The Personality Matrix eBook

The Personality Matrix by Max Berger

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What’s inside:

Introduction The “SACRIFICE” Story The “GOVERNMENT” Story The “POLICE” Story The “ANARCHY” Story The “PORNOGRAPHY” Story The “HORROR” Story The “OBJECT” Story The “COLLECTION” Story The “ART” Story The “TEACHER-STUDENT” Story The “HOUSE & HOME” Story The “RECOVERY” Story The “RELIGION” Story The “GAME” Story The “TRAVEL” Story The “GARDEN” Story The “BUSINESS” Story The “ADDICTION” Story The “FANTASY” Story The “SCIENCE” Story The “COOK BOOK” Story The “WAR” Story The “THEATRE” Story















INTRODUCTION Welcome to the Girlfriend Game Personality Matrix ebook. We are about to explore 24 unique “relationship stories”, breaking down all of the minutiae to figure out exactly what you resonate with and who you should stay away from. What is a relationship story? This is how individuals relate to each other in their relationships. Every person falls into a distinct narrative, and often a particular relationship story will attract someone from a similar matrix.

People with the same emotions and the same energy who are sharing the same thoughts and information together; that is a symmetrical relationship relationship story. That is what we are aiming to achieve in a GG relationship. However, a critical component of this material you’re reading, will dive into a-symmetrical relationship stories to explore what happens when you and your partner are not aligned. aligned . How to use this material? Every matrix profile ends with a short cheat sheet to help you quickly identify how you fit into that profile, what to do when she fits with her profile, the most compatible stories, and which relationship stories to watch out for.

Additionally, Additionally, there will be a thorough description description of each each relationship relationship story story to give insight into what fuels that matrix. Pay extra attention to the toxic relationship stories you will find below. The reason you’ve made an investment in Girlfriend Game is to find the most thrilling and fulfilling relationship possible, and I created this because I found way too many people falling into extremely bad relationship patterns. Mutual low self-esteem, shaming, controlling, emotional abuse, physical abuse... All of these are factors that feed into a low-vibration relationship. Sometimes changing the relationship itself is not enough. Breaking up does not necessarily break the addiction to a negative relationship story. If you were miserable in your old relationship but managed to get a new one, you might be happy for a few















Throughout this PDF you will frequently read the instruction to visit The Four Becomings in Girlfriend Game. That’s because I want to make sure that if change is needed in your life, you don’t just change the external, but you make a shift from within. Grounding yourself into your reality as a man in your prime. A man in his his prime does does not waver waver or falter in his his path. It It is your duty duty to handle handle your your emotions and circumstances and be a leader in your relationships. You firm boundaries will be rewarded with an amazing girlfriend who was properly screened, and is just an overall kickass girl to have around your life.















The “SACRIFICE” Story

Relationships that require a lot of compromise fall into the matrix of the Sacrifice Story. When the Sacrifice Story is un-grounded it then becomes victim to bullshit narratives found in the mainstream media. This relationship story is pushed by Hollywood to sound like a gritty “true love” scenario, where one lover must make serious sacrifices for the sake of the other. The Hollywood agenda pushes heroic and gushy love stories out to billions of people, but this narrative can potentially do more harm than good. When the mainstream media frames the Sacrifice Story as as a noble and heroic act of love, it pacifies audiences into mistaking toxic coupling with “true love”. It becomes toxic when the sacrifices involve compromising your values, goals, and boundaries for another person, who may not even reciprocate the gesture. On the flip side, this relationship story can be symmetrical when the sacrifices are















If acts of personal sacrifice are coming from a place of scarcity, a desperate feeling to make the other partner feel satisfied, that is when this relationship story becomes toxic. Read up on The Police Story to learn which personality matrix you should watch out for. Take time to do a personal assessment of your self-esteem. If you’re constantly falling prey to the Sacrifice Story, it could be that you need to revisit The Four Becomings, and realign yourself within a frame of abundance guided by strong boundaries.

How To Tell if This is Your Story

What To Do if this is Her story

You regularly make yourself uncomfortable for the happiness of others

Order your life in a way that doesn’t exploit her or anyone else

You believe it’s virtuous to put yourself second

Explore her background and understand where her behaviour comes from

You feel influenced by Hollywood “Hero” stories of making endless sacrifices

Invite her to channel her “Sacrifice” story towards non-trivial causes that are product (i.e. charity)

Most Compatible Story

Stay Away From

The House & Home Story

The Police Story

The Garden Story

The Government Story

The Business story

The Addiction Story

















The “GOVERNMENT” Story

If one person in the relationship is making all of the decisions for the other, then it may be that their relationship is founded on the Government Story matrix. matrix. If this relationship style is symmetrical for both partners, then it would be a mutual agreement of letting one partner lead the other. If two consenting people are genuinely



















You prefer to be in control

Establish a dynamic you both respect within the framework of a healthy ‘Government’ Story

You want to always be leading your girlfriend

Be sure of your personal boundaries before moving forward in the relationship

You are uncomfortable or upset when disempowered in your relationship

If the Government Story is unenjoyable, visit the ‘Advanced Girlfriend Game’ section addressing break ups

Most Likely to End up With

Least Compatible

The Sacrifice Story

The Anarchy Story

The Recovery Story

The Travel Story

The Addiction Story

The Mystery Story

















The “POLICE” Story

This personality matrix is similar to the preceding Government story , but has some distinct behavioral differences. The Police Story is about policing every little detail of what their partner does or has done, whereas the Government Story dictates behaviors before any “mistakes” could happen. Being in the Police Story looks like suspicious nit-picking for trouble. This relationship story is obviously built on mutual Low Self-Esteem. The problem is that the person who

















Eventually, this could lead to creating a nasty self-fulfilling prophecy. Where the person being Policed is constantly persecuted for possible cheating or sneaky behavior, they may even be driven to actually cheat on their partner in order to feel momentarily free of the incessant Policing. The never-ending accusations end up seeding the behavior that the Police partner was so afraid of. If you think you’re the one being Policed in your relationship, skip to the chapter about The Sacrifice Story to learn more about which personality matrix you might be stuck in. If you are realizing that you’re the one doing the Policing, please take time to comb through The Four Becomings in Girlfriend Game. Achieving a GG relationship means establishing freedom that is balanced with self-esteem and security. If you are acting out The Police Story , you still have some personal work to do before jumping into a committed relationship with someone.



You feel anxious, agitated, or jealous when she goes out

Establish clear boundaries and expectations

You feel a need to check her texts or any inbox on social media

Assert your your right to to your privacy privacy

You need to know every detail of her life and her past

Do not falter in your personal boundaries as she will NOT respect that

















The “ANARCHY” Story

A relationship relationship devoid devoid of any any intrinsic goal or purpose purpose falls falls in line with the Anarchy Story . This personality matrix is for those who don’t just embrace chaos; they’re consumed by it. All rules, regulations, regulations, and norms norms are out of question question within within the Anarchy Story . At first,



















Could it be that you’re unsure of what you want? Is that lack of certainty fueling a fear; leading to inaction and indecision? If this Personality Matrix sounds anything like you, I would suggest taking time to sit with those questions and get clear about the outcomes you want out of life. Life is too short to waste on living without a clear purpose. Re-visit the section in Girlfriend Game about The Four Becomings.


You have no future plans for your relationship You have no future plans for anything (career, travel, etc) You enjoy relaxing and going with the flow


Take her on spontaneous adventures Avoid setting setting long term future future plans and and expectations Establish respect and harmony within comfortable boundaries



















The “PORNOGRAPHY” Story



















Imposing your issues of low-esteem on your girlfriend is unfair to her and your relationship. If you feel yourself often struggling with the Pornography story when you’re connecting with a girl, definitely revisit The Four Becomings in Girlfriend Game. If this act of humiliation is consensual with an agreement between you and your girlfriend, then it does not qualify as the Pornography story . Check out the chapter about to learn more about making specific arrangements in your the Business Story to relationship. Getting off on feeling sexually superior by humiliating and traumatizing your lover is not a foundation of a GG relationship. Make sure to get that handled ASAP and begin to develop a truly amazing sex life with your girlfriend instead!


You masturbate to pornography regularly


Slow down and get her present in her body



















The HORROR Story



















If you feel like you resonate with The Horror Story, please revisit the section in Girlfriend Game about The Four Becomings. Take the time to digest why it is you align closely with this narrative and become grounded in your own center, before dragging an unwilling participant into that frame. If you're realizing you are in an unhappy relationship with someone who acts out The Horror Story, you should also revisit the section about The Four Becomings. The framework of that section is designed to re-establish your mission and understand exactly what kind of relationship you need with yourself and then with other people. Getting lost in destructive relationships is easy without proper guidance, which is exactly why I created Girlfriend Game. The chapter about The Recovery Story will dive further into what type of people fall prey to behavior acted out in The Horror Story and other toxic Relationship Stories.


You enjoy dominating your partner and


Remove yourself and offer her resources





















The OBJECT Story





















Excitement to show off your girlfriend because you’re both actually awesome together could be a fun and cool frame to share with each other within the Object Story . Check out the chapter about The Art Story to explore this concept further.



You find it important to be perceived as a 10/10 couple

Visit the Four Becomings in Girlfriend Game to reestablish your personal boundaries

You date women for the sole purpose of

Transition the Object Story to come from





















The COLLECTION Story























You are in pickup in order to “get with” as many women as possible

Decide on what the nature of your relationship will be, visit the “Monogamy & Polygamy” section in Girlfriend Game

You see your partners as a number (“batting average”)

Determine if her “Collection Story” matrix is come from LSE or abundance

You are perceived as “The Player” in your social circles

If you’re unsure of what you want with her, visit the Four Becomings in Girlfriend Game





















The ART Story























The Art Story is about saturating yourself in beauty and precious experiences with the girl who is truly your perfect 10.























The TEACHER-STUDENT Story
























Either you love to teach/influence, or


Immerse yourselves in environments that























The HOUSE & HOME Story
























Comfort and Safety within the relationship is important to you


Respect her needs and show up as a powerful partner to establish safety





























































































































































































































































































































































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