Unlock Your Personal Power! Learn all the stuff they didn’t teach you at school in this special free report.
Written by Aymen Fares
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Table Of Contents
Introduction......................................................................... Introduction........................................... ............................................................ ................................................ .................. 4 Are You Letting Your Thoughts Control You? .......................................................... .................................................................. ........ 6 You Are Not Your Thoughts! ........................................................... ......................................................................................... .................................. .... 8 A Little On O n How Your Mind Works ........................................................... ................................................................................. ...................... 10 Your Will – Your Power! ........................................................................... ................................................................................................. ...................... 13 Your Emotions ......................................................... ....................................................................................... ......................................................... ........................... 16 Who Are You? ........................................................ .................................................................................... ....................................................... .............................. ... 19 Happy and Whole ..................................................................................... ............................................................................................................. ........................ 23 Happy and Whole ..................................................................................... ............................................................................................................. ........................ 23 It’s Fear That Stops You!......................................... You!...................................................................... ......................................................... ............................ 25 Final Words...................................... Words..................................................................... ............................................................. .................................................. .................... 28 Life Coaching......................... Coaching......................................................... .............................................................. .......................................................... .............................. 29 An important point t o remember! ........................................................ ..................................................................................... ............................. 32
Introduction You can do anything you want!
This is a bold statement and it is true. The problem and the reason you fail to achieve your potential is simple. You don’t know how you work. The human being is complex and there is much more to you than your physical body. In order to master life you need to know how you work. In other words you need access to the secret techniques that govern existence and how to use them. A special note if you run a business.
There is a mass of information in the world on how to succeed in running your business. All businesses are just a collection of systems. In my experience working with hundreds of people who own businesses, it is the human element that lets down your business systems. When you understand how you work you will understand how others work. You will see why your business and its systems aren’t at their potential. When you “see”, you will be able to implement changes that explode your profits to higher levels.
This e-book is a collection of extracts from my Key To Life and Spiritual newsletters. This e-book will give you a basic understanding of how you work. For a full and detailed explanation refer to my Key To Life Manual, found here: http://www.KeyToLife.info Remember you can do anything you want. Just learn how, you work!
Here is a quote to start you thinking.
"There is no such thing as failure.
'Failure' is merely an opinion that a given act wasn't done satisfactorily. Being ruled by fear of failure lets you take the easy way out. Rather than accepting the challenge of pursuing a goal, you can scratch it off your list and tell yourself that it is impossible or not worthwhile...
...Life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you never try you can't win, if you do you might." Jack Collis
People often do not try; your fear of failure often holds you back. Subconsciously you can say to yourself that you did not fail. However lack of failure does not mean success.
Overcome your fear:
Set your own standards don't let others make your choices.
Don't try and be perfect at everything, it's unrealistic and will rob you of your enjoyment.
Go head on, do something that you like, yet fear. Start small.
If you think you have failed treat it as a learning experience, you can learn a lot from your experiences.
Are You Letting Your Thoughts Control You? "Every thought you have makes up some segment of the world you see. It is with your thoughts then, that we must work, if your perception of the world is to be changed". A course in miracles.
You have about 50 000 thoughts per day. What are you thinking to create the world you live in? Be aware of your thoughts. This will give you the power to create the environment you want. You are in control whether you like it or not. Accept it!
Many people lead unfulfilled lives.
Are you aware that your thoughts dictate your emotions? The path you follow is decided upon by the thoughts that you have and then follow. Your thoughts make you feel in a certain way.
Emotion comes from your thoughts and emotions are impossible without thoughts preceding them. When an event happens in your life you interpret it based on who you are, your past experiences and the knowledge you have at the time.
Interpret means you start to think. Thoughts appear and this leads you to having emotions based on what you are thinking. The same event may be interpreted differently by you and your neighbor, causing different emotions in each of you.
The first step in making a positive change in your life is being aware of what you think. This sounds easy but how many thoughts do you have each day? I have heard the figure 'fifty thousand' quoted. It is very hard to be aware of all your thoughts; some are so quick and habitual that you can easily miss them.
Once you start to consciously 'catch' your thoughts you may be surprised at how many negative thoughts you have. You may even be shocked at some of the thoughts you have.
Your thoughts are not real they are just thoughts!
You have a choice. You can pursue these thoughts and dwell on them. You can even put them into action. You can also choose to let them travel through and not follow them. You can consciously choose to have positive thoughts. It requires effort, especially at the beginning. It will soon become habit.
Rather than fight your negative thoughts just let them go. Get into the habit of throwing some positive thoughts after them.
Where to start? Next time you are not happy. Take a look at what you are thinking. Just think about something that makes you happy. It's that easy. The past and the future do not exist.
Live in the present moment and create your own uplifting thoughts. Enjoy life rather than constantly thinking about it.
You You Are Are Not Your Your Thoughts! Most people have an identity based upon their mind. This means that you believe you are the thoughts in your head. Everyone thinks in their own certain way. Most people believe that they are these thoughts. 'I am fat' 'I am poor' 'I am unhappy' "I am a carpenter" etc.
These thoughts are not you!
They originate due to external stimuli in your world. They depend on how YOUR mind has interpreted the world around you. An example would be; if there were no thin people then how could you say you were fat? The word fat would not exist.
Your mind compares you to a standard that you decided to accept.
Your mind continually bombs you with thoughts that are based on your past and what you have inherited from your culture. Emotions are similar. Often the emotion, which comes after the thought/s are so charged with energy that you are overwhelmed. You believe that you are the emotion and act accordingly.
Emotions are your reaction to your mind and it's thoughts. None of this is you!
When you actually take the time to catch one or more of your thoughts you discover discover something amazing. Did you you notice notice that that when you do this there are two of you?
If you have gone through this process you must now acknowledge that there is someone there that actually does the catching as opposed to the thinking.
Who is doing the catching?
The answer to this is rather complex and to long for this short article. It is instead contained in The Key To Life Manual.
The manual has all the answers and the techniques that enable you to radically change your life life for the better. better. I urge you to go to the web site http://www.KeyToLife.info http://www.KeyToLife.info and and find out more now.
A Little On How Your Mind Works "The best way to predict the future is to invent it." Alan Kay
You invent the future with every choice you make in every moment of your life. Don't be a victim to unconscious programming. Choose where you are going and make it happen.
One of the best ways you have of improving yourself is by looking into your thought processes. The easiest way to do this is to look at the results in your life.
I mean look at what is happening around you and what is happening to you. This is an easy way for you to change your life because you get instant feedback, just by looking around.
The results you see are the end product of the accumulation of your thoughts. Your thoughts actually carry 'weight' and determine what your world is like. This is not always apparent. We have so many thoughts; most people are unaware of the majority of them.
It is estimated that you have around 50 000 thoughts per day.
Let me explain how your mind works.
You have experiences, through your 5 senses, which are the process of the conscious mind. These experiences are recorded by your subconscious mind.
Your subconscious mind faithfully records everything that happens to you, what you think about it and how you feel about it. Your subconscious mind can't judge the quality of this information it only records it.
If you imagine something that is vivid (vivid means a clear image with depth of emotion), then your subconscious mind treats this as a real life experience and records it as such. Your subconscious mind just records as it sees, it doesn't store past and future with an image. It lives in the present.
What is recorded in your subconscious mind forms your belief system and your Self Image. Your Self Image is the opinion you have about yourself. The image of yourself that you form comes from your accumulated beliefs and the judgments you make in regard to what you can and can't do.
It is the job of a part of your subconscious mind to harmonize your external world with your Self Image. When the two don't match it creates an inner tension and something must change. There are two possibilities for change. Either your external world changes or the tension is reduced. Lets come back to this later! Most people exist and accept what happens to them as their lot in life. They float through life. I say, you can have whatever you wish. How? Just reverse the way you do things.
Look around at your world and see what results you have. Pick something that you wish to change and set a goal.
Setting goals is not a new concept. All successful people have used the concept of goal setting. However less than 3% of the western population set and write their goals.
Setting a goal is putting a new image of what you want into your subconscious.
Lets say you are overweight and you want to be slim. You need to do the following four things.
1. Set the goal. (I want to be slim) 2. Be specific with the goal. (I want to be 70kg.) 3. Write an affirmation. An affirmation is a statement of intent and must be written in the first person, present tense. A statement of intent has more impact if you add emotional words. (I am a stunningly slim 70kg and I look wonderful.)
For a full and detailed explanation of these three things and the fourth and final point please refer to the Key To Life Manual.
You’ll also find a full and detailed discussion on the two things that stop you using one of the most magical sources of creation - your subconscious mind.
The first of these is if you look for the ‘how’. The ‘how’ is never apparent otherwise your goal is too easy. The second thing that stops you is requiring proof before you act. Proof means you have no faith. Without faith you cannot harness your subconscious mind.
Your Your Will – Your Power! The collection of your thoughts and their strength and ability to manifest what the real you desires, is called your will.
Will is your personal power. Your will is the collection of your thoughts. Your thoughts if you have a strong will, enable you to manifest what you desire.
To put it bluntly, you get what you want if you use your will. Many people have not developed their will. In fact many people create situations that weaken their will. One of the easiest and simplest ways to strengthen your will is to set and attain a goal.
Boring you say, we have already covered this! Let's go a little deeper.
Every time you have a thought that goes along the lines of - "I will do..." or "I am going to..." you are actually setting a goal. In other words anytime you say to yourself I am going to do something no matter how small that something is, you are goal setting.
It's like making an appointment with yourself.
"Next week I will..."
The question to ask yourself is do you do it? Do you keep the appointment? It's interesting to observe that most people keep appointments with others yet break the appointment they make with themselves. This is an indicator of your self-respect.
It's your thoughts that create your goals and targets whether you consciously have a part in them or not.
Remember we have already covered that the average person has 50,000 thoughts per day. That's about 2 thoughts per second. Most people are only aware of a few of their thoughts.
Here's the important bit. Every time you do NOT follow through and attain your goal you are weakening your personal power.
Every time that you follow through you are strengthening it. The first thing to do is to be conscious of what you promise yourself and other people. Don't promise too much.
I know, I am an advocate of shooting high when it comes to goal setting. However if you consciously examine your thoughts I believe that you will find you are promising too much.
You need to focus on less to achieve more.
Here's are some easy examples, 1. A gentleman I know wants to exercise more. He has trouble exercising once per week and he has many late nights. He sets himself a target of a grueling workout every morning before work. It never happens but he continues to set this goal. 2. A salesman I met believes that he can earn a fortune selling his product. He has a small, established client base and has trouble making cold calls. Everyday he promises himself that he will make 30 phone calls. His best day so far is two.
3. I have a client that is disorganized; he has hundreds of small jobs to do. They are not high on his list of priorities and they never seem to get done. He promises himself himself everyday that he will clean up. He never has time.
All three scenarios have a multitude of solutions but we are only discussing the thought process and how it affects your will.
In all three examples the people are dis-empowered. In order to build strength of will you need to start with a smaller target and work on achieving it.
Achieve one gym workout per week in the afternoon for a period of time. Make four phone calls per day, everyday.
Do one small task from your low priority list per day. Build a habit and look for consistency. consistency. Strengthen your will.
Achieve one small step at a time, and then look to the sky to achieve your dream.
Your Your Emotions Emotions control your life. They are an inexplicable force that you have to deal with on a daily basis.
Think of your emotions in terms of energy currents. Imagine an energy field around you, which changes shape, color and texture as your emotions change. In spiritual terms this is called your astral body. Some people call this your emotional body or energy field. Generally, your emotions serve your personality or your ego. If you wish to achieve a measure of personal development you must learn to master your emotions and not be ruled by them.
This personal development is one of the first steps on the spiritual path of initiation and is also known as spiritually evolving. The goal of our personal development is to exercise control of our emotions. Energetically this is like calming the stormy sea and symbolically, emotions are represented by water.
This doesn't mean that we do not 'feel' or that we should 'shut off' as many people do, on the contrary the only way to master your emotions is to get closer to them and actually find out what you really are feeling. Your emotional needs are often manifested in physical form. A simple example would be; eating, many people eat too many sweets. Sweets are often used as a reward by parents or eaten at celebrations and may be associated with happiness.
People who are not happy have a subconscious craving to eat sweets. Emotions control this behavior.
Other ways in which emotions dominate are numerous. You may seek to satisfy desire in many ways; food, money and sex are common ways to do this. Your subconscious emotional needs dominate and cause behavior, which is not 'good' for you.
You measure 'good' from a reference point of what you want. You are the soul behind your ego, thoughts and personality. Through the veil of emotion and ego, a clear path is often needed before your true self is discovered.
There are many ways to ‘still the waters’ one-way is to respond, rather than react.
There are other methods that you will find in the Key To Life Manual but we don’t have enough room here to cover them all.
Reacting means you are usually expressing a negative emotion such as anger and jealousy. Please notice how I said expressing. If we respond rather than react we will still feel the emotion. We do not however have to express it in a negative fashion.
In order to respond rather than react you need to follow two simple steps that you can find in the Key To Life Manual. This two-step process is simple, but hard to put into practice, the heat of the moment often providing a difficult training ground. A common way to overcome this difficulty is to work backwards. Start with the moments that cause you to react. Look at incidents that cause you to get emotional, situations where people 'push your buttons'. Anger and Jealousy are easy places to start. Look for the message about yourself; don't just react.
Your emotions originate from thoughts. Unravel the thread. Find the thought pattern behind the emotion. All negative emotions start with a fear.
Take jealousy for instance. This is based on the fear of losing your partner. It also has it's origins from the incorrect assumption that you posses your partner. This shows up as issues of self worth and it means that you are comparing yourself to another person and judging yourself as less. less.
Envy is another negative emotion and again the origin is fear. The focus with envy is on what we are lacking. What you are really thinking is "The other person has what I want" This is based on one of two ideas;
There is not enough for everyone and I might be inadequate or I am not happy with my situation or myself. This manifests with you launching an attack or belittling the person or object of your envy. Statements such as "I didn't want that anyway" "That's no good because..." mean you are focusing on what you don't have. Change your thoughts; focus instead on what you do have.
Once you are aware of the mechanics, which come into play when your negative emotions are aroused, you have come a long way. What is required to finish the task at hand is a willingness to confront yourself. Remember, when emotions are raised in YOU, that is the signal for you to look inside.
A common trap along the way is failure to look at yourself and instead look to the other person involved. This means you are not taking responsibility for your self.
You need to shift the focus back onto you. If you are really interested in working with this concept you need to take a look at the Key To Life Manual. It teaches you the techniques that enable you to take responsibility and change your life for the better.
Who Are You? This is an important question. You are a soul, experiencing certain aspects of creation through a physical body. The real you is eternal, the real you is the hidden spiritual side, the voice of wisdom that you sometimes hear in moments of clarity. The real you is one with the universe and everything in it. It is the part of you that feels, the part of you that has a dream, the part of you that knows right from wrong and good from bad. Some people call this "your " your higher self."
In most of us, to varying degrees, this true nature is blocked and hidden by what's known as your ego. Your ego is the part of you that does all the thinking, it is responsible for the management of your physical body, including feeding, sheltering and protecting it. Although your ego is a necessity, problems arise when it dominates and controls. This happens because it over identifies with your physical state and believes it is all there is. The result is that you live under an illusion and forget who you are. Your true spiritual being is blocked from your consciousness. This is your negative ego. Some people call this "your lower self."
Why are you like this?
You are here to experience the physical, to learn the power of our thoughts and to create with them. We are on a journey back to our source. In order for us to be able to do this we must temporarily forget who we really are.
Your mind through its guardian, your ego, latches onto an identity. This identity is formed from our surroundings and experiences since birth.
Your identity serves you because you believe that that's all there is. Ask someone, "Who are you?" You are likely to get an answer such as,
"I am a Writer"
"I am a Lawyer"
"I am a Basketballer" B asketballer"
"I am a Catholic"
People answer with what they do and associate with. Not with who they really are. The identity that you create and hold onto also encompasses certain traits. These traits are learned responses to stimuli that you have encountered.
If the behavior you choose is deemed to be self-serving at the time, your ego adds it to its repertoire and a habit is in the making. Your Lower Self behavior usually serves your subconscious desires and needs. These needs are essentially physical and survival based. They are based on you moving away from fear.
Imagine a shop-aholic who spends all his/her money. They have to have all the latest clothes no matter how expensive and how many other clothes they have to wear. They do this to the detriment of the other parts of their life, perhaps they run up huge credit card bills as is common.
The fear in this case may be that they would not be accepted, their ego tells them that if they have the latest fashions then they will be accepted. The extent to which this is played out is dependent on how much control their ego has.
Imagine an angry driver who abuses other drivers for driving too slow in front of them. This may be a fear of arriving late for work or an appointment. The anger is their ego enforcing right of way by intimidation and aggression.
Your Higher Self makes decisions based on movement towards love and this is essentially spiritual in nature. An example of this would be spontaneously giving a present without thought of any reciprocal arrangement. Another example is helping someone from a pure desire just to serve, like in the cliché of helping a little old lady across the road. This would also be taking up the career we love as opposed to the ego based choice of a career for the money. Going to a restaurant you love as opposed to the ego based choice of the restaurant that is fashionable to be seen at.
What do you argue about?
Think of two people arguing. Who is right and who is wrong? It depends on your perspective. Two people argue over the weather, the first person says it is cold the second person says it's not. The temperature is 7 degrees Celsius. Who do you think is right? The first person lives near the equator and enjoys the warm weather and sunshine. The second person comes from one of the poles and is used to subzero temperatures. Right or wrong can only be - when it is compared to something else. You take up your defensive position because your ego identifies with certain thoughts that you have. These thoughts are part of your identity and your ego has convinced you that this is who you are and therefore you must take a stand.
You are not your opinion.
There is no right and wrong.
Think about what you last argued over. You may have tried to make yourself right and the other person wrong.
What is there to defend? Nothing. Why does one of you have to be right and therefore the other wrong?
If you apply the techniques in the Key To Life Manual you will never need to argue with anyone again.
You are not the identity that your ego has built. If you make some changes in your life, you will still be you. Change your career, car, spouse, the country that you live in, your eating habits, your sexual preferences, your sporting club, go to jail or go to church, go to the movies or sleep all day.
You are still you, no matter what you do.
The scenario's we can discuss are endless, complex and along similar lines. What is important is that you recognize what your fear is and when your ego takes over!
If you are interested in learning the techniques that enable you to overcome your urge to argue have a look at my self-help manual, The Key To Life.
Happy and Whole "It is an orderly universe and the suffering that comes to us has a purpose in our lives, it is trying to teach us something. We should look for its lesson." Peace Pilgrim
Look around you. The world is reflecting what you believe. The world is reflecting to you, what and who you are. If you are not happy with what's going on around you, the type of people you attract or your physical surrounds. Stop trying to change the world and change who you are.
Your soul chooses to manifest into the physical body you have today, to create, express and experience. To be happy and whole you need to do four things. Here is a brief explanation of two of things you need to do.
1. Express and nurture yourself.
As a human being you need to express yourself. Expression means doing what you want to do, what you feel you have to do and showing the world who you are, as an individual. This is often cloaked in an emotional cloud. Your path can be obscured by the powerful 'should' word. People often spend lifetimes doing what they should do as expressed by the wishes of their parents or society.
"What will my parents think if I am the singer in a “rock and Roll” band instead of a lawyer or doctor".
Find what you want to do as expressed by your soul. This is how you find your power. Living a life that denies, expression and your inner feelings means that you are not nurturing yourself and that you are suppressing your feelings.
Suppression gives away your power. When you give your power to others it enables them to have undue influence over you. When people have too much power and influence over you and subconsciously you are not doing what you want, you feel helpless and victimized. This causes you to be frightened and angry. Anger is a symptom of your loss of power.
The easiest way to suppress feelings is to medicate. Drugs including alcohol and the use of food are popular methods employed. Emptiness, boredom and disease are the results of this process. Not doing what you want means you are not nurturing yourself this again may manifest in the abuse of food, alcohol or sex. The substance or behavior becomes a substitute for nurturing.
2. Love yourself and accept yourself as you are.
You need to accept yourself and to love yourself as you are today. All of us have thoughts and feelings and everyone has, or has had, what they consider 'bad' thoughts. We have all done things that we are ashamed of.
There is both positive and negative in you. This is also known as light and dark. You must acknowledge and accept your dark side to become whole. No matter what you have done in the past you can change your behavior today. It is pointless to wallow in your feelings of guilt as this is based on the assumption that what you did was wrong. Your behavior always has a positive intent for you, at the time.
There is a great self esteem exercise that is very quick and simple to do. It enables you to dramatically improve your Self Love, Self Esteem and Self Acceptance.
It can be found in the Key To Life Manual along with the other two things that you need to do to be happy and whole.
It’s Fear That Stops You! "Fear is the foundation of all human limitations." Benny the Jet
Benny the Jet was a fighter, a kick boxer. Although very small in stature he has ventured to fight much larger opponents in full contact tournaments and he has beaten them. This is an achievement, which earned him some acclaim.
Before you say, "hey! I thought that this was a spiritual publication" think carefully and reflect over your life. What fears have stopped you doing something and what rewards have you missed out on?
Fear is only an emotion not a brick wall. You have learnt of goals and setting targets. It is important to move forward into the direction that you wish to go. I deliberately use the words 'move into' because that's what you do. You don't move towards your goal as if it was a never reachable / achievable ideal. You literally merge with it. You move forward and become what you want.
What stops you? Fear.
Fear is an interesting emotion and comes from a series of thoughts. These thoughts are expressed and form a picture of what you don't want to happen. The ideal is to focus on what you do want to happen. Whatever you focus on you move towards. Just because you have a series of thoughts that create an emotion does not mean that you can't act. The emotion is independent of the ability to act.
Here are some physical examples that illustrate the possibilities.
If you are about to parachute from an airplane you may feel fear but you can still perform the action. A fighter may feel fear whilst he faces his opponent but he can still perform. You may feel fear at the thought of public speaking. You can still actually speak whilst in the company of this emotion.
If you look at the pattern of thoughts that precede the emotion you will see that your focus is on what you do not wish to happen. There is a direct correlation between the amount of thought you give in this direction to the power of your fear. Of course there are other factors that complicate this illustration.
You may have had a prior negative experience, which usually increases your fear. I know if you look closely you will find the same pattern of thoughts that lead to the emotion of fear.
A thought or series of thoughts have as much power over you as you give them. It's not always as easy as the physical examples I have given. For the relationship between action and emotion is quite obvious. Here is a more intangible way fear manifests and stops you moving ahead and into your goals. Fear of success is prevalent and is often linked to self-esteem and responsibility. You may not think you are worthy of success. You may believe that you are worth less than someone else and therefore are not deserving of success.
Realize that you are equal as a human being with the rest of humanity and that no one person is any better or worse than you. You have your own set of challenges to work through. You are just as deserving of success as anyone else. What judgment have you made that limit your own self-esteem?
When success finally comes you move from an old pattern that has held you back, to a new pattern. This can create emotional turbulence in the lives of those around us.
It is important that you understand that you don't have to hold yourself back to protect the self-esteem of others. You have a fear of your own greatness and you can read more about it in the Key To Life Manual, Manual, along with two other major fears that prevent you moving forward.
Final Words. "Fear is not of the present, but only of past and future - which does not exist." A Course In Miracles
You are often afraid, now, of something that is imaginary. How much energy do you waste thinking and being afraid of something that may never happen, next week? Do you empower a past negative situation and let that spoil what you are doing today? Your thoughts are yours; only you have the power to change them. I show you exactly how to do this in the Key To Life Manual.
The Key To Life Manual teaches you how to get anything you want. This includes happiness, success and wealth. It is honest, hard-hitting information that works, written by someone who uses it everyday on himself and real world clients. It is not just theory!
The manual also explains why normal practice of goal setting often doesn’t work. I teach you secret techniques that are not generally know and explain exactly who you are, where you came from and what the meaning of life is.
Try it for yourself. You can’t afford not to.
Life Coaching Life Coaching is a special relationship between you the client and I the coach. As a coach I help people from all walks of life and each relationship is different. I guide you in stages at your pace and I offer you a non-judgmental point of view. This allows you the recognition of your own enormous potential.
The result is that you achieve your objectives much faster than if working alone. I assist you in finding happiness and a fulfilling stress free lifestyle.
Coaching involves weekly sessions, either in person or over the telephone. (You can be anywhere in the world and I can ring you) I do things a little differently to other coaches – some people say I am a little psychic. (You’ll have to wait and find out about that one!)
Coaching is about Action! Putting into practice what you learn.
Here are nine ways you can benefit from my coaching sessions.
1. It's about You! There never has been, there never will be another YOU. It's important to get it right by fulfilling your potential. Coaching completely focuses on you. Unlike attending a training course and sitting through content that is not relevant to you. Coaching is 100% focused on your needs and wants right now. You are the expert in your life and I bring out your best.
2. You can reach for the Stars As your coach I help you stretch your boundaries and venture from your comfort zone. Challenges can be incredibly rewarding and I offer you a partnership to set challenging goals and achieve your potential. Make your goals more important than the other things that compete for your attention. How much time do you spend watching television? How much time do you devote to other peoples problems? One hour per week with me can change your life.
3. Spiritual Fulfillment The process of coaching leads you to question your internal life and the way you do things. As an expert in esoteric practice I can show you how to master your thoughts and emotions giving you the insight required to find your true path in life. Your Emotional Intelligence has been found to be more important to success than IQ and you can now build your emotional intelligence to a new level.
4. Focus on Solutions not your Problems I help you focus on where you want to be and the best way to get there. By staying firmly focused on what you want rather than your problems, you can achieve extraordinary results and many problems just fade away.
5. Your Education If you are like most people you love to learn new things yourself and often you don't trust the advice of others. As your coach I don't tell you what to do; rather I help bring out your best, enabling you to learn from your own experience. Your emotions can cloud your judgment. As your coach I don't have an emotional attachment to your problems and can therefore show an objective point of view.
Note: If you want to do this yourself, try the Key To Life Manual.
6. Your Success is not an Accident Developing a step-by-step plan for your goals dramatically increases your chance of success. Rather than just throwing yourself at a new idea I can help you break your goal into smaller steps. This added depth to your planning makes starting a whole lot easier and helps keep you action orientated.
7. Stick to your Plan If you lead a busy lifestyle, without something to remind you about your plans it's easy to let them slide. Staying committed to your plans is difficult and a professional support structure helps you stay on track and achieve a result. As your coach I am that support.
8. Relationships The answers to many of life's questions are found in the relationship you have with yourself and with others. You will learn how to improve your business relationships, with both customers and employees. You can dramatically improve your personal relationships.
9. Accountability and Motivation With increased accountability your success rate improves dramatically. Your coach is there to remind you of where you are going. An expert motivator I can help you overcome those moments when it all becomes a little daunting. Accountability dramatically improves your bottom line. In dollar terms alone, this one point pays for years of coaching.
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