Time Present (after the death of Ah-Ma) Past (before the death of Ah-Ma)
Social Modern day Singapore Early 20th century Singapore
Mr Li Ah-Ma Ying
Helen Mr Li’s father
A wealthy and successful man of 63 years of age Keeps his hair carefully dyed black except for a little grey The eldest son of nine siblings A respectful and devoted son although he is sometimes impatient
with his mother.
Seems to be modern – feels his daughter is too modern and
disrespectful
Does not seen to want other to know that he comes from humble
beginnings
Responsible – mother has proper burial – altar room Regretful – attention to mother
Small and thin with grey hair and a bent back
Mother of nine, grandmother of thirty-four and great-grandmother of
seventeen
Has cataracts but does not want to have surgery to fix it
Speaks Cantonese A traditional and religious woman who still keeps chickens in the
garden and practises the old Chinese customs and ritual
Often lost in memories – years to see Tanjong Rhu Loves her family very much
Daughter of Mr Li and Helen
Has a brother who is studying in Cambridge and she
herself is soon leaving for New York
Devoted to her grandmother (hospital) A modern girl Seems to have a good relationship with her father
Wife of Mr Li
Often has tea-parties with her friends Seems to like socialising
Rather superficial
Used to own a shipyard in Tanjong Rhu where he built boats
Dies at the age of 53 Upon his death, his wife offer daily prayers to him in the
altar room and sometimes even talks to him.
Traditional values vs. modern ideas The past vs. the present Regret Generation gap
We must not forget our roots We must learn to respect and tolerate each other Family is more important than wealth and success
The story talks about traditional practice that is slowly fading away. Give an example of a traditional practice that you think will soon be forgotten. Why do you think it will no longer be practised in the future?