vs. mind What am I? Trauma shows you what you are not Identity: a force (life)
The divine huntress
Artemis ± ± ap apol apologize olog ogiz izee Hunt to fulfill our needs Hunt for love ± ± don don¶t ¶t love love ourselves ourselv ours elves es Other humans don¶t have what we need Hunt inside yourself Difficult prey ± ± everyt everything hing can distract distractt you distrac you Surrender yourself yourself ± ± hunte hunterr (pred (predator) ator) = parasite parasite (judge - selfself -abuse) -abuse) Hunt every reaction you have = become a warrior
Seeing
with eyes of love
Apologize / say I¶m sorry Mind abuses the body ± ± co conc concepts ncep epts ts ± ± we bel b believe elie ieve ve th them em If you can accept your own body, you accept everyone Your own opinion is what counts We believe our beauty is our power You are what you believe you are Treat your body with love ± ± a temp te temple mple le of God God Hunt the parasite and make it surrender
Healing
Open the wounds: Use the truth as a scalpel ± ± the truth truth will will set you free free 3 rules:
the emotional body
Don¶t believe me Don¶t believe yourself Don¶t believe anyone else
Clean the wounds: forgiveness± forgiveness ±act act of selfself -love -love Real problem is pride ± ± personal personal perso nal importanc importance importa imp ortance nce e Make a list of everyone you need to forgive: Nothing anyone does, is because of you Self--love Self -love is the medicine the accelerates the process of healing Love yourself, love your neighbor, love your enemies You cannot share what you do not have
