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Fl i r t Ma Mas t er y Flirt M astery ‘Quick Start’ S tart’ Guide

By Steve Scott

Fl i r t Ma Mas t er y Flirt M astery ‘Quick Start’ S tart’ Guide

By Steve Scott

Flirt Mastery ‘Quick Start’ Guide • www.flirtmastery.com

Tabl Ta blee of Contents Cont ents Disclaime Disclaimerr ............ ........................ ........................ ........................ ......................... ................. .... 4 Introduc Introduction tion ........... ....................... ........................ ......................... ......................... .............. .. 5 Mental Mental Game ........... ...................... ....................... ....................... ....................... ................ .... 6 Approachi Approaching ng Women ........... ...................... ....................... ....................... ............... .... 14 Your Cheat Sheet ..................................................... 21 #1- Initial Initial Conversation Conversation Tactics Tactics ........... ........................ ....................... .......... 22 #2- Sparking the Initial Attraction ............. .......................... ................. .... 23 #3- Flirting Conversation Skills................................... 26 #4- The Seduction.................................................... 28 Review Review and Improve Improve ........... ...................... ...................... ....................... ................ .... 31 Conclusio Conclusion......... n..................... ........................ ........................ ......................... .................. ..... 33

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Introduction First off, I hope you had a chance to read the Flirt Mastery ebook. If you haven’t, then I urge you to check that out first. The information included in this ‘Quick Start Guide’ is written for the guys who are already familiar with the core concepts that are discussed in the main guide. In other words, this is NOT a substitute for the book . With that being said, you might be wondering what’s the purpose of this report? Well since Flirt Mastery is over 280 pages, there is a lot of information that to learn. While I do my best to condense the best material, I know there’s a chance that you might miss the really important stuff. Furthermore, I think it’s important to have a specific action plan that’ll help you with your flirting and conversation skills. When you know what to do, it becomes MUCH easier to accomplish a goal. So in a nutshell, the Flirt Mastery Quick Start Guide is specifically written to briefly review and point out the areas that you need to reread, then go out and DO! In addition, I’ve added a few pieces of information that’ll reduce the “learning curve” from mastering your skills w hen talking to w omen. Throughout this report, I provide specific page numbers of the concept that I’m covering. It’s up to you to refer to this area and review the material if you’re not sure what I’m talking about. Even if you’re familiar with the subject, I highly recommend you review it again. The best way to mastery ANY subject is the repetition and practice. 5



F i n a l l y …I want to give one last piece of advice. I recommend you print out this entire report. Then put in a binder folder. A physical copy of this guide will be something that you consistently refer to whenever you’re faced with a specific obstacle in your conversations with women.

Well that’s it! We have a lot of information to review, so let’s get started…

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Mental Game In the main book, I didn’t spend much time discussing ‘belief systems’ or confidence. My reason was simple… I honestly think that “mental game” is THE most important area when it comes to success with women. Since I was trying to keep the length of the book around 50,000 words, I felt like I could NOT completely cover the subject. (And eventually, I will be releasing an entire product on this subject.) Now with all of this being said, I want to start THIS guide by providing a few pointers that you can use to create the R I GH T k i n d o f m i n d s e t when it comes to talking to women. In this section, I want to cover two key “mental anchors” you need to create BEFORE work on your conversation skills. They are affirmations and conversation rules . So let’s quickly cover the basics of each…

Affirmations Creating a set of affirmations is one of the quickest ways to creating a mindset that leads to a p e r m a n e n t , c o n f i d e n t attitude. If you’ve read any personal development course, then you’re probably familiar with the power of affirmations. An affirmation is simply a phrase (or number of phrases) that you repeat on a daily basis. They’re effective because the process of repetition helps your mind develop an attitude that gives you a more positive outlook on life. 7



What’s a great about a f f i r m a t i o n s is how easy they are to create. Simply think of a statement about yourself and then write it in a positive, first person perspective. They key here is to take any negative self-talk and turn it into something that challenges this statement. Typically most guys have a number of “mental roadbloacks called self-limiting beliefs. These are specific thought patterns that limit a guy’s success when he’s trying to attract a woman. For instance, here’s a list of common self-limiting beliefs: "I am not attractive enough to talk to her" “She won’t like me because I don’t have a fancy car, lots of money or an interesting job.” "I don’t have enough interesting things to say to a group of women like that…" "What if I can’t think of anything to say after I’ve approached them?” "Women like that only like good-looking guys with an athletic body.” "In an environment like this, I should try to blend in and act like the other guys. Standing out from the crowd is too risky." "I am too scared to approach that woman and start talking.” "I don’t have a clue about what she’ll find attractive”

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“What if I freeze up during the middle of the conversation?” When you do an affirmations exercise you want to take these self-limiting beliefs and turn them into p o s i t i v e affir m ation s. For instance, if you have the belief that “you’re not attractive to women”, you can turn this negative thought into a positive affirmations and create something like “A l l w o m e n f i n d m e a t t r a c t i v e ” . To get the full benefit of affirmations, create a list that’s filled with positive statements. All should be written in a way that directly challenges the self-limiting beliefs you have about yourself. Then at least 2-3 times a day, take this list out and recite them to yourself . As you recite the affirmations, think about how each statement makes you feel. Fully envision what it’s like to have this new way of looking at yourself. The more you’re emotionally tied to an affirmation, the easier it’ll become to develop a positive mindset. Don’t be dismayed if it takes awhile to get used to this exercise. At first, you may find that the process seems a bit weird. As I always say… T h e m i n d b e l i e v e s w h a t y o u t e l l it ! Reciting these affirmations on a daily basis, triggers a side of your brain that’ll make you behave in accordance to your beliefs. When you start thinking you’re an attractive guy, your behavior will subconsciously make you act this way. Just remember that it takes a while to develop any habit. Changing the way you look at the world doesn’t happen 9



overnight. By doing affirmations e a c h d a y , you’ll eventually find that your negative way of looking at the world has been replaced by positive thought patterns which put you on the track for success with women. Now to help you get started with affirmations, I want you to refer to P ages 35- 67 where I discussed the 19 qualities that are most attractive to women. To reinforce this concept (and help demonstrate these traits whenever you’re talking to a girl) I’ve listed an affirmation for each quality. I recommend that you review and recite this list at least 23 times a day. You’ll find that doing this is a great way to develop and reinforce a confident attitude: 1) “I’m a ‘prize’ that women are lucky to meet” 2) “I’m a high-value person who has a lot to offer the world” 3) “I have equal or greater social value than the women I meet” 4) “I respect myself and I demand the same treatment from everyone else” 5) “I’m a unique person, who lives an interesting life” 6) “I’m have plenty of options that I can make every day” 7) “I’m fun guy who has interesting things to say” 8) “I confidently take charge of every interaction I have with women” 9) “I’m a positive upbeat guy” 10



10) “I live in a world of abundance. If it doesn’t work out with one girl, I know I can easily met another” 11) “I’m not in a rush to pursue any particular woman” 12) “I’m an attractive guy who has a ton of positive qualities” 13) “I’m a trustworthy guy and I make sure that women also have this trait” 14) “I’m a little unpredictable. Often I like to do spontaneous, adventurous things” 15) “I am in control of all aspects of my life” 16) “I don’t need any particular woman” 17) “I’m not afraid to nice things for people. But they’re always on MY terms.” 18) “I enjoy doing things that are a little different from others” 19) “I’m a challenge. Women have to earn my interest.” Finally, I recommend that you look at each character trait on P ages 35- 67 and rate yourself on a scale of 1-10. Then make it a point to improve on any area where you scored less than a ‘5’!

Conversation Rules The second part of ‘mental game’ is pretty straight forward. What we’re going to do here is reinforce the basic rules

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that you need to remember every time you’re talking to a girl. I recommend that you review this list every other day. Doing this will regularly will help re-program the way you look at conversations and will help you focus on creating that s e x u a l t e n s i o n t h a t ’ s n e c es sa r y f o r a t t r a ct i n g a girl. First off, you want to review the 10 things you should never do in a conversation (P ages 115-123): λ

Being a negative or crass guy

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Being right vs. getting laid

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Acting in a shy manner

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Bragging too much

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Being a bore

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Not leading the interaction

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Talking to only one person

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Avoiding physical contact

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Acting too strange

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Not showing your vulnerable side

Next, you should go over the 9 rules for creating a great conversation (P ages 124-131):

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Remember the 80/20 conversation rule when you first approach a girl

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Be authoritative

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Assume the close

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Be interesting



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Control the interaction

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Never show too much interest at first

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Assume familiarity

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Use the ‘Scarcity Principle’

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Be prepared to walk away

Well that’s it for the ‘mental game’ aspect of this book. If you regularly use affirmations

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Approaching Women You can get into conversations with women unless you become comfortable with approaching them. Unfortunately, this is another huge obstacle guys have. The problem usually stems from a feeling of anxiety (or panic) whenever you’re about to approach a girl and start a conversation. Typically you’re hands will get sweaty, your heart races and the LAST thing you want to do is risk being rejected. Now I’m not going to get into a long explanation of why this happens. Suffice to say, approaching w omen is a something that you have become comfortable doing. In this section, I’m going to give a brief method for learning how to approach women with ease. While it’s not foolproof, this is the same set of steps that I used to gain confidence with talking to random strangers…

Step #1 – Approach five people every day During any given day, you’re probably in close proximity to DOZENS of people. What I’m asking you to do in this step is simply start a conversation with AT LEAST five people each day. This approach doesn’t have to be anything fancy. It could be something as basic as asking for the time or making a comment on a situation that you’ve both just witnessed. The important element is to p r a ct i c e t h e s i m p l e a r t o f start ing a conv ersation w ith som ebody t hat you d o n ’t k n o w .

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Furthermore, you can practice on anybody. I recommend that you talk to people that are in your ‘personal proximity’ (Within 10 feet of you). This can include: λ

Cashiers or clerks

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People standing in line near you

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Waitresses, baristas, or bartenders

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Anyone you meet during your commute

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Somebody in your class

I recomm end you do this exercise for a minimum of a week OR till you can get to the point where it doesn’t seem weird to start talking to somebody you don’t know.

Step #2 – Approach five women every day This is where things become a little challenging. Once you become comfortable with talking to random strangers, you want to approach (at least) five w omen a day. The good news is you don’t have to really do anything but start a conversation. In this step, we’re not going to worry about things like teasing, sexual tension, or getting her number. You’re JUST trying to gain experience with overcoming that natural “fight or flight” emotion that most guys have before approaching a girl. While there are literally THOUSANDS of ways to start a conversation, I suggest you do something simple. These probably won’t make her interested in you, BUT they’re easy to remember and will get her to respond back. For instance, here are some generic ways to start talking to a girl you don’t know: 15



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Ask for the time or directions somewhere

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Compliment her on something she’s wearing

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[If she’s a cashier or clerk] Ask how her day is going or if she’s been busy at work

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Use a situation specific event as a way to spark a conversation (Like you’re both waiting for a train)

Now I’ll be the first to admit that these aren’t the best ways to start a conversation. However it’s important to remember that your goal is to simply become comfortable with starting conversations with women on a regular basis. I recom mend you do this exercise for 2 or more weeks. This will help reduce some of the nervousness that happens when you’re approaching a woman you don’t know.

Step #3 – The Mass Approach Method Once you become comfortable with starting conversations every day, we’re going to put this exercise on steroids. What you’re now going to do is find ANY place that has a high concentration of women (bars, concerts, malls, etc) and practice approaching them in a rapid-fire manner. You r goal is to approach at least 20+ girls in a given time and I recomm end you do this exercise at least 3 or more times. Now here’s where it gets interesting… Instead of using the boring conversation starters, I want you to refer to P ages 70-78 and think of 3 or more ways you can start talking to a girl.

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Once again, we’re not going to worry so much about the outcome of the conversation. Instead I want to simply feel what’s like to approach women in a fast-paced manner. After you deliver your opener, I want you to do one thing…Either give a compliment about something she’s wearing OR ask where she’s from. Once she responds, you want to use the flirting line that’s on Page 147: “You know what they say about women who…” Then give her a smile like you know something that she doesn’t. At this point, you can eject from the conversation or continue the teasing banter that you just established. The point of this exercise is to feel what it’s like to tease some girl you don’t know and see her reaction. You’ll be surprised at how a little remark like this will completely shift the w ay a w oman looks at you.

Step #4 – Speed Dating As I developed my ‘approaching game’ I often used Speed Dating as a way to practice my skills. This type of event is perfect for gaining experience with teasing and flirting. The best part is you have 8 minutes or less to make an impression. Traditionally people use Speed Dating as a way to find love. Here we’re going to use it for a something that’s a bit different… The goal here is to NOT impress the girl you’re talking to. Actually you’re going to act like a “ball-busting”, challenging guy. (I know this goes against common sense, but there’s a “method to my madness”) 17



When you’re doing your “ speed date” I w ant you to concentrate on the followin g: 1) Avoid answ ering her boring questions (Like where you work, where you’re from and your background). For instance, if she asks where you work, say something like: “McDonald’s! I work with the fries. But someday I hope to move up to burgers…THEN the big bucks roll in…” I know this is weird, but it’s necessary if you want to control the conversation. By avoiding or giving silly answers, you’re subtly demonstrating the INimportance of boring, predictable questions. 2) Focus on emotions- Now that you’ve avoided the standard questions, you want to create a conversation where you’re talking about stuff that’ll generate an emotional response. Usually I like to start by asking her the standard question, like what she would do if she won a million dollars. 3) Tease her- Again, this is another opportunity where you should do a little teasing. If she says she likes to “go out a lot”, call her a party girl OR if she tells that she likes to “stay in”, call her a bookworm. You can use ANY of her responses to create that initial sexual tension. 4) Ask random questions- Seriously I spent one ENTIRE night riffing off one simple question: “What is your favorite dinosaur?” Instead of worrying about making a great first impression, I sat down, and asked this question. 18



Then I just rolled with what she said and refused to let her bring the conversation back to a normal discussion. Now I don’t recommend you do it to this extreme, but the principle behind a sk i n g r a n d o m q u e s t i o n s is to simply talk about completely arbitrary topics that she’s never heard before. (By the way- the BEST response I heard to this question was when a girl said “Cock-a-saurus”. I almost fell out of my chair when I heard that one…) Now these are just a few suggestions of things you can do on your ‘speed dates’. If you get comfortable, try to introduce other funny, teasing comments. Before we move on, I just want to remind that this is exercise is to basically teach what it’s like to talk to women and NOT be outcome specific. When you stop worrying if a girl likes you, it becomes easy to develop that natural, fun vibe that’s naturally attractive.

Step #5 – Approach and Look for an Outcome The final step is this section is where we “take the training wheels off” and you’ll start approaching women with the intent to flirt and get their numbers (and even more). At this point, you want to initiate conversations w ith w omen on a regular basis. And the more you do this, the quicker you’ll increase your success. First off, it’s important to know what you want from each conversation. On P ages 112-114, I covered the importance of establishing goals for each approach. To

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recap, here is what you should ask yourself before each conversation: •

Do I want her number?

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Am I looking for a girlfriend?

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Do I want to sleep with her tonight?

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Should I go for an ‘instant date?’

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Do I just want to have a conversation?

After that, you want to create a series of conversation starters. On P ages 70-78, I listed three different ways to approach women (teasing, being direct, and using your body language). I recommend you review this section then create a few for each one of these conversation starters. With these five steps you should become pretty comfortable with approaching women. Now let’s move on to one of the most important tools in your ‘dating arsenal’…

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Your Cheat Sheet As I mentioned before, the best way to learn any concept is through recitation and repetition. That’s why it’s important to create what I like to call a “ cheat sheet” that you’ll carry with you whenever you’re talking to women. Your cheat sheet will be a collection of the material that you want to use when you’re talking to women. It’s designed to help you along and provide reminders of the things you can discuss in a conversation. In fact, I highly recommend you refer to this document on daily basis ! So what should you put on this document? Well for the rest of the Flirt Mastery ‘Quick Start’ Guide , we’re going to cover the different notes you’re going to put on this “cheat sheet”. I will break down the key concepts in my main guide and the important conversation pieces you should include on this document…

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#1- Initial Conversation Tactics The first section is pretty straight forward. You want to write down the points in the conversation when a girl is ‘hooked’ on the conversation. In other words, she’s now interested (or even attracted). This concept is important because you ALWAYS want to observe the body language of women, and figure out if they’re interested in what you have to say.

Signs of Attraction A lot of times, you’ll get “approach signals” with women. These are basically cues that women will send guys when they want them to approach. On P age 91-92, I cover 18 different signals women will send when they want you to approach. Now these signals are not accurate 100% of the time. That’s why it’s also to understand the 3 d i f f e r e n t e y e cu e s (P ages 94-95) you can get.

Hook Point As I mentioned before, you should look for the ‘hook point’ in the conversation. On Pages 157-158, I give a few pointers that you’ll see whenever women are interested in what you have to say.

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#2- Sparking the Initial Attraction When you first approach a girl, you have to subtly demonstrate that you’re a high status guy that’s providing value to the conversation . There are a number ways you can do this. But the key here is you can steer that initial part of a conversation towards sparking that initial bit of attraction. And here’s how you can do this…

Tell Stories On your cheat sheet, you want to list at least 3-5 stories (P g. 169- 178). These will come from your own personal experiences. Furthermore, you want to make sure that these stories emphasize the many qualities that women find attractive in a guy. And with your stories it’s best if you’ve practiced them and know the RIGHT way to tell them. That’s why I recommend you refer to P ages 178-183 and learn the correct way to deliver these conversation pieces.

The Teasing Mindset Teasing is THE critical component to creating sexual tension. It’s important that you immediately set the tone when you approach a girl. On P ages 137- 140, you want to review my notes on teasing. Then create (and write on the cheat sheet) a t l e a st 5 - 1 0 d i f f e r e n t w a y s to use teasing and humor in a conversation.

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Be creative here. The idea is to have a couple of ‘teasing/fun’ statements if you can’t think of anything to say

Showing an Interesting Skill One of the quickest ways to impress a girl is to have a unique skill (P ages 224-231). Unfortunately most of these won’t work in your typical ‘singles’ environment. But I want you to keep this mind when you’re looking to improve your conversation skills with women. The good news is “cold reading” (on Pages 227-231) is an incredible skill to show women. I recommend you reread this section and write down some of the important points. Furthermore, you could test out some of the generalized cold reading statements that I provided in this section.

Body Language The body language you display is one of the most important factors to creating that initial spark of attraction. Remember- 90% of your communication is done on a nonverbal level. So you want to adhere to the rules for ‘high status’ body language that’s list on P ages 83-90. Next it’s important to establish a pattern of touching (the right way) when you first start a conversation. That’s why it’s important to review the information on P ages 96-105 and know how to use your attraction to amplify attraction. Just remember to pay close attention to how she responds to her touch (Her body language will give you all the information you need)! 24



Finally I think it’s important to constantly review and evaluate your body language. On your cheat sheet, write a reminder to mentally review your body language once every 30 minutes (when you’re talking to women) and see if you’re displaying all the qualities that are attractive to women.

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#3- Flirting Conversation Skills Once you’re in the conversation, you want to create that sexual tension. Now as I mentioned in the main book, I can’t tell you what’ll happen when you’re talking to women. Each conversation is different, BUT there are certain techniques you can use to direct it towards a ‘flirting outcome’ .

Conversation Crutches Sometimes, you’ll have those moments where there is a lull in the conversation. During these moments, you want to have a ready-made topic that you can throw out there. And most importantly you want to ensure that anything you say will keep the positive, emotional vibe. On P ages 144-145, I listed six different topics of conversation: λ

Past experiences

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Favorite vacations

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Best experiences

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Uplifting news or events

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Dreams and aspirations

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‘What if’ questions

On your cheat sheet, write down at least 10 different ‘conversation crutches’ from this list that you can use whenever there’s a pause. Furthermore, you will also want to use the info on P ages 145-146 and try to “hook” what she’s saying and lead it towards a fun, flirty discussion.

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Maintaining Sexual Tension Again, sexual tension is the key component to the entire course. That’s why you need to make sure you’re keeping this up throughout the ENTIRE conversation. First off, write down O N E o r T W O w a y s that you can create sexual tension with the women you’re meeting. On P ages 188-193, you’ll find 4 basic ways to do this. Then you want to create 2-3 “commitment and consistency statements” (P ages 210-211). The goal here is challenge women and get them to live up to your expectations. Finally once you become more comfortable with flirting conversations, I recommend you use the 3 ADVANCED tactics I provided on P ages 216-220.

Fun, Flirty Games Flirting isn’t all about what you say. A lot of times you can create this fun vibe by playing games. On Pages 232239, you’ll find a list of different games you can play whenever you’re talking to women in a social setting.

Handling Her Tests Most women will not let you tease them without doing stuff back. Honestly, you want girls to be teasing you and joking around. This is a sign that you’ve engaged the emotional side of her brain.

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But often, you’ll experience a moment when a girl tests you to see what kind of man she’s dealing with. That’s why it’s important to review the information on Pages 200-201. Furthermore, it’s equally important to do your own tests on a woman to see if she’s the kind of girl that you want in your life. Refer to P ages 204-206 for how to do this.

Her Attraction Signals How do you know when a flirting conversation is working? Well you can tell by the body language she’s displaying. It’s important to understand these signals, because this will be your cue to physically escalate the conversation and start moving things towards intimacy. If you’re doing your job right, you’ll receive a ton of attraction signals. On P ages 244-250, you’ll find a list of 18 signals that a woman is interested in you. Once you get at least 3, you want to start moving things towards the seduction…

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#4- The Seduction As I mentioned in Flirt Mastery, this system does NOT focus on teaching guys seduction skills. But I do think it’s important to know when a conversation is moving towards this area. In this section, we’re going to cover the basics of how to turn flirting into a seduction.

Obvious, Sensual, and Sexual Touching Like I said, the way you touch women can be that secret ingredient to creating an incredible amount of sexual tension. That’s why it’s important to understand how to start touching women with intention as you get deeper into your conversation. On P ages 101-109, I detail everything you need to know to progress from innocently touching a girl all the way to sexual, seductive touching.

Qualify Her Women want to feel like they’ve “earned” a guy’s attention. That’s why it’s important to qualify her and make her feel like the things she’s saying is the reason that you’re interested in her. On Page 213 you’ll find a list of qualifying statements you can use. Write down a few of these on your cheat sheet and use them whenever you want a woman to qualify herself.

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Showing Your Interest At a certain point, you must transition from being the teasing guy and show that you’re genuinely interested in a girl. On P ages 257-260 I cover this topic. Write down a few ways you can show your interest and different ways you can demonstrate that she’s really impressed you.

Rapport Rapport is that timeframe where two know there is mutual interest and they focus on building a deeper connection. (This is what people unconsciously focus on when they go on dates) By establishing rapport, you’re basically showing a girl that you’re genuinely interested and you’re not just looking to get laid! On P ages 264-268, I cover 5 ways to build rapport. Furthermore, I provided 3 basic rules for the rapport stage on P ages 269-271.

Kissing and Getting Sexual In the rapport stage (or even before) you’ll start to see some of the sexual signals that are listed on Pages 250255. It’s at this point where you’ll start to kiss her. This is the moment where you’re moving out of flirting and moving towards seducing her!

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Review and Improve Conversations won’t always go well. Sometimes you’ll encounter moments when a woman is not interested OR you did something wrong. That’s why it’s important to constantly review your conversations and figure out how to improve upon them. So in this last section, we’re going to briefly list two actions you should every time you talk to a girl.

Calibration On P ages 280-281, I cover the basics of calibration. When you’re talking to a girl, it’s important to consistently adapt the feedback that you’re getting. For instance… some girls REALLY respond to teasing. So when you see that she’s eating it up, you can calibrate and start to interject more of this quality. On the other hand, you’ll often encounter women who don’t like to be teased and you’ll get a negative reaction. When this happens you can calibrate and start discussing fun topics that aren’t so centered on “busting her balls”.

Questions to Ask Yourself On P ages 278-279, you’ll find a series of questions. What I want you to do is write ALL of these questions down on your cheat sheet. Then after every conversation, do a quick evaluation. Ask yourself these questions. If you feel like you screwed up, 31



then make a mental note to focus on this area with the NEXT girl you approach. Doing this on a regular basics will help overcome most of the major obstacles and sticking points that you have when you’re talking to women.

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