How to talk to beautiful women Would it surprise you that the more attractive the woman, the easier it is to begin a conversation with her? If so, then it would probably surprise you even more to know that the most beautiful women are the easiest to start a conversation with. Let me paint a little image for you, OK? You are out with some friends, maybe at a great new lounge. On your way to the bar, you notice a woman with extra-special beauty laughing with her friends. She has that look of beauty that is rare, but is breathtaking. You decide you want to meet her, but how? I am going to share the BEST way to approach her in just a moment... But, first you've gotta realize that most women of great beauty are so intimidating to men, that the best a guy can do is pick his jaw up off the floor and keep walking. Truthfully, extraordinary beauty strikes the fear of God in many men. So, if you want to learn how to approach and attract very beautiful women, the first and most important thing to remember is.... Relax. Haha - WAY easier to type that than to DO it... A few years ago, I worked up the nerve to approach a very famous supermodel (who shall remain nameless). I was terrified upon approaching, but forced myself to do it because I knew it would help me build my confidence. What surprised me was how open she was to having a conversation. She was friendly, humorous and engaging. The interaction ended when her thug-bodyguard ran me off...but I was so surprised how easy she was to talk to. Interesting, right? What my friends and I realized later was that women of great beauty are rarely approached by men. The women hardest
to meet are, in fact, those that are a bit below the supermodel level - call them an "8" or a "9" (rating scales are crude, so forgive me). They are less intimidating, and therefore more approachable by men. If you are only talking to women of this calibre, you are probably amazed at how difficult it can be to engage them in a conversation. They are the ones who will often throw tests at you as fast as a Roger Clemens fastball. Why? They have had to learn how to deal with men trying to pick them up a lot, and have developed an arsenal to defend themselves from guys only interested in their bodies. However, the "10"s of the world are already so fearsome to men, that they get off WAY easier. Of course, they have challenges in different ways, but for now I encourage you to go for it and approach them. OK, so here are some specific tips on beginning a conversation with VERY attractive women: 1) When (and if) you do, be sure not to fawn over their beauty or even remark that they are attractive. This will instantly blow it for you, as you become one of the many who are not able to get past their looks. 2) Instead of commenting on her extra-special beauty, ask her something like this: "Excuse me - I need female input on a debate my friends and I are having - maybe you can help. In a relationship, what is more important to women - romance or adventure?" 3) Once she replies, spin her answer into some humorous flirtatious banter, while revealing some of your own opinions about the subject. This way, you're beginning a conversation with her, rather than hitting on her. 4) With the very attractive women, hard-core flirting is not really necessary. In fact, you'll likely find them to be a bit socially inept. Strange isn't it? So, you won't want to do much in terms of flirting or teasing, but baiting and storytelling are KEY with this skill, OK? If you asked an extremely attractive woman what is it that
most upsets her about her beauty, it would probably be that people see her as a hot body, rather than as a person. So, this plan sends the interaction into a conversation more than a flirtatious "pick-up". However, you must remember to demonstrate your personality smoothly using the baiting and storytelling social skills.
